u/Clashroyalefrog

I am a 19 year old guy that never had sex so I was wondering if once you have sex you start wanting sex more or no.

Before young men could actually have access to sex tapes or widespread naked pictures of women did they actually have that much lust as today ? I guess that in the past, men only used to witness sex or women being revealing when they were married which therefore made them non lustful before marriage and more focused on the curiosity side of things, it also made them wait way longer for sex (them being 30-40 etc.) since they didn’t know how good that could be or how attractive women looked like naked, but I might be wrong. So young guys weren’t horny which allowed them to build themselves until their 30s to be able to provide for their family withoit constantly thinikng about sex along the way since they cannot think of something they don’t know about.

Now something that was for most men in history one of the best rewards is available for any man on the internet so this probably has negative effects for young men. But the question is: does porn satisfy an already existing drive present in young men or does it fuel and create it ? Btw I am talking purely about young men, not what older guys do, this is my point, guys aren’t supposed to be horny at 18.

I am a fairly attractive guy, the sexual revolution gives me the opportunity that my looks now matter and that the only thing that matters (even tho I have money) is not just convincing her dad that you have more money than the other guy so you can marry his daughter as it was the case in the “glorious past”.

A lot of men want to romanticize the past where ugly guys could just make more money than the other guy and marry a smoking hot woman since now this same woman has agency and does not depend on her father liking the guy to sleep with him, sure, she could still marry the ugly guy for the money but rules have changed and it’s harder for them, it also gives a shot to young guys for mating, I as a 19 year old can have sex with a woman my age without having to wait 20 years to be able to compete with other 40 year olds that can crack jokes with her dad. I do wonder if looks actually did matter in the past lol.

So the sexual revolution made looks matter for men, so for handsome guys it’s amazing, in the past attractive guys were just subject to jealousy by other men while having no female attention because women had no agency.

I will get a ton of hate comments for that but genuinely asking, since I am not aiming to ever have a wife or a family I think that there is a trap in having sex in my specific case and I know a lot of guys here preach the lifestyle of hooking up forever and not settling down but there is an issue for guys like us.

We can agree that women in their 20s are the most attractive and that they are the ones you want to bang forever if you don’t settle down ?You could go on until what ? MILFs also are attractive but you rarely are going to get women in their 40s wanting to have ONS so the pool still goes down. You could say that if you take care of yourself age doesn’t become an issue but there is a limit, most 20 year old women dont want to sleep with a 65 year old guy except if money is involved, there might be some that like that but the pool gets smaller, it means that you would have to spend your last days paying for escorts to have sex which would give you an ego decrease and be quite a predatory thing to do, so genuinely speaking, what are you guys planning ? As for me I think that never having sex is the answer here if you do not desire ever having an LTR, prove me wrong.

Genuinely speaking tho, this is something I am scared about as a guy that does not ever want to get into an LTR

Lets say a rich guy was in a relationship and wanted to know if the woman he dates really likes him for himself or just wants him to be provided for, the latter isn’t bad btw, everybody wants to have a better life and women providing companionship and sex in exchange for material things is a pretty fair exchange, its just fun to know what is the truth.

What test could someone truly put in place ? For instance if she acts overly jealous and gets into strong emotions with you would that mean she likes you enough to not show indifference ? I heard that ironically the angrier and crazier she gets the more she likes you lol or she might just want to protect her place to be provided for, so we don’t truly know. If the guy brings hot female friends in his entourage as a test or goes out openly to clubs alone should her reaction or indifference give away her sentiment ?

Apparently, bars and clubs are some the best places to get easy hookups, however technically speaking how do people even legally do it ? Because if you are at one of those places you obviously are going to drink except if you are weird and do not like alcohol like me, and fucking someone while they are drunk is illegal, so what do you guys do ? Do you just get their number and then get on dates with them ? But in that case it wouldn’t be a one night hookup.

I am 19 (Canada so I can legally drink) and I have been to a few of these places, however my problem is first of all the legality and fun of the whole thing and second, the fact that I dont drink kinda makes me uncomfortable to approach women like that, so what should I do ? Keep in mind that I am quite attractive even tho it might not mean much, should I just start drinking to feel the vibe ?

Apparently, bars and clubs are some the best places to get easy hookups, however technically speaking how do people even legally do it ? Because if you are at one of those places you obviously are going to drink except if you are weird and do not like alcohol like me, and fucking someone while they are drunk is illegal, so what do you guys do ? Do you just get their number and then get on dates with them ? But in that case it wouldn’t be a one night hookup.

I am 19 (Canada so I can legally drink) and I have been to a few of these places, however my problem is first of all the legality and fun of the whole thing and second, the fact that I dont drink kinda makes me uncomfortable to approach women like that, so what should I do ? Keep in mind that I am quite attractive even tho it might not mean much, should I just start drinking to feel the vibe ?

I have a type of OCD that is caused by my autism where I think about the afterlife and the nature of the world, a lot of theories are there such as the simulation theory, alien project theory etc. But if we think about it, it doesn’t truly matter, not in the sense that we can’t do nothing about it but in the sense that whatever there is we are here experiencing the physical experience, so whatever happens next is well likely to be similar to either before you existed which you don’t remember anything of just be like right now again, so no crazy realm coming to us.

No matter what happens all we know is that we are beings made for this planet, all I am saying is that no matter what reality is it is unlikely that we as humans would get to experience something way crazier than our current one since all we know is this one, and also it’s important to think that technically none of these possibilities exist since all that exists is the present from a quantum perspective, tell me what you guys think.

I have thought about it the other day, technically speaking I can only prove my own existence, our perception of reality actually creates our own reality, for instance people that are on drugs experience reality differently, I came to the conclusion that it could totally be possible that I am the only real person and that the rest of humans are just NPCs or products of my imagination or they could just be people sent to accomplish soul missions without actual paths of their own that are unrelated from my path, I might sound selfish but trust me I don’t want that to be real, I dont want to be the only real person.

I don’t really know what to really think honestly, it made me think that it made me life kinda boring if nothing really mattered and that nobody was real, no real point in dating or having friends or caring about people in that case since they wouldn’t be real and have opinions unlike me, I dont really know how to escape that thinking tbf, wonder if anyone ever thought of that. From a quantum perspective it seems to make sense.

I have thought about it the other day, technically speaking I can only prove my own existence, our perception of reality actually creates our own reality, for instance people that are on drugs experience reality differently, I came to the conclusion that it could totally be possible that I am the only real person and that the rest of humans are just NPCs or products of my imagination or they could just be people sent to accomplish soul missions without actual paths of their own that are unrelated from my path, I might sound selfish but trust me I don’t want that to be real, I dont want to be the only real person.

I don’t really know what to really think honestly, it made me think that it made me life kinda boring if nothing really mattered and that nobody was real, no real point in dating or having friends or caring about people in that case since they wouldn’t be real and have opinions unlike me, I dont really know how to escape that thinking tbf, wonder if anyone ever thought of that. From a quantum perspective it seems to make sense.

I have a type of OCD where I think about the afterlife and the nature of the world, a lot of theories are there such as the simulation theory, alien project theory etc. But if we think about it, it doesn’t truly matter, not in the sense that we can’t do nothing about it but in the sense that whatever there is we are here experiencing the physical experience, so whatever happens next is well likely to be similar to either before you existed which you don’t remember anything of just be like right now again, so no crazy realm coming to us.

No matter what happens all we know is that we are beings made for this planet, all I am saying is that no matter what reality is it is unlikely that we as humans would get to experience something way crazier than our current one since all we know is this one, and also it’s important to think that technically none of these possibilities exist since all that exists is the present from a quantum perspective, tell me what you guys think.