u/Cuddles-and-Cookies

These are mine so far:

If I don’t hear from someone within 48 hours after my last response, delete their number, light a candle. That person is now dead to me.
Only an actual emergency will resurrect them.

If the conversation is going well and they don’t ask me out within 1-2 weeks, cut contact.

If they ask me out to dinner and want separate checks, pay my portion and leave.

End the conversation if they make me feel uncomfortable or give me the ick at any point, because they’ll do it again.

Any joke that’s offensive, it’s not a joke it’s a test. Leave.

I haven’t had all of these happen but I’m prepared in case any of them do, I know the dating pool is ROUGH.

I’m done! I’ve changed my flair! It only took 5 minutes via Zoom and it’s now over! I thanked the Magistrate, the judge will sign off. I’m free!

The weight has been lifted!

I just overheard a guy say “she’s a pain in my ass but I love her” and “I just have to get through 17 more years and then she won’t be my problem anymore” about his newborn.

He said his girlfriend is already talking about having another one. His friend said yeah, then they could have a boy! And he mentions preferring to have one kid only, and I said “you can just have one.” And his friend chimes in again about them having two and he mentions that people told him to have them back to back because the time goes by like a blur. I reiterate “you’re allowed to just have one.”

What is actually wrong with parents that are giving this kind of advice? They aren’t enjoying parenthood, just coaching each other horribly through the misery. Where are the critical thinkers…reading this post I guess because OMG how was that a real conversation?

I just saw a video of a woman that purchased a 4 bedroom house and everyone thought it was for children but instead she has a real deal walk-in closet! And she’s got a room that’s basically a library with bookshelves lining the walls.

I think I need to set a new goal for life. I want a playroom for my cat and an apothecary room for my ✨stuff✨

Women have stopped accepting disrespect and have started having boundaries. It’s the beginning of the end for a lot of relationships. We’ve stopped tolerating treatment that we don’t want to receive. Having self respect is empowering and yes, sometimes it often leads to being single.

If my partner doesn’t respect me, I no longer have a partner. Period. Women are refusing to settle for less than they deserve and I love to see it.

I’ve decided to host an event at Concord Point Park in Havre De Grace, MD on Saturday, May 30th where all witches are welcome! It doesn’t matter the journey, how long you’ve been practicing, or if you’ve been thinking of practicing but haven’t started yet.

We will be meeting by the lighthouse so be sure to bring a chair or a blanket for your comfort since benches there are first come first serve.

Also, you’re welcome to bring items to share like moon water, herbs, crystals, plants, jars, etc. Sharing is optional. If anyone is interested, I can bring a cooler filled with ice and water if it’s going to be cold that day.

Events in the past have been wonderful and I’ve met quite an amazing group of witches and I hope to meet more new folks in my area. A couple local witches expressed a need to I figured “be the change” and have another meet up!

Street parking is available.

A guy from work was talking to a woman, afterward he turns to me and says “that’s going to be YOU as a mother.” I said “I’m never having kids”, he said the obligatory “you say that now.”
I responded with “I’m sterilized dude” he goes “I didn’t need to know all that.”
Lmao, so we can comment on my personal life, but I’m not supposed to respond… got it!
He shut up and walked away.