u/CupcakeFearless6707

I remember posting here about asking if it’s normal seeing your partner sending money to someone called “online friend” and because of your advises , I was digging deep on what are the possibilities or if its really cheating and I found out that this is not the first time lol. He cheating on me since 2023 with different girls on dating apps. Exchanging nudes and money and everything. I was so naive not to know cuz i loved him so much and I trusted him with all of my heart . And now I confronted him and this is the reason why he cheats haha .. in the end based on him, I am the problem cuz i can’t satisfy him. Maybe God really does me a favor to know about the transaction thingy so I discover more deep down.
I just felt empty now and don’t know where to start. After everything, some people will never be contented. That’s sad reality

I remember posting here about asking if it’s normal seeing your partner sending money to someone called “online friend” and because of your advises , I was digging deep on what are the possibilities or if its really cheating and I found out that this is not the first time lol. He cheating on me since 2023 with different girls on dating apps. Exchanging nudes and money and everything. I was so naive not to know cuz i loved him so much and I trusted him with all of my heart . And now I confronted him and this is the reason why he cheats haha . He said he used them to be strong for me lol.. in the end based on him, I am the problem cuz i can’t satisfy him. Maybe God really does me a favor to know about the transaction thingy so I discover more deep down.
I just felt empty now and don’t know where to start. After everything, some people will never be contented. That’s sad reality

Hello! Im F 25 and I have BF M 27. I just discovered this today that he sent money to his “friend” to help her about the debt. It might look not a big deal but he’s been talking to a girl when he asked personal time with me for almost 2 weeks. I just found the transaction on his email that pops up on the laptop he gave me. He sent money to a girl 3 times since June. I found the ig of the girl and i asked her about what’s going on with them and she said they just “friends” but i have this weird feelings that something is off. I asked the girl if we could send me some screenshots on their conversation but she only sent a cropped one and I also asked my bf yo send me conversations but the girl already deleted their conversation on tg like wth? If you don’t have nothing to hide why she needs to do that? My bf keeps telling me that she just a friend but i really have a guts feeling na they have something. Any advice? Idk what to do

Hello! Im F 25 and I have BF M 27. I just discovered this today that he sent money to his “friend” to help her about the debt. It might look not a big deal but he’s been talking to a girl when he asked personal time with me for almost 2 weeks. I just found the transaction on his email that pops up on the laptop he gave me. He sent money to a girl 3 times since June. I found the ig of the girl and i asked her about what’s going on with them and she said they just “friends” but i have this weird feelings that something is off. I asked the girl if we could send me some screenshots on their conversation but she only sent a cropped one and I also asked my bf yo send me conversations but the girl already deleted their conversation on tg like wth? If you don’t have nothing to hide why she needs to do that? My bf keeps telling me that she just a friend but i really have a guts feeling na they have something. Any advice? Idk what to do