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before naging kami halos parang aso siya na naghahabol tas grabe din ang effort, pero nung naging kami na wala na, kahit isang tangkay ng flower wala. Di narin nagpaplano ng dates, if may dates man, gusto niya don lang kami lagi sa bahay nila at ayaw na niya masyado yung lumalabas kami like we used to, palaging ako nagpaplano. Alam ko napaka shallow nito ah, pero dati di siya natutulog para lang makausap ako (different shifts) pero nung naging kami na, kahit 1 hour hirap na siyang ilaan saakin dahil pagod daw siya. Nakausap ko na siya regarding there pero sabi niya comfy na daw kasi siya sakin so di na siya mag mamask up. Naiintindihan ko din naman na pagod siya minsan kaya di ko siya iniistorbo. Men of reddit, is it normal or should i be worried? Di ko nadin siya makausap ng maayos since lagi siyang pagod kahit same lang naman yung routine niya nung nililigawan niya ko atsaka ngayon. One time dineretsa ko siya in a malumanay at mahinhin way "love, bakit kahit bare minimum effort di nako nakakareceive? dahil ba nakuha mo na ko?" sabi niya hindi daw ganun.

My man is disaapointed because he always the one to initiate even though i always agree everytime he wanna have sex with me, he wants me to initiate sometimes but i need some tips. Any??

I WOUDN'T SAY HE DOESN'T LIKE TO GO DOWN ON ME BECAUSE EVEN I HAVE PERIOD HE STILL WANNA EAT ME.
BUT EVERYTIME HE GIVES ME HEAD, IT ONLY LAST 10-20 SECONDS, I KNOW, YOU KNOW, EVERYONE KNOWS IT'S NOT ENOUGH!
THEN AFTER THAT HE MAKE ME GIVE HEAD TO HIM TILL HE CUMS. IT'S UNFAIR THO. ANY TIPS ON HOW TO MAKE HIM EAT ME MORE UNTIL I CUM TOO?

EDIT: I ALWAYS SAYS "KEEP GOING" "DON'T STOP" BUT STILL.... HE STOPS

Every Saturday lumalabas kami ni BF, pero i insist na ite-treat ko siya sa food. So ako yung babaeng wala namang pake kung gagastos ako or 50/50 since medyo mahirap sila while me is medyo nakakaangat financially. After ng date namin, na stranded kami at na short ako ng 70 pesos lang para makapag book ng grab, (Usapan kaniya kaniyang pamasahe) Since stranded nga, nag grab nalang kami kaya na short ako since medyo mahal. Nangutang ako sakaniya (utang, kaseh babayaran ko pag uwi) ng 70 pesos, pero sabi niya wala daw. Pero nung nasilip ko accidentally yung ebank niya may 700 pesos siya. I mean mababaw lang pero nag ooverthink ako if normal lang ba na makaramdam ako ng tampo?

I mean ako na sumagot lahat ng date namin (as i said) Ang ginastos niya lang ay yung transpo niya papunta.

Nagdadalawang isip ako kung mali ko rin dahil di ako prepared since ako yung nag aya or something off talaga sa actions niya na ganun.

EDIT: tinanong ko na siya tas sabi niya sakin "di sakin yun, sa mama ko yun eh"

CHIKA KO LANG IN UUPERCASE KASEH NAKAKALOKA, SO SINCE LAST YEAR MAY ISANG CERTAIN ACCOUNT NA VIEW NANG VIEW SA STORY KO, NUNG UNA WALA AKONG PAKE, NOT UNTIL INIISTALK NA RIN NIYA YUNG MGA COF KO AND FAMILY. ETO PA, TUWING NAGPOPOST AKO LAGI PA YAN SIYANG NAUUNA SA PAG VIEW.

NETONG NAKARAAN INIISTALK NIYA KO (CLEARLY) BECAUSE ACCIDENTALLY NIYANG NA-LIKE YUNG 2 PHOTOS SA STORY HIGHLIGHTS KO PERO NIREMOVE NIYA KAAGAD KASO NAG NOTIF NA SA PHONE KO HAHAHHA.

TAS DI KO NA SIYA MA STALK KASEH NAKADEACT NA, NATAKOT ATA CHAROOOT. AFTER FEW HOURS NAGREACTIVATE ULI ANG LOKO. SABAY VIEW ULI NA PARANG NOTHING HAPPENED.

TAS KAGABI FINOLLOW NIYA KO PERO INALIS NIYA KAAGAD KASO AS USUAL, NAGNOTIF KAAGAD SA PHONE KO. SO DI NAKO NAKAPAGPIGIL, FINOLLOW KO NA RIN SIYA, KASO DINEDELETE NIYA YUNG REQUEST, PAPANSIN YARN?

KAYA NOW NAGPRIVATE NAKO NG ACCOUNT

ETO PAAAA NGA, NAKAFOLLOW YUNG ACCOUNT NAYUN SA EX NG BF KO. NUNG FINOLLOW KO SIYA, INALIS NIYA KAAGAD YUNG FOLLOW SA EX NG BF KO HAHHAHA AMBILIS PERO NAHULI PADIN.

SINO KAYA TO? COOL OFF KAMI NGAYON NI PARTNER SO IM KINDA WONDERING, IS IT THE EX OR MY BF OR WHO THE HELL KNOWS? HAHAHHA

THOUGHTS?

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There is this certain account that has been consistently viewing my Instagram stories for a long time. Sometimes it’s even the first one to view them. At first, I didn’t think much of it, but recently I noticed it’s becoming more noticeable and consistent.

Lately, that same account has also started viewing my friends’ stories, including my brother’s.

Yesterday, something strange happened. The account reacted to photos in my Instagram highlights, which made it very noticeable. The reaction was removed quickly, but I still received the notification on my phone. After that, the account suddenly deactivated, which I thought might be because they were embarrassed or made a mistake.

However, a few hours later, the account reactivated again and continued viewing my stories like nothing happened. Then last night, the account followed me, but removed the follow request almost immediately. I followed back out of curiosity, but I also removed my request shortly after.

This has been going on since last year. The account consistently views my stories, and the behavior feels very intentional at this point.

For context, this account is from my boyfriend’s ex-followers list. I’m not sure if that’s just a coincidence or if it’s relevant.

I’m starting to feel a bit uneasy about it and I’m not sure what to think anymore.

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IM WONDERING WHO'S BEHIND THIS BURNER ACCOUNT, I CAN TRACK THEM IF I WANT TO BUT I HAVE TO PAY SO IS IT WORTH IT? FOR NOW I SET MY ACCOUNT INTO PRIVATE.