u/Cris_x

Hi, I've been on a few dates with a girl I really like and we settled on our next date being breakfast/lunch. Any recommendations?

A friend recommended Cactus Club Café but I'm new to the city so I've never been there.

Thanks for the help!

Edit: $30/$40 per person. In Downtown, West End, Yaletown, Fairview or Mt Pleasant.

3rd date, after a 7hr hangout at her place watching crime documentaries, as I was leaving her apartment she asked if she could kiss me, I said yes, we made out and she said she hurt her neck and I was like Oh fuck you am not that short and she said Yk what they say; Great things come in small packages.

FUCK MY LIFE, we were blushing and laughing so hard.

For context she is 1.75m (5'7) and am 1.60m (5'3)

*As I was leaving the building and I apologized for pulling her hair with my rings during the 2nd kiss, we laughed it off and she said Practice is needed. And I was like Yes ma'am 🫡 practice makes perfect.

Hello, I had my first casual sex experience about 2 weeks ago, I had a HU with a person I met on the app HER. It wasn't a good experience, I talked to them about it, said I didn't want to meet up again since it truly was not a good experience for me. They didn't push too much and they eventually left my apartment.

I thought that was the end of it, we didn't text again. But they matched me again on the dating app a few days later and I just blocked them, I was clear I didn't want to meet up again. Today I checked the app again and realized they'd made a new profile (with some new pictures, different bio and also age ) they matched me again and texted me.

This freaked me out a little bit and my friends suggested I file a report for Stalking/Harassment.

I haven't seen them again or seen them following me in person (I had a gut feeling of someone watching me after the HU but I never saw them) They do know where I live since we HU at my place.

Should I file a report for Stalking/Harassment?

I went to a mall with a male friend and as we were going out I held the door for him cuz it's polite and I feel very butch when I do things like that, it's natural to me. And a homeless woman (?) started yelling at me about being a feminist and how I am setting women back, that chivalry is lost, how he should open the doors for me, yada yada, she started following us while yelling more things at me directly and we had to circle around til we lost her.

It was very scary and the first time I had something like that happened in relation to how I interact with other people or different genders.

Has anyone had a similar experience?

Hi, I'm in Canada and I am looking for brand recs on where to get swimwear (sports bra/tank type top and trunks with the mesh/lining under)

I've seen people recommend Tomboyx in other threads and forums but that's out of my budget and sadly Humankind (which has amazing options) does not ship to Canada.

I have seen Shein and an online brand called Coralniva but haven't heard any reviews from their swimsuits.

Hi, I am moving to Vancouver later this month and I am looking for recommendations for food or activities, I will definitely explore on my own but recommendations from locals are great help.

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I am a huge gamer, I love movies, reading, coffee, bouldering and cats. I don't like raves or clubs, I prefer chill plans.

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Any recommendation is appreciated 💙

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Or if anyone would like to talk/hangout, that could be fun too.

Today for the first time ever a girl asked for my ig.

At a mixer/ proiect showcase event at uni a super cute femme came over directly and said really nice things about my project, also asked a bunch of follow up questions before asking for my ig. explained I didn't have a professional/artist Instagram and she said she didn't want it for that...

I showed her my acc QR but hasn't followed me. dunno if she will but the genuine interest and interaction was nice.

I was overstimulated and didn't ask for her name. When I asked around bout her no one knew who I was talking bout :(

Hi, I am a nb autistic butch who's having roommates for the first time. It is a huge change and a lot of things to get used to, I got so many questions but a main one is about clothing and comfort (?), if I got 2 men as roommates can I still go around the apartment in a big tshirt and boxers/shorts? I know it's still my house too but sharing with 2 men is what makes me hesitate.

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I have only lived with family before and it's common/usual for me to change into my PJs when I get home and I know I won't go out again that day.

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Please help, I know this is a silly question but I truly don't know. Thank you for the help fellow butches

I have been feeling numb, detached, with flashbacks (paralyzing attacks) and dissociating episodes for almost 2yrs, I used to think I was just depressed but undiagnosed but now that ik it's CPTSD I feel slightly better (?) not like I'll tell anyone directly or like irl at least, but it's comforting in a way, it's still a lot to process and unpack and the thing is idk how to proceed or what to do next, I was diagnosed yesterday and I kind of told my online friends bout it.

My parents now know bout my dissociative episodes (told them this morning) , the episodes have been getting worse and I think they should know and be aware (even if they were very dismissive when I told them)

So yeah mainly looking for some clarity or tips or just someone who understands, thank you.

Hi, as an aspiring 3D artist , I am really considering using the official CC marketplace, do y'all really hate it (as players)?

It's just the CC making process is somewhat outdated (from the texturing process to the actual implementation in S4S)

I have done a few tests and am looking for what's the best way to learn and maybe make money cuz am still a college student.

Hi, I have been on a reading slump due to life stress and just a lot going on sooooI am looking to read some light, romantic, fun, lesbian book. I haven't read much of those but I really enjoyed Make room for love by Darcy Liao and One last stop by Casey McQuiston.

Any recommendations are greatly appreciated!