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I’m not sure if I’m just too nerdy, but I genuinely find it boring when someone has no opinions or thoughts on anything beyond surface level conversations.

I have a close friend that I’ve known for a long time. We’re both 24F and have known each other since we were 14. It wasn’t like this when we were younger, but these days, I’ve started feeling this way more.

I’m starting to find going out with her a chore and I feel bad for even saying that. She rarely seems to have an opinion on even simple topics. I could ask something like “what do you think about schools having uniforms?” and she’ll respond by turning it back on me with “hmm what do you think?”. I’ll give my thoughts and then she’ll usually say something like “oh I see. I guess I don’t really have an opinion about it. If there is, then there is.”

Don’t even get me started on other deeper convos like wdyt about abortions lol.

It feels like she just can’t hold a conversation. Most of our conversations end up revolving around gossip or talking about other people. I’m no saint either so I obviously join in but when we’re not talking about someone else, it starts feeling like there’s nothing left to talk about. I don’t need someone to agree with me all the time but I enjoy talking to people who have thoughts of their own.

I feel guilty because she hasn’t done anything wrong and she’s still a good person but I’m finding myself less excited to hang out w her lately.

Don’t understand why so many girls flock to be with Ethan. Christy seems so sweet and then there’s Ethan with his endless scandals with his exes.

As the caption suggests, I’m looking for someone who can help to receive and forward parcels to my warehouse address. I just need you to receive parcels for me and deliver them to my warehouse. Let me know how much you’re charging! :)

Not trying to boast at all, and I genuinely mean this in the most respectful way possible, but I’ve often been told by people around me that I’m conventionally attractive. I do occasionally get approached by guys asking for my number.

That said, I’ve been in a committed 4-year relationship with my boyfriend. We’ve already BTO-ed together, he’s met my family and friends, and everyone loves him. I love him a lot too.

For context, I’m from engineering, so naturally most of my social circles are male-dominated. Over the years, there have been two occasions where a guy from my friend group ended up liking me — once in jc and once in uni.

The thing is, I genuinely don’t think I’ve done anything wrong besides treating my friends kindly. I’m naturally someone who shows care and concern by listening to people, giving advice, checking in on them, etc. My life is relatively stable. I have a loving boyfriend, supportive family, and good friends. So I’ve always felt that the least I can do is be there for others emotionally.

However, my boyfriend feels that I’m “too nice”to guys, and that’s why they end up developing feelings for me. He’ll say things like:
“Don’t you realise it’s always you? Why not the other girls in your clique?”

And honestly, while I hate sounding arrogant, I do think physical attraction probably plays a part. But I never admitted this to my boyfriend though. If I compare myself objectively to the other girls in my clique, I do think I’m considered more attractive by conventional standards. I really don’t mean this in a boastful way.

What frustrates me is that I feel blamed for something I never intended to happen. My boyfriend calls me naive and gullible because apparently he can “tell” when a guy likes me. And to be fair, he’s been right before.

For example, there was a guy in my uni friend group who would give me morning calls to make sure I woke up for lectures. My boyfriend immediately thought it was strange and asked if the guy liked me. I defended the guy because he did similar things for other girls in the group too, and he also knew I was in a long term relationship.

Turns out, he did end up liking me.

But even then, I had already told him before that I didn’t need the morning calls because I wasn’t comfortable with it and honestly found it irritating.

At what point does being kind become “leading someone on”? Is my boyfriend justified in blaming me for these situations, or is it unfair to hold me responsible for feelings I never encouraged? Am I the red flag?

Used tracked letterbox postage and they did not deliver it to my letter box. Their excuse is that my letterbox is an old letter box and it’s too small to fit my parcel. Left it at my doorstep and it was gone. I paid around $125 for my items and they’re only willing to compensate $10. Has anyone else ever experienced this before? CSO told me that they’ve made a police report about this. Not sure if it’s true. Was wondering if I should make a report on my side too? Has anyone ever been successfully compensated more than $10?

Currently using tartelette XL mascara & Shiseido eyelash curler. My eyelash doesn’t stay up when I use tartelette but it stays when I’m using heroine kiss me mascara. Is it just the mascara issue?

My order keeps getting cancelled when I use a forwarder address. Any idea how to go about this?

Anyone going for Glasgow OIP? I’m a female looking for females to hang out with :) I mean I have my own group of friends here but I would prefer a female dominated clique honestly. I don’t mind staying together too :))

I’m a female engineering student and I really am trying my best to look for female friends in a male dominated course.

I find it so hard to make female friends because they don’t seem to want to continue talking to me. What usually happens is I’ll approach them and ask for their name. They’ll reply me with their name and then tell me “you’re really pretty btw”. I’ll reply with a thank you so are you and talk about why u join this and that and the conversation just dies there. They won’t ask me back or try to continue the conversation and I just feel so hopeless.

I have no issues making guy friends but I find it hard to speak to females and make many female friends in the course. Is it because I’m boring? I’ve tried speaking to my male friends about this and they said it’s because they’re just “jealous” that I have a lot of male friends.

Idk if this is true but I don’t think this is true at all? I’m not loud and I genuinely don’t think I click well with guys which is why I really want to make friends with females in my course but the bulk of them just seem so unapproachable.

Looking for tennis coaches in the west. Preferably a one to one coach that’s not too expensive. Anyone able to recommend one?

Hey, I’m an upcoming CE graduate. Want to ask about the work culture as a CE graduate in Singapore.

- Do they look at gpa?

- How’s the salary like?

- What’s the working hours like?

- Was thinking of joining telcos like SingTel/Starhub. Anyone with experience there?

Thank you in advance :))

Not sure if it’s the way I layer my skincare routine that’s making the foundation cakey on me when I apply or is this foundation just cakey in general?

This is how I layer my skincare:

Kiehls toner > Dr Dennis gross serum > drunk elephant moisturiser > bio essence sunscreen > benefit primer > foundation.

I’m really tired of having to spend a certain amount just to get 1-2 items. Help a girl out please 🥲