u/Cute-Average1767

My boyfriend lives in socal and there’s chargers everywhere, he’s planning on moving up here but I’m worried about having good places to charge in the tricities.
If you own an electric car around here, how do you go about charging?

Me (20f) have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend(21m) since last August. I’m his first girlfriend, and when we first started dating we were both pretty shy.

We’ve grown a lot since then and have sent a lot of nudes to each other, so this isn't something I haven't done before. I still like to put in effort to keep things spicy, so this morning I sent him a video of myself in the shower.
His response was just:

“lol what are you doing”

The reaction was so plain it almost made me cry. I felt like he didn't appreciate my body or the effort I made. I barely messaged him for the rest of the day because I was so hurt, but when I finally confronted him and told him how his comment made me feel, his excuse made it even worse.

He told me the video seemed "unserious" because I did a peace sign in it.
I’m honestly stunned. I was being playful, but that doesn't mean I wasn't being intimate. I’m seriously considering wearing more clothes on FaceTime and making the "nude" side of our relationship way more exclusive. If he thinks my playfulness is "unserious," maybe he needs to see less of me until he remembers to appreciate it.
Aio for feeling like he’s making excuses for being cold?