u/Dangerous-Radish6017

My abusive father just remarried. I have extremely limited contact with him, we are facebook friends and that is only so I can see what he’s doing. He was physically abusive to me and my siblings and emotionally and verbally abusive to my mother. He also cheated on her and was discharged from the military for what he did.
I found out that he got remarried a few days ago. None of my other family members told me. She has children, some of whom are young and still live with her. What I need advice on is if I should reach out to his new wife and tell her what he’s done. If she had no kids or they were adults I wouldn’t feel like I need to say anything to her, but because she does I’m not sure if I need to or not. My father is a textbook narcissist. Not in the way that everyone claims their family members are but they really aren’t, he displays all the traits of a true narcissist. He is controlling and plays mind games. He believes the world owes him everything and pretends like he is some amazing god, all while being incredibly insecure. I fear he hasn’t changed. The woman is likely past child bearing years so I’m relieved that there likely won’t be any children shared between them, which was how he tormented my mother. Sorry if this is rambling, I’ve been so anxious about all of this. I don’t want him to hurt anyone else like he hurt my siblings and I.
As a woman, I’d want someone to tell me. What do you all feel? Should I say something? Should I reach out to her and just introduce myself?

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