u/Cinnadust_Mix

I been seeing alot of posts on TikTok of so many people who say they don't want to be friends or don't even want get to know their coworkers or that you should not become friends with your coworkers and it's just like... why? I mean for one you see them on a consistent basis so eventually y'all will talk at some point, and two once you're out of school your only option for making social connections is through your job, I mean where the fuck else are you supposed to make friends? like you telling people that they can't make connections at work then what are they supposed to do? and three making friends at work generally makes the environment feel less boring and shitty, when you have others to talk to and joke around with the day will go by much faster, when I first started working at the grocery store it felt so long and boring until I made some friends and now I actually look forward to going.

The selfishness and lone wolf mentality of americans genuinely needs to be studied, for one they don't care about anything unless it affects them personally like they're just apathetic to other people's suffering, and two most seem to prefer living alone in isolation away from their families, I've seen some even go as far as to claim that they'll rather struggle on their own than live with other people, not realizing that families sticking together is how you build generational wealth, also less stress since you have other people helping you cover bills, food and other expenses, groups accomplish shit faster than lone wolves, and three you're going to have a very difficult time trying to make friends in america, not only because of the anti-social infrastructure but also becuse most people just seem unwilling to connect with new people outside of their little clicks, you can try to talk to people in public places and they will act as if you're bothering them, they'll be very dry with you and won't even try to keep a conversation going, makes it feel like you're a nuisance and then they wonder why there's a loneliness crisis, that way of living is unnatural and unhealthy, we did not evolve to be solitary animals.

The world, the planet we live on is really a sad, dark, and cruel place filled with misery and unfairness which is why humans like to make up lies, give meaning to things, and be overly positive all the time in order to cope, and when you don't do that and just see the world for what it is people will get mad at you and attack you like there's something wrong with you, notice how whenever you criticize the dating game and talk about the black pill people get mad and attack you? that's because deep down subconsciously they know you're right about what you're saying but since they're conditioned to be overly positive they'll gaslight you for being "negative" when you're just being realistic, this whole belief that women don't care about looks is a big fat lie. humans are inherently shallow beings we judge things based off of how they look, if people were to see an alien with 6 eyes and 4 legs they would be scared of it and avoid it even if that alien was cool and safe, simply because the way it looks is unsettling. if you're an ugly man it doesn't matter if you have a good personality or good character women will not want nothing to do with you, hell if you look hideous enough you won't even be able to get a platonic friendship from them. and throughout history only 40% of men were able to successfully procreate and that alone tells you everything, and this just goes back to life being unfair, not everybody can win in life. some are born with genetic diseases that keep them in a permanent vegetative state and pain. you got some people who will be alone the rest of their life and will die alone never being able to know what its like to have a romantic partner or children, some animals in the wild get killed and eaten by predators right after they were just born and ain't nothing that could of been done about it. life is just unfair and I don't know why people don't want to accept that. normies like to call our mindset "unrealistic" when it's actually the other way around. believing that everybody has the ability to live a good life is delusional.

I just feel like america is a lost cause, it will never have universal healthcare, education, shelter, food etc these will never be recognized as human rights, there will never be livable wages, the parasitic elites will never be taxed, gun reforms will never happen and mass school shootings will continue because americans worship them and care more about their gun "rights" than they do the collective good, the prison system will never be reformed to be humane and rehabilitation focused because the majority of them see inmates as subhuman scum who deserve pain. it will never stop invading, terrorizing, and genociding other countries that can't defend themselves, it will never end systemic racism. like I truly believe america is a lost cause. it's always been a barbaric shithole since it's existence and it will remain that way until it collapses.

I was reading up on the support cliff that special needs kids face when they hit 18-21 and the loss of the structured school system, most of the time they end up in prison which isn't surprising since prisons are the Temu versions of aslyums, or they end up homeless or dead, or some will just simply rot away in the house with nothing to do or no where to go since they're too old for most programs and they're parents have to constantly keep them entertained, I have a friend with a severely autistic 22 year old and they have to give him stuff to do because he's too old to join anything that will give him structure. like the way our society treats the special needs and mentally ill is fucking disgusting.

Once I learned about the harsh reality of the dating game through blackpill content creators things started to make sense, the vast majority of women select mates based off of looks, all that shit about "personality" and "confidence" does not matter, if you look good that alone will get you through the door, and it's like I don't know why people are so dead set on denying this like they act as if we're stupid and that we're just pulling shit out of our ass and it's like the blackpill has evidence to back it up, there's been studies that have shown women find most men to be unattractive, there's been social experiments done to show how women treat men who are ugly vs those who are attractive that approach them in public and those that were ugly tended to get more negative reactions. and throughout history only 40% of men successfully procreated which that alone tells you everything you need to know. and most of who speak of the BP know this from life experiences, growing up and even to this day I've seen a lot of women and girls overlook the obvious bad traits of guys and still got with them anyway because they were sexually appealing and when you're attracted to somebody you're going to ignore their bad traits, I mean I have a very good personality, I'm kind hearted, very social, I've been told how I'm a gentlemen, but yet I still faced endless rejections and hostility from women throughout my school years and to now because I'm just not physically attractive and on top of that neurodivergent, I've been called "slow" "sped" "weird" because they picked up on my autism, and what really pisses me off is when men speak out about this we get attacked by normal people like we get the slurs "incel" and "misogynist" thrown at us, or they will deny our life experience and then proceed to make up something negative about us to try to justify our mistreatment by women, like they'll say shit like "nO aCtUaLlY iT wAs yOuR aTtiUdE" as if they know you personally, as if they was around you to see it with their own eyes. and it's like don't let them do that to you because they will make up shit about you instead of acknowledging who the real problem is. and I'm already expecting to get alot of negativity and gaslighting in the comment section and I'll be happy to use that block button in an instant. It's not your fault if you was mistreated, excluded, and outcasted your whole life and don't let nobody who's never been in your shoes try to tell you about your own life as if they know you like a book.