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Image 1 — I need welp with talking to my dad

I need welp with talking to my dad

*help
I’ve been told many times that my dad is a narcissist, but I struggle with understanding the definition. What I’m asking for though, is help with communicating with him.

The best way I can explain how he communicates is that he goes against the grain on every single little thing. For example, I asked him what size bed he had for me (since I will have to live with him fairly soon due to financial reasons), and attached are screenshots of our texts (I’m blotting out personal information). He tries to take control.

It’s also worthy to note that I lived with him for a year and a half a few years back… and I really suffered because of it. I have certain needs that have to be met (autistic, anxiety disorder, depression, addiction recovery, etc) and despite myself completely opening up to him, he never took a piece of my advice. I don’t want to live with him again… but I also don’t have any other reasonable choice in this matter.

I know that I need him to feel like he’s ‘doing me a favor’ or like he’s ‘saving the day,’ but I need help on how to do that. He also is happily married to his current wife (spouse number 4), and she’s a psychologist for the school district, but she’s a little different and I’m not too sure about her yet.

If y’all have any questions, suggestions, things to keep in mind or advice, please share! It took a long time for me to recover from last time, and I’m just trying to get up on my feet and move out.

u/Char_TeamEmber — 2 days ago

▲ 0 r/dadjokes

Party with a line

So there was a party that was going on, biggest one of the year. Everyone wanted to be there, but some people had to work late. The party was great enough though that they still came even though it would be winding down soon.

So when the last people arrived at the party, they were very confused to see a long line of party guests waiting for something. They all seemed to be in great anticipation and excited, and barely anyone was dancing or doing anything else.

What could be so great and wonderful that the majority of partygoers were waiting in line instead of partying? One of the newcomers could see that the line led to the refreshment table. What was so great of a refreshment that everyone wanted some, despite the party around them?

And do you know what it was?

>!It was the punch line!!<

(Made by myself.)

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u/Char_TeamEmber — 17 days ago

▲ 2 r/car

What are these things?

Hi, I recently bought a car and because my last one was a 2004 Impala, this new 2015 Sion is quite a bit of an upgrade. Problem is I don’t know what some of the things in the trunk are for? I understand that underneath this stuff is the spare tire, but I don’t know what the compartments or the fabric thing is.

Can anyone help?

u/Char_TeamEmber — 1 month ago

▲ 1 r/MinecraftMod

Abandoned Computer Lab

I am trying to find a mod (not sure version) that I used a while back. It had some sort of abandoned and overgrown building (2 floors) with old computers in it on desks, and I think it was a laboratory because there was some dark deactivated new portal frame in a large testing room behind broken glass. Next to it was the only working PC, and I had to insert a drive and load a program. I didn't get much farther because I was exploring other mods, but I also think i was collecting something cool like computer drives or something for fun.

Please help, I'd like to see it again and explore it more- Thanks either way!

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u/Char_TeamEmber — 1 month ago