
u/Curious-Hand4596

I am 20 years old and I had a date with a 40 year old man AMA (UPDATE)
I had a date last night. To be honest, we didn't really click. We went to eat at a restaurant, and then he wanted to take me back to his apartment to take things to the next level. We went, but he lived with his daughters, so nothing happened. In the end, I stayed for 10 minutes for a drink and then left. It was a little awkward, but I was left wanting more. I don't know if we'll see each other again. Ask away!
I'm a 20 year old woman about to go on a date with a 40-year-old man. I'm curious, so I'll do it. Ask me your questions.
This not troll post im marking it NSFW because i feel like i want to answer everything. i don't think this is an everyday situation, haha
My boyfriend broke up with me at my worst possible time
About four months ago, I was in total trouble. I lost my job, my mom got sick, and the bills kept piling up. I was desperate. One day, I saw that several girls I knew were making money with OnlyFans, and I thought, "Well, it's my body, it's temporary, and no one's supporting me." I decided to give it a try. It wasn't for fun; it was out of NECESSITY. I told my boyfriend (we'd been together for almost a year) hoping he'd at least understand. His reaction? He turned red with rage and said, "Are you crazy? You're going to be an internet whore? No way am I supporting you in that shit. If you do that, forget about me." It hurt, but it hurt even more to realize that the guy who supposedly loved me only wanted me as long as I was "the decent girlfriend." He didn't care that I was about to become homeless, he didn't care that I was crying from stress every night. All he cared about was his damn ego and what his friends would say. I replied angrily, "You know what? You're right. I'd better forget about you. Because if you can't support me when I need it most, then you're worthless to me." I left him right there. Blocked everywhere. Now I've been doing OnlyFans for almost three months. It's not what I dreamed of, but I'm paying off my debts, helping my mom, and for the first time in a long time, I can breathe easy. And the best part: I don't have anyone around to make me feel guilty for just surviving. Sometimes I miss having a partner, but I prefer being alone to being with someone who lets me down when things get tough.
How do you adapt to a new line when you only play one?
I've always played healing support (Lulu, Nami, Soraka) since I started. I've tried other roles, but I'm really bad at them. I feel like those characters depend a lot on the team and not on you, so I want to know how you guys adapted to other roles. Any advice?