u/ConstantCutie222

So for context i did my first open play the other day. The day before said open play i did enroll in a light coaching session naman so i have knowledge on serving (ok ako dito) fronthand, backhand, kitchen etc. Btw this OP was specifically beginner to novice. Like strictly nakalagay na no dupr rating above 3.0 and for people to stop smurfing on lower ranks.

Like i said, first OP ko ito so sinasabi ko naman sa mga kasama ko na first time ko and beginner ako. Nalilito pa ako sa swapping and scoring. Everyone was encouraging. May senior citizen na sumali, and I was trying to make convo so I asked "beginner din po kayo?" with a smile. Then he replied coldly "ewan ko hija andito lang ako para magpapawis". Ok gets. Wala naman problema.

Never ko sya naka partner and siguro I just need to brush up and get good talaga through practice and consistency. Nakakabalik naman ako ng tira and rally kaso kasi syempre since first time ko may pagka tambak yung mga nagiging kakampi ko (btw 6 lang kami nagrorotate). And every after game na talo ako, the senior citizen would yell "ay ambilis?! Bakit ambilis??? Ambilid nooo???" And he would say that for like 5 minutes each time. So the people in open play are either cringing or like just wants him to stop kase alam naman ng lahat kung bakit mabilis-- its because of me and my skill issue. Tambak kami. I overheard the old person saying na he was purposely trying to embarass me to "scar me" which then would push me to be better.

I just continued sa open play. I know i need to get good and I am determined to get good para hindi pabigat. But honestly, i felt so embarrassed and ashamed when the senior citizen was yelling that every end of round to the point na while im typing this ayoko na magpakita bukas sa court. Baka mapahiya na naman ako. I just... i dont know how to take it. Is this the culture? Bago ako so i dont know. Puro ba ganito makukuha ko sa low OP

To be transparent, i just broke up with my ex a month ago. Most days i'm doing pretty great, but on some days like today, i just miss someone asking how my day was.

This is for DISCORD CALLS

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About You:

comfortable hearing someone else speak english/ taglish

28+ yrs old

To be frank, i just broke up with my ex a month ago. Most days i'm doing pretty great, but on some days like today, i just miss someone asking how was my day and i'm having this imaginary conversation on my brain about me & my ex's last interaction

This is for DISCORD CALLS

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About You:

- comfortable hearing someone else speak english/taglish

- has had a relationship before

- 28+ yrs old

BABAE LANG PO. FEMALE.👩‍🎓👩‍⚖️🙍‍♀️

Do you live around these areas? New Manila, Cubao, Scout, and maybe even San Juan or nearby?

I've been solo-living for a while now and it is freeing, but not gonna lie a lot of times it feels sad. Yes, even when I had a boyfriend (single girlie now~)

Gone are the days that friendships can be forced through schooling... but what remains is proximity-based friends sa totoo lang. YUNG INTENTIONAL FRIENDSHIPS. It's so sad to look at our contacts and realize people are too far or too tired for you.

We need our village near us 🛖 a group of people that show up in times of need diba. Or alam nyo yun kahit low-energy presence lang?

> Yung maaaya mo ng sponty coffee ☕️ kase malungkot ka o na-stress ka sa work 🌱

> yung kapag na-lock ka sa bahay mo may matatambayan ka 🏠

> Yung kapag emergency may matatawagan ka 🆘️

> yung maaaya mo magsukat sa uniqlo kase malapit lang 👚

> F.R.I.E.N.D.S, HIMYM, Sx & the City, Dawson's Creek? Iba iba personality, hindi laging okay, pero they are present and they are within reach! 🍻

It's a neighborhood, a village! People who will be there for you. For sure sa first few times natin magkakakilala, it will be awkward. And that's okay. Trust is still being built. And trust can only be built through consistent opportunities to bond. Please don't give up. Pareparehas tayo introvert haha.

I am not here to dictate how this will go. First time ko din ito naisip so let's collaborate and play it by ear 🤼‍♀️

Let us be intentional 🌸 of course if you want to benefit from the village you need to be a part of it. Reminder ko din to sa sarili ko to show up, so people will show up for me too.

I also dont intend for this to be a big group sana. Just small, core people. This isn't an org 😭 as in sissies tayo within the neighborhood lang. Nonetheless, please message if you are interested and as long as this is up.

No DDS please

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Are you interested?

✨️ Please message your age

🦋 Location (area lang okay, hindi address! Area lang! Safety first)

🙋‍♀️ discord ID

Yes, asawa. Not jowa. And hindi yung naging asukal de mama sya or naging "kahit sino nalang pwede na"

As in na-meet nya tapos napang asawa nya pa starting at 33.

The primary importance for me is comfort syempre. Mostly i want it for readings books, reflection, and cozy gaming with my switch siguro. Please if meron kayong recommendation, let me know!

I'm a small girl (below 5ft), and i like putting my feet up sa chair or naka relax sa footstool.

Wag LaZboy 😄 max budget: 10k, but flexible

Discord calls only 🫶

Preference is that you should be aged 29 to 35

Not required, but i'd be happy if you work in tech too. Again, not required

You're someone comfortable hearing someone else speak english

Message me your age and discord id

Discord calls

Please if you are not decent or you don't have an extra emotional budget to lend today please don't message

Im in a crisis, serious heavy ones, and i just need someone...

Please message me your age, gender, and discord ID if u can be a friend

Strictly sfw, don't waste our time. Looking for friends. Discord calls only. Must be around my age 🌱

• comfy with hearing someone else speak english/taglish
• Send your age, gender, and your discord id 🌟

Hey 👋 couldn't sleep so I thought I can read on my kindle while yapping with someone. I have a lot of thoughts- notes on observations about our surroundings and curiousity on intentions, so it would be nice to converse about this with someone. This is strictly for Discord calls.

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Aside from that, I have a couple if interests too like gaming, pop culture (whimsy or nerdy), fitness, design/art, history, architecture, and science so maybe we can sprinkle a little bit of those in the conversation 🙉

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I live in metro manila, i work in tech, and i'm a side sleeper 😴

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About you:

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- someone comfortable hearing someone else speak english/taglish and won't say "nosebleed"

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👉 Please message your age, discord id, and the answer to this question: who is zelda in the game The Legend of Zelda?

For thyroid

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excellence, rooms, nurse-to-patient ratio, speed & bureacracy

I'm down to just hang out, chat, make friends or literally anything. I work in tech and I work from home so I kinda get bored (and lonely) at night haha.

Please message me if you have communities that can adopt me 🙆🏻‍♀️

- i play games too but i only have my NSW2 this month

I'm down to just hang out, chat, make friends or literally anything. I work in tech and I work from home so I kinda get bored (and lonely) at night haha.

Please message me if you have communities that can adopt me 🙆🏻‍♀️

- i play games too but i only have my NSW2 this month

(((Open to individuals and small communities/discord servers)))

Real talk, a lot of friendships are basically frozen in time.

No fallout, no drama. We just… changed. And for a while I kept showing up to hangouts reverting back: same references, same role, a version of myself I quietly retired years ago. It got exhausting.

Adding to that our own journey with isolation, mental health, relationships and when shit hits the fan we realize we’re looking at a plethora of people in social media that we can’t run towards.

So my circle got smaller. Then really small. Then very thin.

I’ve heard people say “they no longer serve me” but that always felt cold to me. People aren’t subscriptions you cancel. It’s not that deep and also it IS that deep at the same time.

Anyway. 30s now, trying to find people who know this version of me. People who care enough to show up and who wants to rebuild their village too.

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About Me:

👧🏽 Profile: I live in QC, the version of it that’s nearby haha. I work from home and work in tech. Everyone’s welcome, but it would really be amazing to meet more people in my field. I would classify myself as well-read, and I travel 2-3x a year.

🎮 Hobbies: I think i would classify myself as a nerd? Steam games, switch games, board games, card collections, pop culture classics- you name it. Obviously, I have a life outside of that lol. I go to the gym 3-4x a week, read books from my kindle, does journaling, pottery, and art! I love traveling! I am not the hiking and beach type of person but I love staring at them from afar. Looking to explore more stuff this year. Music I would say vanilla with classic hiphop and rap.

📣Politics: Progressive-leaning

👄Topics I love to talk about: current events, history, nerd hot takes, pop culture, art, architecture, society, and CHIKA from our lives (when we‘re closer lol)

🟢More stuff: I used to love make up and dressing up, now i’m more into holistic self-care and prioritizing health people do not see whether that’s physiological, emotional, and mental

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🌱🌱🌱What i’m looking for: friends, actual friends.

People who are intentional right now to do the hard work of building a bond, showing up for each other, and later on still showing up during inconvenient times if necessary.

People who do not ghost you just because they had their fill of their “monthly human interaction,”

people who would cheer for each other’s success, friends that can communicate,

and friends who accept the idea that in order for you to be low-maintenance friends, you have to be high-maintenance to build the bond first.

Most importantly: okay with calls because i like calling than typing. If you have a discord server, i’m willing to explore that too. But i’m not into those huge public discord servers

Send a 🌟 if you read this long post lol

Hey! I need some advice on how to fill in the gaps of the routine you built around the person after an amicable break up

[P L E A S E] comment and send in your pieces of advice

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i am also looking for new friends i can call or hangout or cowork with. It can be on discord or maybe meetups around my area. I live in the heart of QC. For online friends, I can do discord only haha

👉 Important to know that this isn't me looking for rebounds or flings. I just really want new friends now. The breakup is raw and fresh, and i don't want to do unhealthy coping mechanisms. Even when i wasn't single, i have been looking to have more friends so i am just following with that :D

I can talk about a variety of things- art, architecture, science, history etc. My main hobby is gaming (im too lazy sometimes honestly). But hey, to prove that, i have a 4070s & a nsw2. I wouldnt say im an anime type of person, i think i grew out of of it, but i still heavily follow one piece!

Im progressive-leaning too and for my own sanity i try to intake local and global news with a teaspoon from time to time. The universe knows where my heart is! Lol. I have board games too. I like attending plays!

My other hobbies involve journaling~ that could be physical, digital, and even through videos! I have two dawgs, an older brother, i go to the gym too, and i work night shifts too, i work in tech, i live solo

Hey! I need some advice on how to fill in the gaps of the routine you built around the person after an amicable break up

[P L E A S E] comment and send in your pieces of advice

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i am also looking for new friends i can call or hangout or cowork with. It can be on discord or maybe meetups around my area. I live in the heart of QC.

👉 Important to know that this isn't me looking for rebounds or flings. I just really want new friends now. The breakup is raw and fresh, and i don't want to do unhealthy coping mechanisms. Even when i wasn't single, i have been looking to have more friends so i am just following with that :D

I can talk about a variety of things- art, architecture, science, history etc. My main hobby is gaming (im too lazy sometimes honestly). But hey, to prove that, i have a 4070s & a nsw2. I wouldnt say im an anime type of person, i think i grew out of of it, but i still heavily follow one piece!

Im progressive-leaning too and for my own sanity i try to intake local and global news with a teaspoon from time to time. The universe knows where my heart is! Lol. I have board games too. I like attending plays!

My other hobbies involve journaling~ that could be physical, digital, and even through videos! I have two dawgs, an older brother, i go to the gym too, and i work night shifts too, i work in tech, i live solo

Hey! I need some advice on how to move on from an amicable breakup. That type of breakup when no one's the villain, it's just really the difference on how two people evolved. But yeah you know how it usually is ((((Discord c a l l s))))

But besides that, i am looking for long term friends that's good with calls! I can talk about a variety of things- art, architecture, science, history etc. My main hobby is gaming (im too lazy sometimes honestly). But hey, to prove that, i have a 4070s & a nsw2 so i am not a larper. I wouldnt say im an anime type of person, i think i grew out of of it, but i still heavily follow one piece! Im progressive-leaning too and for my own sanity i try to intake local and global news with a teaspoon from time to time. The universe knows where my heart is! Lol

My other hobbies involve jounaling~ that could be physical, digital, and even through videos! I have two dawgs 🐶, an older brother, i go to the gym too, and i work night shifts too, i work in tech, and i live in qc (solo living buddies!)

All my friends are still asleep or busy. It's mother's day. But please if you can lend an ear. I dont have tg but i have discord.

sobrang kelangan ko