u/Creepy_League_3454

Introvert in Mumbai trying to find “my people” 😭

Recently shifted to Mumbai and this city genuinely amazes me every day. But being an introvert here feels oddly lonely sometimes.

Tried solo cafes, solo movies, solo exploring… but weekends are starting to hit hard 😭
And staying in Belapur with mega blocks makes random plans feel like a mission impossible.

Just looking for genuine people, chill plans, and maybe a small social circle to survive Mumbai with.

If you already have a group, adopt me.
Or let’s make one for people who find it hard to make friends here :)

Edit: the group is been made if you feel like wanna explore https://ig.me/j/AbZpv12QuktJiouz/

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u/Creepy_League_3454 — 1 day ago
▲ 7 r/IntrovertsChat+1 crossposts

24M | Does anyone else feel socially tired even around people they like?

I’ve noticed that as I’ve grown older, I’ve become more selective with my energy. I can enjoy people a lot, but loud groups and constant social interaction drain me faster than they used to. I honestly prefer meaningful one-on-one conversations over trying to fit into big circles where everything stays surface level.

Most of my time goes into music, random deep dives on topics at 2am, movies, overthinking life, and occasionally disappearing for a day just to recharge mentally. I’m pretty calm in general, but once I’m comfortable with someone I can talk for hours about the weirdest things.

I think introversion gets misunderstood a lot. People assume quiet means boring or distant, when sometimes it just means we value depth more than noise.

Would genuinely love to meet people here who relate to that. What’s something about being introverted that people around you never seem to understand?

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u/Creepy_League_3454 — 6 days ago
▲ 4 r/lonely

I’m 23, and sometimes it feels like I’ve just been quietly watching everyone else find someone while I’m still here… waiting.

I’m not loud or easy to open up. I take my time, I feel deeply, and maybe that makes me a little harder to notice. But that doesn’t mean I don’t want something real.

I don’t crave anything big—just the small things. Holding hands, asking about each other’s day, talking about random stuff, sharing moments that actually mean something 🤍

It’s just… strange how something so simple feels so far away.

I don’t know if I’m late, or just different.

But I hope someday, it finds me too.

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u/Creepy_League_3454 — 20 days ago

I’m 23, and sometimes it feels like I’ve just been quietly watching everyone else find someone while I’m still here… waiting.

I’m not loud or easy to open up. I take my time, I feel deeply, and maybe that makes me a little harder to notice. But that doesn’t mean I don’t want something real.

I don’t crave anything big—just the small things. Holding hands, asking about each other’s day, talking about random stuff, sharing moments that actually mean something 🤍

It’s just… strange how something so simple feels so far away.

I don’t know if I’m late, or just different.

But I hope someday, it finds me too.

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u/Creepy_League_3454 — 20 days ago