u/Chance_Adagio_19

Any public setting like G-Y-M, cafe, park, market, concert, festival etc...there is this one person from opposite sex who you may not know and who you keep glancing at and notice they too were glancing at you before immediately looking away.

It keeps happening every now and then in that brief amount of time you spend there.

What can one infer from this? Attraction? Creep allert? Random sightseeing? Casual stuff?

From my personal experiences, many attractive individuals exhibit a body language which tells their lack of confidence.

Such as, they tend to people pleasers, tend to be attentions seekers, they rarely tend to be rebellious and tend to abide by group thinking norms.

In short they tend to be less like themselves and more like what society would expect from them to be like.

Attractive women act "forced" feminine around guys to garner their attention, like changing her voice into more feminine, laughing and acting more oblivious etc.

Attractive men similarly act on stereotypical ways like trying to act fake confident in some situations, forcing themselves to be an extrovert when it is obvious they are not etc.

The reason is simple...they want that dopamine rush.

Attractive individuals frequently experience a surge in their dopamine knowing others consider them attractive, and once they are hit with it they constantly crave for it be it in social media or real life...and hence they tend to act in ways which would please the masses instead of being themselves...this is a never ending cycle.

Could you guys relate to what I am saying? Have you noticed something like this too?

Again not a 100% guaranteed sign but whenever a woman does something more than what is needed there is chance she is doing this because she likes you.

For instance when you ask her how her day was(or any other question) and she gives you the most detailed and redundant information, she is doing it so that she can slip more details about herself to you to make an impression about her to you through this convo.

Or when you ask her a favor and she goes an extra mile in doing it.

It can definitely be because she is an over talkative person or she is just a really good person, but there is also possibility of attraction, particularly when she is being like this to you and not others.

It can also be because she is extremely nervous due to her attraction, and a lot of details( some incoherent ones as well) is simply slipping out of her unintentionally.😅

Again, not a guaranteed sign, but hey its something to ponder over I guess.

Typucally I have seen a lot of situation varying from women just looking down while passing by, stealing glances and taking a complete 180 degree turn and go back 😳.

What are some things women do when they are faced with this high stress situation 😂?

So for women here who get uncomfortable with certain body language cues like people staring at them, mildly touching them, standing really close to them etc, do you make an exception if the guy who does it is someone you are attracted to?

You may get uncomfortable if someone stares at ypu but is it possible that kinda like it if that someone is a guy you are attracted to? Same for other cues as well?

Or Is it uniform or same for everyone irrespective of your attraction?

Non christian here and please forgive me if I offended anyone unintentionally.

Why do christians believe that Jesus was god(or son of god) and not a prophet like other religions from the same region believed?

The other two major religion also has a similar conception about god, but christianity seems to differ widely from that.

Is it possible that jesus was considered a human during his time but later he came to be associated as god?

Non christian here and please forgive me if I offended anyone unintentionally.

Why do christians believe that Jesus was god(or son of god) and not a prophet like other religions from the same region believed?

The other two major religion also has a similar conception about god, but christianity seems to differ widely from that.

Is it possible that jesus was considered a human during his time but later he came to be associated as god?

Women, why giving signs which can easily be either misinterpreted or remain ambiguous even after having 100% attraction to the guy? Why remaining in the grey region when you can be in the sure region?

Not saying to walk up to him and declare your attraction but ateast try to completely match him when he initiates or tries.

Not saying all women do this.

And once you know of their attraction to you, what do you do if you like them or not like them?

Be it in your school, college, neighborhood or office if you have noticed that you have been frequently running into this one person more often than what you might think is normal then there is strong chance that this person might find you attractive.

Basically they are trying to match their timings and location with yours so that they could get a good look at you.

Though the definition of normal might vary based on your circumstances and their schedule.

Women do it very often but men tend to miss this one a lot. Men also do this as well.

This is also true if you notice that a person who you previously saw very rarely but are now running into you very often.

Frequency of accidental meetings is a strong sign of presence of attraction, though it is not the case always.

Just like how no two women will show the same body language of attraction towards the same guy, a woman need not show the same body language of attraction to two completely different men.

Her body language heavily depends on the type of man she is dealing with...his group reputation, his perceived personality traits, his social intelligence, his popularity etc.

Based on that, if she thinks you are someone who is highly popular and easy to deal with, she may act more bold and open than if she thinks you are cold and reserved in which case she might be more subtle.

So for men, understanding more about yourself can help you in analysing a woman's body language better.

So assuming you know you are attractive in general, whats your body language around other attractive people when you are attracted to them versus when you are not?

Does knowing about your own attractiveness make a difference in your body language which might be absent in other folks?

Basically many women say they are really uncomfortable around the guy they are attracted to because they can't be like their usual self around him and always worry about messing things up.

So they end up avoiding him, talking very little to him, not at all try to look at him and in general ignore him.

But then women also do the same thing with a guy they dislike or think is creepy for some reason.

So how to discern the two? What body cues and signs shall one look for for differentiating the two?

So I watched The Game(1997) and in it there was a scene which got me intrigued.

SPOILER- The main guy's dad died by jumping off the roof and it was implied that his granpa too died the same way. It was implied this curse will soon catch up to our main guy and to prevent this his brother set up all this.

But unfortunately this one dealt with the curse thing in a superficial way, and I would have loved some horror in it.

Now I am interested in horror movies where there is a long standing curse which has been affecting people or families or villages or communities for generations and now our main character is coming up with ways to get rid of this curse.

Something really scary and creepy would be better. Any recommendations guys?