Am I reading too much into this, or should I check on her?
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An years ago, I developed feelings for a close friend. I confessed, and she told me she loved me too, but didn't think a relationship would work because shes older than me. So we didnt go for a relationship but remained close.
Recently, her marriage was fixed. From our conversations, she doesnt seem happy or excited about the match but rather worried, still she mentioned shes willing to go through with it for her parents sake.
We recently met for a final farewell before she starts this new chapter of her life. During that meeting, she cried. A lot.
At the time, I didnt think much of it, but now I cant stop thinking about it. I had been working on moving on and accepting that we wouldnt be together, but seeing her cry has left me confused and worried.
Part of me wonders if shes genuinely unhappy with the marriage and feels trapped. Another part of me thinks she was simply emotional about saying goodbye to an important friend or whatever she saw me as.
Would it be appropriate for me to reach out and ask if shes okay and whether theres anything she wants to talk about? Or would that be crossing a line, especially now that her marriage is fixed?
I dont want to interfere in her life or project my own feelings onto the situation. Im genuinely trying to figure out whether my concern is justified or whether Im just overthinking because I still care about her.