Years from today fallacy
Should i contact her 2 years from today.
I am M24 currently preparing for exams. So i met her 2 years ago on a trip, later the relationship started. Was LDR 1 year post the relationship she moved out from her hometown to a new city. 6 months post that she got into a relationship with a guy there.
I found out when i went to meet her as a surprise. After that i walked out of her, 6 months no contact. Yet as i am kinda stuck in the preparation and not doing anything perse apart from it. Therefore still stuck on her. She was my first girlfriend. I was her third bf.
So now i sometimes think of contacting her 2 years from now. When hopefully i would be doing something in life. Just to check what happened to her and if she ever married that guy
Is there anybody who was in my shoes. Did you ever contacted your ex and with time they became irrelevant to do so?(i hope this happens with me)