Contemporary clinical and non-clinical sources on Freud's death drive, lay/wild analysis, and drive theory?

Hiya, psa friends!

I've been out of the psychoanalytic field since roughly 2013, and I'm heading back in, knowing I'm out of the loop when it comes to current writing on a various topics I'm interested in. I'm wondering if folks have recommendations for authors and/or articles/books to check out on the areas listed above.

I'd love a mix of writing by clinicians and those in the humanities, if possible. (My dissertation was about feminist queer theories of utopia and everyday activism and their promise for informing clinical practice. In other words, I'm a big fan of interdisciplinarity in psa.) It's ok, though, if the sources come from one or the other area of study only.

In case it's helpful, I'm particularly interested in what psychoanalytic writers are saying these days about Freud's work on the death drive and lay/wild analysis, as well as the status of drive theory in general, as it relates to the role of psa in alleviating individual suffering and making the wider world a freer, more capacious place to live.

Any suggestions at all - or just ideas about where to start looking - would be deeply appreciated. Either way, thanks for reading this!

p.s. I do have a copy of On Freud's The Question of Lay Analysis, edited by Sandler and Costa back in 2019.

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u/DIYYYner — 14 hours ago
▲ 6 r/Dallas

Writing group(s) for non-fiction writers?

Hiya, Dallas friends! I searched but didn’t find anything recent on this and wondered if someone might have an idea for me.

I write non-fiction essays and would love to find a friendly group - facilitated or not/paid or free - to help me get better at it. The topics I typically focus on include feminism, psychoanalytic theory, queer political affect theory, relational trauma, and moral injury. Yes, these are super specific subjects, but I thought I’d mention them just in case there’s a random group out there with vaguely overlapping interests. I usually incorporate autobiography into what I write, so a group focused on memoir could be a good fit, too.

FWIW, I’m kind of old now (51), and I live in Uptown. I’m not picky about the ages represented in a group or where it meets, though.

Any suggestions at all - even ones you think might not be helpful - would be very much appreciated. Either way, thanks for reading this :)

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u/DIYYYner — 2 days ago

I want it all: Fountain pen-friendly ruled notebook with numbered pages?

UPDATE: THANK you to everyone who responded! The answers weee really helpful.

In case someone else has a similar question and sees this, here’s what I’ve learned about the options currently available - at least in the US. (I’m looking at A5-sized books, but some of these - Sterling Ink and Odyssey brands, specifically- come in other sizes.)

1.) Clairefontaine Age Bag Notebook - only the thread bound “essential” version, not the cloth bound, has numbered pages, comes with 192 pages, 7 mm ruled or dot grid (not sure what size grid.)

2.) Leuchtturm1917 Notebook - aim for the 120 gsm version if you want to use broader nibs/wetter inks, comes with 203 pages, ruled, blank, or dot grid (not sure of the grid sizing or ruled spacing.)

3.) Sterling Ink Notebook (52 gsm Koji paper) - comes with 272 or 520 pages, but only in a grid version, and the grid size is pretty small (3.7 x 3.9 mm.)

4.) Odyssey Notebooks (68 gsm Tomoe River Paper) - comes with 48, 200, 300, 400, or 500 pages and 7 mm ruled, 5 mm graph, or 5 mm dot grid.

The least expensive in terms of initial cost are the 48-page Odyssey booklets ($8) and the Clairefontaine notebooks ($22.) Sterling Ink is probably the best value in terms of price per page, though, with Odyssey coming in second.

I’m likely going with Odyssey, since it meets all the criteria I had and will be long-lasting.

Hi commonplace friends,

After several months of feeling too intimidated to get started, I’ve made the decision to set aside my fears of getting it wrong and tiptoe into the world of messy commonplacing.

One thing that would really help me get going is a notebook with pre-numbered pages that’s fountain pen friendly - and, ideally, lined instead of gridded. (I’m post traumatic brain injury and have dysgraphia that makes my numbers, specifically, somewhat hard to read.)

Does anyone have any suggestions for me? I’d be super grateful for them. Either way, thanks for reading this and look forward to getting to know this sub better :)

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u/DIYYYner — 4 days ago
▲ 12 r/PlannerAddicts+1 crossposts

Faded Chronicle 2027: Am I too late?

UPDATE: Thanks so much for all the helpful replies! I managed to get approved to join the FC Facebook group and got the latest news.

She’s planning to release more 2027 planners at the end of September and then again in late October/early November.

Only the preorders come bundled with a pencil board and planner tabs, but she’s going to put up what she has left of each of these as separate listing for purchase in late September, too.

In the meantime, I’ve seen a few people post their preordered planners for sale - not a lot, but a few.

It’s definitely worth joining the Faded Chronicle Facebook group if you’re interested in their 2027 planners!

Hiya, planner friends! I don’t know how I missed it, but I just discovered that the Faded Chronicle A5 setup is exactly what I’ve been looking for in a planner for next year. I want one so much.

Alas, the preorder’s all sold out. Does anyone know how likely it is that I’ll be able to get my hands on one once they’ve finished shipping what’s already been ordered? Also, any sense of the timeline for ordering as part of that second round? I just want to make sure I don’t miss the remaining ones when they’re released.

All insights, including from last year, would be much appreciated!

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u/DIYYYner — 5 days ago

[WTB] Waterman Carene Amber <M> - below retail (CONUS)

FOUND ONE! :)

Hiya, pen_swap. I'd like to get a Waterman Carene with a medium nib in amber with gold trim, and I thought I'd check here before ordering online. Does anyone have one of these that they'd like to sell? If so, I'd love to hear from you.

All sub rules apply. Please comment here before messaging me directly :)

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u/DIYYYner — 6 days ago
▲ 150 r/hobonichi

Not as nice as the real thing: DIY Weeks cover

I’ve got a Sneaker Weeks Mega that I put in a regular plastic cover, which means the cover’s a little too big for it.* Partly to hide the overhang and partly because I got bored with my red cover, I started making my own covers to insert into the plastic cover and change up how my Weeks looks.

I’ve cut wallpaper, wrapping paper, and card stock to size (20 x 19 cm) so far, all to decent success. This one is cardstock, courtesy of my printer. Thought folks might appreciate the design inspiration :)

*I know I can get one in the right size from Salty Katie on Etsy, but hers don’t have pen holders or internal pockets, and I like having both.

u/DIYYYner — 18 days ago

Tomoe River Paper inserts with lined paper?

I think I'm probably going to have to just sacrifice the space inside my TN and get a regular A5 notebook cut to size, but I wanted to check before going this route:

Does anyone make a TN-sized insert with 120ish pages of *lined,* or ruled, TRP? I see lots of options for plain or graph paper but nothing with lined sheets.

Is there someone who offers these that I've overlooked?

Any ideas or suggestions would be much appreciated :)

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u/DIYYYner — 19 days ago

Paper or similar cover (like for MD notebooks) for the Weeks/Weeks Mega?

I currently have a Sneaker Weeks Mega in a regular Weeks plastic cover. I got it because I wanted to keep my Weeks as slim as possible/not put anything bulkier on it. It's working all right, but the plastic gets scratched up, the book doesn't slide in and out of spaces as easily with the plastic on, and I've also been wanting to reduce my reliance on plastics where I can.

I recently discovered Midori MD's paper notebook covers (see THIS one, for example) and love them. They add no bulk and are surprisingly sturdy. Also, they're not plastic.

I'd love to put my Hobo Weeks in the same type of cover and wondered if anyone knows of someone who makes them? Or something like them - like, something made of cloth, maybe?

Any ideas for where to look would be much appreciated! Either way, thanks for reading this :)

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u/DIYYYner — 19 days ago

It’s planner test-driving season: What do you do with your existing planner while you trial other options?

I’m using a Cousin and a Weeks this year but am trying out various layouts and setups for next year. Do other people do this? And if so, do you keep filling out the planner you’re already using or abandon it while you test out something else?

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u/DIYYYner — 22 days ago

It's here & it needs a (feminist) charm: Help me pick?

Hiya, TN friends!! I've been lurking on here for a while. I didn't know if a TN setup would work for me, so I ordered this Newestor cover to give it a try. It arrived today, and I'm in love with it. It's so nice not to be juggling multiple notebooks at last!

The only problem is that it looks a little plain and in need of an adorable, but meaningful, charm. I've been searching Etsy until my eyes have glazed over and could use some input.

Would you pick any of these? Or, Do you have a recommendation for where to get some good feminist charms? (The picture of the books is just an example. The Etsy seller will make any book title you want, so I was going to order three feminist classics I like.)

Any and all input would be much appreciated. Either way, thanks for reading!

u/DIYYYner — 22 days ago

It’s planner test-driving season: What do you do with your existing planner while you trial other options?

I’m using a Cousin and a Weeks this year but am trying out various layouts and setups for next year. Do other people do this? And if so, do you keep filling out the planner you’re already using or abandon it while you test out something else?

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u/DIYYYner — 22 days ago

I basically want a Weeks Mega with daily pages, too: Anyone make something like this (in any size)?

Currently, I'm rocking a Hobonichi Weeks Mega and a Hobonichi Cousin. I'm in both multiple times every day, but I'm not using all of either planner. The sections I use in the Weeks are the yearly tracker in the front (for logging migraines and seizures), the horizontal weekly pages (for events and to-dos) and the notes pages in the back (for, umm, notes.) The only section I use regularly in the Cousin is the daily one (for daily priorities, logging what I'm up to, and brief memory-keeping/journaling entries).

It would be really nice to have everything in one place instead of juggling two separate books, but I haven't come across a planner that combines a horizontal weekly section with daily pages and a large number of blank pages.

Does this exist? I'd love to have it be B6-sized, but I'm open to all other sizes.

Or alternatively, is there some sort of Traveler's Notebook setup that would accommodate a tracker insert (maybe I could use a monthly for this), a dated horizontal weekly insert that spans 12 months, a dated daily insert (which could be part of the year only), and a notes insert? I've been tempted to try to lash a Weeks and a Hobonichi A6 techo or Cousin together into some kind of cover, but I don't know what size cover would work without it being awkward to write in one or the other book.

All ideas/suggestions/thoughts would be super appreciated. Either way, thanks for reading this long essay.

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u/DIYYYner — 24 days ago

Pens with generous (or no) "sweet spots"

So I've reached what some folks might call the "one in, one out" stage in my FP journey. I have lots of good - and some fantastic - pens in my collection, and I want to hone it now so that it includes only those that truly accommodate the way I write. This will involve getting rid of some pens, yes, but also replacing them with options that work better for me.

For context, I'm a lefty (underwriter) who was diagnosed with dysgraphia as a child. I am also a brain injury survivor. Fountain pens have been integral to my recovery from the latter and have helped me overcome the former.

While my handwriting and grip have improved, I still tend to rotate the nibs of my pens to the right, especially when I'm fatigued. This means that I frequently struggle with skipping when I write with pens that have really specific sweet spots.

For some reason, Asvines have been falling into this category for me, along with some of my vintage pens, like my Lady Sheaffers and Parker 45. I don't struggle with this with the Platinum 3776, Pilot Kakunos, or Sailors I own.

I'm wondering if people on here have other recommendations for pens that are forgiving when it comes to sweet spots - either because they have a large one or none at all. Any pens you've found that fit this description? I'd love to hear about all of them.

Thanks for reading this and look forward to any comments :)

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u/DIYYYner — 29 days ago

All Tomoe River Paper bleeds *sometimes,* right?

Hi, you all! I’m in the middle of a notebook quandary that I can’t seem to resolve. I posted about it a couple of days ago. In the post, I said that I was looking for an alternative to a 52 GSM TRP notebook for my journal because I want to be able to use all of my fountain pens/inks in it, and some of them bleed in my current Hobonichi notebook.

Several people chimed in to say that I must have gotten one of the old, bad batches of TRP because I shouldn’t be getting any bleeding at all, except with large swatches of ink.

The thing is, I have a 2026 Hobonichi lined notebook, 2026 Hobonichi Weeks, and 2026 Hobonichi Cousin, and the same inks bleed in all three of them - not when I swatch but when I write with a fine or medium nib. I also experience bleeding with a Sterling Ink notebook with TRP (although I think that IS from a bad paper batch), as well as a generic TRP notebook.

Am I really the only one having this experience? Surely not, right? Would love to know for sure.

And…If you’ve hung in there this long and still have energy to respond, I’d love some suggestions for alternative notebooks that are NOT Midori MD (too scratchy), easily accessible in the US, come in A6 or similar (b6 or b6 slim would be even better), and show off ink properties (almost) as well as TRP without bleeding.

Any and all comments, thoughts, etc. would be deeply appreciated!

u/DIYYYner — 1 month ago

Nope, nothing excessive at all

Making this messy list of my pens and their inks never gets old. It’s, bar none, my favorite activity when I need to chill out.

Do I have too many pens inked? Why, yes. Do I love it? Also, yes. Here’s to going overboard!

p.s. Lest you think I’m drowning in ink bottles, these are mostly samples - excellent ones, but samples nonetheless.

u/DIYYYner — 1 month ago

Switching from 52 to 68 GSM Tomoe River Paper - or something else- to prevent FP bleeding?

Hi, you all! I'm currently stuck in notebook limbo and could really use some help. I love my Hobonichi lined notebooks for journaling, but I want to be able to use all my fountain pens in my notebook and can't right now because some of my inks bleed through the paper pretty badly.

I almost went back to Midori MD notebooks, which is what I was using before and which don't bleed, but after trying this out, I realized that there's just no comparison between Midori and TRP when it comes to showing off ink qualities. It hurt my heart, for example, to write with Diamine Lady Grey in my Hobonichi and then in a Midori and realize how differently the ink flows and looks between the two.

I'm wondering whether I should try to track down a 68 GSM TRP notebook to help with the bleeding? (I'm in the US and don't know where to find one so could use some recs on that front, too.)

Does anyone have experience with the two weights and know whether the 68 GSM would make a substantial enough difference to solve bleeding issues?

Or is there another paper I'm not thinking of that's accessible to someone in the US and might fit the bill of both showing off ink qualities really well and not bleeding. (I've tried Rhodia and found it didn't show off ink qualities very well, but it is smooth and doesn't bleed, which is nice.)

Any thoughts, suggestions, etc. would be deeply appreciated. Thank you so much for reading!

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u/DIYYYner — 1 month ago

DIY Hobo Cover, the Sequel

I posted my new favorite hack for Hobonichi cover boredom a few days ago. It involves cutting paper, wallpaper, cardstock,fabric, etc. to the size of your clear plastic cover, inserting it, and voila, you have a brand new Hobonichi. (In my case, the insert also hides the fact that my Sneaker Weeks is too short for the standard Weeks cover.)

I didn’t really love the original result, bc I used wallpaper with a rather boring pattern. This painting, printed on cardstock, makes me happier.

I thought I’d share it to reinforce how super easy it is to make over a Hobonichi this way. It takes like 5 minutes. If you haven’t tried it and are a little bored with your current cover, I highly recommend it!

u/DIYYYner — 1 month ago

A little facelift: DIY wallpaper Weeks cover

Thought I’d share in case anyone’s in the same boat. I have a red Sneaker Weeks Mega and, as much as I love it, I was growing weary of the color (and the fact that it’s a little too small for the clear cover.) So today, I cut out some wallpaper I’m never going to use, stuck it in the clear cover, and voila, new Weeks! And it hides the size of rye Sneaker, too!

I’m not sure I’m in love with this particular pattern, but the colors are nice. And now that I know I can switch things up so easily, I’m itching to try the fabric, wrapping paper, etc. I have lying around for future mini makeovers.

Anyone else do this?

u/DIYYYner — 1 month ago

FP-friendly Weeks or similar-sized planner with daily pages AND 2-page weekly spreads (US)

Hi, planner friends! I’ve been using a Hobonichi Weeks for appointments, tasks, and note-taking and a Hobonichi Cousin for daily logs, tracking habits, and memory-keeping this year. The system’s been ok, and the paper is great for my fountain pens, but I would love to have everything in one place and portable enough for my purse.

In an ideal world, the daily pages for each week would follow the weekly pages, but that’s not essential. I have no preference when it comes to horizontal or vertical weekly pages. I just need space on those pages for adding weekly tasks.

Any recommendations?

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u/DIYYYner — 2 months ago

WTT: Pilot e95s Fine for Medium

https://imgur.com/a/xuWJ18k

Hoping to trade my black and gold Pilot e95s in fine for the same pen with a medium nib. Open to any color.

Mine’s been inked and used, so it’s in B condition. I have the original box and papers, as shown, and it’s in excellent condition.

All sub rules apply- including posting here before messaging. Look forward to hearing from you :)

u/DIYYYner — 2 months ago