u/Cold_Introduction634

To the instructors, how many courses are assigned to you per term?

1. ⁠“You cannot go to the gym alone because you are a woman, you should be with me, but I can go because I am a man..”
2. ⁠“No traveling for work. I don’t like that.”
3. ⁠“Don’t get that cake…”
4. ⁠“Do you really need that skirt? Don’t buy it. You have many clothes already..”

So I still have about 2 years with the autoloan, with monthly amortization. Has anyone of you approached BPI into paying it ahead of time as a lumpsum? I just want to move into no debt at all.

Please share you experience…

I’m a bit hurt today because of this pattern of control. I was so happy showing him the skirt that will surely suit me while we were at H&M. He bought two shorts for himself and I was gonna try a skirt as I thought it looks reallllllly nice. So, I showed him. And he said “I am buying because I need.. I don’t think you need, you have so many clothes.” I EARNED AND WILL USE MY OWN MONEY EVEN!

That just broke my heart but that was not the first time he stopped me from buying but then he would let me contribute at a trip that he alone wants but I MUST go.

I am freakin sick. Then, we have been dating a while and he is set to meet my parents soon. Should I cancel?

I’m a bit hurt today because of this pattern of control. I was so happy showing him the skirt that will surely suit me while we were at H&M. He bought two shorts for himself and I was gonna try a skirt as I thought it looks reallllllly nice. So, I showed him. And he said “I am buying because I need.. I don’t think you need, you have so many clothes.” I EARNED AND WILL USE MY OWN MONEY EVEN!

That just broke my heart but that was not the first time he stopped me from buying but then he would let me contribute at a trip that he alone wants but I MUST go.

I am freakin sick. Then, we have been dating a while and he is set to meet my parents soon. Should I cancel?