u/Coughcough1836

Hii I’m looking to skip all the small talk and get right down into who you are as a person, what do you think? Are you a good person? what’s made you into the person you are today? I love talking with people who are self aware enough to know these answers for themselves ^^

I’m also just looking for a friend, someone to share the highlights of my day with and the lows. I’m a very casual person but if I like you i really like you and am not the type to ghost

I really just say whatever I’m thinking and I’m kinda looking for someone i can turn my mind off and not have to mask around (easier said then done but still)

Anyways about me! I’m Bri and I’m Canadian, my hobbies include anything creative like crochet or crafts, I love reading, mostly fantasy manhwa though, I wanna get more into games and play with people but I’m so picky when it comes to games because they give me motion sickness. If you couldn’t tell I am a yapper! I need a fellow yapper and someone who asks me to yap even more is always the best.

Anyways if you’ve come this far tell me about yourself! What drew you into my post? And feel free to ask me any questions too! I’m an totally open book ^^

Like seriously I’ve asked like 6 questions in this post… you can do better then hi and actually answer one so I know you read the post

Hii let’s skip all the small talk and tell me about a grudge you still hold to this day, be as detailed as you want. I’m really looking for someone i can have deep conversations with doesn’t have to be about trauma lore I just have been having my childhood on my mind recently cuz my birthday is coming up.

I’m really into creative hobbies that allow me to make cool things, like crochet or other crafts, I also like reading mostly fantasy manga, I like horror movies and am kinda looking for someone to play Stardew with (as way to get to know each other) but games give me motion sickness so I can’t play long

If you’ve come this far tell me about yourself! What kinda person are you? Or tell me what drew you into my post

Hey there! My birthday is next week so maybe I’ve just been in a depressive or introspective mood but I keep thinking of my childhood and the person I am. Which is a weird person, I feel like i just can’t relate to anyone but I also do have a lack of friends to even try and relate too soooo here I am!

I’m a pretty talkative person, I have a lot to say and I always have more to say! I love when people ask for more or also have a lot to say. I wanna have deep conversations, I also wanna play Stardew Valley together or some other game, I’m down to call and chat (eventually) and I also love silly conversations like what’s the first thing you’d do if you were the only person left on the continent?

Hii, I like the idea of this subreddit but in practice I'm struggling to find someone and I only want one person but one person who I really mesh with, I can definitely be a big chatter box but I also struggle with not wanting to bother people so I do prefer people who ask questions or are just easy to talk to.
I want someone to show that they want to get to know me and I want to get to know someone too!

I'm neurodivergent and mostly looking for fellow neurodivergent peeps. I'm a creative, I don't draw or anything but I love to come up with ideas or brainstorm with someone. I do want deep conversations but of course that takes time unless you just ask me about all the childhood trauma lol
I love reading, mostly fantasy or horror, creepy pastas, I like games but they make me sick and I'm kinda picky, psychology is a topic of interest for me annnd I love my pets, I have a cat and dog.

All I ask is that you in some way reference my post so I know you actually read it and tell me about yourself though! What makes you different than others?

Hii! This might sound a bit cliche but I really wanna find my kinda people ya know? Mostly neurodivergent peeps but honestly if you also feel like your a different species compared to most people we’ll get along well lol

I can be pretty talkative when the vibe is right! A huge thing about me is I don’t wanna bother anyone so my chatter box self doesn’t come out unless I actually feel like someone wants to hear what I’m saying.

About mee~ not much really, my hobbies include reading (mostly fantasy), crocheting and other crafts but I’m also really interested in psychology, nature and really most topics interest me, I love seeing things from all kind of perspectives. I can chat about most anything but to get us started tell me about your self and your favourite toy as a kid! Or ask me a question

Hi hii, ive been wanting a genuine friend ship, though ive never actually had a online friend before besides one so im not actually sure how to go about making one, im pretty chatty and usually have a lot to say about one topic, i love to talk things out slowly rather then changing the topic. I need a more stimulating conversation then “hi how are you” and I can guarantee to also not be that person.

I’m creative, outdoorsy, a reader, I love being silly and weird or I can even be serious, I’ve definitely gone through it so I’m sure I can relate to other people who haven’t had the easy life.

I really enjoy going In depth about silly things, taking a hypothetical question waaay too seriously, so here’s a fun question to get this started. If you could choose one object/animal that you could shape shift into (not a human) what would you pick AND what would you do with it?

Hii I got to work only to find out their cleaning the gutters and I can’t access my shed, literally been sitting here for 3 hours bored as hell. I’m pretty chatty and do prefer other chatty people but also a lot of questions works to.

I’m not really into a lot of things that most people are but I’m pretty creative and can talk about most things, come at me with a hypothetical question and we can make a conversation out of it ^^

I found out what asexuality was at 14 and was like that sounds like me but I’ve also never even had a crush on someone so let’s maybe wait and see and I’m 20 now and proudly ace and I’ve always figured I was either bi romantic or aromatic but I do have a interest in dating, so I thought to myself “who can I imagine myself in a relationship with” and that did not help much, I’ve only dated men (mostly queer men) not that I’ve dated much but last night I had a pretty gay dream where I felt things not just sexual attraction but I was just giddy a cute girl was flirting with me and I just don’t think I could feel that way about a guy but also I have no idea, it was just a dream. So how do ace people usually determine who they’re romantically attracted to?

To be fair the amount of dreams where I like someone romantically could be counted on one hand but still they’ve only ever been women. I had another dream last night where I was at a party with my friends and partner and I was in the hot tub with a cute girl and she was getting closer and I was all smiles and felt so giggly cuz this cute girl was flirting with me and she was about to kiss me when I panicked and said I had a boyfriend and ran away… I am asexual so that was honestly the weirdest thing ever, I was totally into her. I always just figured my dreams only featuring women didn’t mean much but after a dream like that I think I might just not be into men lol

I want to change, I want to be able to feel the normal range of emotions. I’ve been doing a lot of intro introspection and come to the realization I’m like this not due to some traumatic event I can’t remember but the neglect I knew was present but thought it started later in life… but it had only gotten worse not started. I don’t know how to explain how alone I’ve always been in this world even when I’m around other people I’ve never felt seen, I feel like people have only ever know the version of myself that’s so surface level. No one has ever gotten to know the real me… not even me and it’s not like I was really around other people all that much to begin with. I comb through my memories and I can’t remember one person who I felt like I could confide in nor did anyone ever actually try to be that person. My best friend said that she was there for anything I needed, I said ok and she cut off our friendship because I seemed mad at her the week my mom died. As a kid I told myself I didn’t need other people as an adult I’ve made friends, I’ve dated but I still have never felt close to anyone. I really struggled to feel like people actually want to talk to me and I refuse to be a bother so I know it’s partly my fault for failing to build intimacy but also… I don’t think I’m totally wrong in no one wanting to talk to me.

On our first date on my way there I texted him "btw I'm ace" and he was just like same! I was really surprised and felt like it was fate, our first date was kinda awkward and no chemistry but since he was ace and I was curious about dating another ace person so we went on a second date... where admittedly I fell for them there and then. We've been dating for just over 2 years and I realized we haven't had sex or anything in awhile and I feel absolutely no feelings about it, it's just how we are and I love it, no pressure to want to do things or kiss when I don't want to. I feel like I'm both sex repulsed and sex positive but definitely go long stretches of being more sex repulsed so dating another ace really made me feel so comfortable in our relationship and to just do what comes naturally