u/Cuddlybunny2

Amicable divorce

Hi everyone! For those of you who had an amicable divorce, did you give an extra key to your ex partner? I found a rental not too far from our current home and thought I’d give him a key in case of emergency. We have kids that we share one week on and off.

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u/Cuddlybunny2 — 5 days ago

Bond payment without lease

Hi everyone, I’ve been approved a rental and have been sent an invoice for the bond to be paid through an app called MePay. I have no lease agreement yet and the property isn’t available in 2 months. The agent said they couldn’t give me the agreement because they are unsure of the exact vacation date of the current tenant. I called the RTBA and they said it’s risky but I could still pay the bond and if the agents don’t file them under the RTBA to report them. They said I could just get my money back because I didn’t sign an agreement anyway but that is if they actually lodge it under the RTBA. I feel foolish to be this trusting but is this the norm?

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u/Cuddlybunny2 — 9 days ago

Mother’s Day

Hi everyone, just venting out here as I know some people will understand me. I went to my son’s school Mother’s Day tea today and I found myself alone with just an empty seat right next to me. I looked around and mothers and kids were there sitting side by side while I was alone with my son running off somewhere. People will make this as a “me” problem but really, all I wanted was a few minutes with my son having a peaceful snack. He has been asking me why I don’t come to school events and the reason is because I have work. Now that I’ve made time, he just runs off. I don’t know if it’s worth coming to events like these. It is really lonely.

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u/Cuddlybunny2 — 16 days ago
▲ 10 r/ausadhd+2 crossposts

Hi guys, my husband and I are separating. We haven’t told our kids yet, 14 level 1 autism and 6 adhd. Has anyone out there been separated with neurodivergent children? How did you tell them? What problems did you have when they knew? Any advice? Please share your experiences. Thank you.

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u/Cuddlybunny2 — 22 days ago

How do you go about kids that are uncomfortable with warm emotions? My teenage daughter does not want to be hugged or kissed. She wasn’t like that when she was younger. I respect her boundaries but it’s hard to show love when I can’t even hug her goodbye when I go to work. Sometimes I think to myself “what if this is my last day on earth and I haven’t even hugged my kid?” 

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u/Cuddlybunny2 — 24 days ago