u/Chestnut_Moonx

So far I’ve tried Sertraline 50mg, Venlafaxine, and now Citalopram for the last 4 weeks. I only stayed on Sertraline for about 2 weeks because I was struggling badly with the adjustment period and wanted to stop. My GP suggested switching to Citalopram because it can be better for anxiety. I honestly can’t fully tell if the meds are working yet because I removed my biggest trigger before starting them. I think they might be stabilising my mood a bit, but it’s hard to know because the side effects are negatively affecting me and my overall mood.

The biggest issue is how much they’ve affected my relationship. My sex drive and desire for affection have dropped massively. It’s caused a lot of issues in my relationship. My brain also feels much fuzzier and my concentration is worse than before. I already struggle with concentration and I’m planning to look into a possible ADHD diagnosis, but the antidepressants have definitely made that side of things worse. I’ve also had mild headaches on and off. At first they affected my sleep and caused nausea to a point where it was harder to manage , so I had to experiment with what time I took them. Lately I’ve also been extremely exhausted and can easily sleep for another 3–6 hours during the day. The brain fog is crazy and I’ve locked myself out of my house (3-5 times) more in the last few weeks than my entire life.

I recently left my previous job because it wasn’t good for my mental health, and I wanted time to adjust to the medication before looking for something else. I wouldn’t say I feel severely depressed — more low mood, emotionally unstable at times, and frustrated — but I mainly started medication to help stabilise my mood. I’m mostly just too exhausted to even relax and concentrate on things. I’m eating healthy, drinking water and sleeping enough but still feel awful. I feel the symptoms hitting hard 2-3 hours usually after taking a dose. The nausea is awful. I’ve become a lot more irritated and struggling to engage in Threapy as I feel so exhausted

I know I’m only 4 weeks in and I’m willing to give it more time, but I’m worried about whether this is normal or if things actually improve. I can’t tell if I’m feeling depressed in general or if the antidepressants make it worse. I do know they make me feel not like myself and I felt better during the time I missed doses to switch to new medication. I want to take my mental health seriously so I’m willing to take meds if it helps but I just don’t seem to be having any luck. I was on Sertraline 25mg years ago and it really helped me through a rough patch.

Would really appreciate hearing other people’s experiences.

So far I’ve tried Sertraline 50mg, Venlafaxine, and now Citalopram for the last 4 weeks. I only stayed on Sertraline for about 2 weeks because I was struggling badly with the adjustment period and wanted to stop. My GP suggested switching to Citalopram because it can be better for anxiety. I honestly can’t fully tell if the meds are working yet because I removed my biggest trigger before starting them. I think they might be stabilising my mood a bit, but it’s hard to know because the side effects are negatively affecting me and my overall mood.

The biggest issue is how much they’ve affected my relationship. My sex drive and desire for affection have dropped massively. My brain also feels much fuzzier and my concentration is worse than before. I already struggle with concentration and I’m planning to look into a possible ADHD diagnosis, but the antidepressants have definitely made that side of things worse. I’ve also had mild headaches on and off. At first they affected my sleep and caused nausea, so I had to experiment with what time I took them. Lately I’ve also been extremely exhausted and can easily sleep for another 3–5 hours during the day.

I recently left my previous job because it wasn’t good for my mental health, and I wanted time to adjust to the medication before looking for something else. I wouldn’t say I feel severely depressed — more low mood, emotionally unstable at times, and frustrated — but I mainly started medication to help stabilise my mood. I’m mostly just too exhausted to even relax and concentrate on things. I’m eating healthy, drinking water and sleeping enough but still feel awful.

I know I’m only 4 weeks in and I’m willing to give it more time, but I’m worried about whether this is normal or if things actually improve. I can’t tell if I’m feeling depressed in general or if the antidepressants make it worse. I do know they make me feel not like myself and I felt better during the time I missed doses to switch to new medication. I want to take my mental health seriously so I’m willing to take meds if it helps but I just don’t seem to be having any luck. I was on Sertraline 25mg years ago and it really helped me through a rough patch.

Would really appreciate hearing other people’s experiences.

Hey! I’m 28F based in London and looking to make some genuine platonic female friendships only— ideally with people nearby so we can actually hang out.

I’m currently taking some time off work to focus on my health and wellbeing, so I’ve got a bit more free time than usual. I’ve got a lot on my plate and not in the best headspace so would appreciate so lighthearted casual conversations. I’ve had some pretty frustrating experiences on Reddit lately and would like to change that.

I can be a little introverted/nerdy at first, but once I’m comfortable I’m very chatty. I really value relaxed, low-pressure friendships where we can just vibe, talk about anything, and enjoy each other’s company.

A few things I’m into:

• PC gaming — currently playing 7 Days to Die, Conan Exiles, and Red Dead Online, but always open to co-op recommendations

• Creative workshops/classes — I love hands-on activities (cake decorating has been a favourite so far!)

• Exploring cafés, restaurants, and cosy spots around London — big foodie here. I especially love Asian desserts, hot pot, and boba

• TV shows/K-dramas/anime — The Good Place, Lucifer, Bridgerton, true crime, slice-of-life anime, romance, supernatural, isekai, etc.

• Animals — I used to work at a cattery and kennels that supported a shelter, and I also studied animal management in college

• Chill conversations, pet pics, funny reels spammed on Insta, and generally good vibes

If you think we’d get along, feel free to message me 😊

26+ only please so I don’t feel too old haha, thanks!

Hey! I’m 28F based in London and looking to make some actual platonic friendships — I have a partner, so this is strictly friends only 😊

I’m currently taking some time off work to focus on my health and wellbeing, which means I’ve got a bit more free time and would love to meet people to chat with, game with, and hopefully hang out with regularly.

I’m more on the introverted/nerdy side, but once I’m comfortable I’m very talkative and love low-pressure friendships where we can just relax, chat, and enjoy each other’s company.

Things I’m into:
• PC gaming — currently into 7 Days to Die, Conan Exiles, Red Dead Online, etc. Always open to trying new co-op games
• Creative workshops/classes — I love hands-on stuff and have done things like cake decorating before
• Exploring cute cafés, restaurants, and cosy spots around London (huge foodie)
• TV shows/K-dramas/anime — The Good Place, Lucifer, Bridgerton, true crime, slice-of-life anime, romance, supernatural, isekai, etc.
• Chill chats, sharing memes/reels, and generally just good company

Would especially love to meet people nearby who’d actually like to build a proper friendship over time rather than just small talk for a day and disappearing 😅

Please respect that this is strictly platonic — inappropriate or flirty messages will be ignored/blocked.

If you think we’d get along, feel free to message me!

Hey everyone 👋

I’m a 28F based in London looking to make some genuine platonic friendships (I have a partner, just looking for friends 😊). I have a lot of free time as currently taking time off before looking for a new job to focus on my health and wellbeing.

I’m a bit introverted, nerdy, and socially awkward/quirky at first, but I warm up once I’m comfortable. I’d really love to meet people I can actually hang out with regularly and build proper friendships with.

A bit about what I’m into:

- PC gaming (would love someone to play/co-op with). I play 7days, Conan, Red dead online etc. Open to new games.

- Trying out creative/craft workshops or classes (anything hands-on and fun). Previously done cake decorating ones.

- Exploring cute cafes, restaurants, and chill spots around London as I’m a massive foodie.

- I also enjoy shows like The Good Place, Lucifer, Bridgerton,true crime series, and I’ve recently gotten into K-dramas. Anime-wise, I like slice of life, romance, supernatural, and isekai

- Generally low-pressure hangs, chats, and good company

If you’re also looking to make new friends in London and think we might vibe, feel free to drop me a message 😊

This is a long shot but if anyone knows a local tailor or does sewing I’d appreciate a recommendation.

The local tailoring shops staff are all men.
I would really prefer a female tailor as the alteration is in the chest area as a few of my new dresses have deep v plunges which are very revealing. I am a plus size big chested woman so I have this issue with all my clothes tbh. I pull the fabric over and have been using safety pins but would like to alter them if possible as it makes me feel self conscious.

The dresses aren’t super high quality like Shein and H&M mostly because they are some of only brands that make clothes to fit my shorter plus size body. I’m not sure if I should just return the dresses or if it’s possible to have them tailored and how much it would cost to see if it’s worth it.

This is a long shot but if anyone knows a local tailor or does sewing I’d appreciate a recommendation.

The local tailoring shops staff are all men.
I would really prefer a female tailor as the alteration is in the chest area as a few of my new dresses have deep v plunges which are very revealing. I am a plus size big chested woman so I have this issue with all my clothes tbh. I pull the fabric over and have been using safety pins but would like to alter them if possible as it makes me feel self conscious.

The dresses aren’t super high quality like Shein and H&M mostly because they are some of only brands that make clothes to fit my shorter plus size body. I’m not sure if I should just return the dresses or if it’s possible to have them tailored and how much it would cost to see if it’s worth it.

I’ve recently left my job and I’m taking some time to recharge before figuring out my next steps. I’m also adjusting to some new medication at the moment, so my energy’s been a bit low and I’m mostly just trying to keep myself busy and find a bit of routine again. I’m planning to join a local gym next month, but for now I’ve got quite a bit of free time and would love to connect with some new people.

I’m mainly into PC survival games like Conan Exiles, 7 Days to Die, Green Hell, and The Forest, but I also enjoy trying out more relaxed multiplayer games from time to time. I like co-op gameplay in general building, surviving chaos, and having a laugh along the way.

Outside of gaming, I’m into food (especially Asian desserts), baking, and creative hobbies like painting and collaging. I’m a big animal lover especially cats and I used to keep a 200L fish tank, which I’d love to get back into someday. I’ve also been wanting to get back into reading romance books, so I’d really appreciate any recommendations!

I also enjoy watching shows like The Good Place, Lucifer, Bridgerton, true crime series, and I’ve recently gotten into K-dramas too. Anime-wise, I like slice of life, romance, supernatural, and isekai especially villainess-style shows like May I Ask for One Final Thing?. My all time favourite is probably apothecary diaries at the moment.

Looking to meet chill, genuine people to chat with and connect over shared interests, random conversations, and general life chaos 😄

Strictly platonic as have a partner. Just here to make some new friends. Also over 25+ please.