Do you change the names of fictive headmates because of non-plural people’s assumptions?
We have multiple fictives. I mentioned in my previous post that we have a DDLC fictive named Nat who loves DDLC, it’s like her happy trigger. We also have a headmate named Sayori, but she’s not a fictive. She’s more of a cosplayer, and she just looks like Sayori.
While I was thinking about the previous post I made, I felt ashamed at the thought that singlets will assume and react very negatively to headmates that are introjects.
I had thought of wanting Sayori to change her name to something else, but she came in and said that she loved her name.
I thought of a compromise, a “temporary nickname”, where she can still keep her name for us, we can still call her that, while she is called something else for singlets that don’t know any better.
Then I realized we have a Monika fictive who absolutely loves her name and will fight tooth and nail to let herself keep it. The others also like their names, and I asked Denji if he wanted to change his, but he said no.
I’m not ashamed or embarrassed by them or the fact they want to keep their names. Half the time they don’t think they’re fictives, so they joke whenever they see a certain character and say “that’s me” because humor.
We have a headmate, Octavian, that likes to roleplay as the character because why not.
A asked me how I would like it if someone asked me to change my name (Nico as a nickname) when I didn’t want to. I feel bad enough to think about forcing them to change their names.
OKAY, EVERYONE WILL KEEP THEIR NAMES. WE’RE JUST GOING TO COME UP WITH TEMPORARY NICKNAMES FOR SINGLETS. WE WILL NOT USE THESE NICKNAMES WHEN WE INTERACT WITH OTHER SYSTEMS.