u/Dangerous-Total31

Oil used for prawns pickle and pork pickle?? Does anyone know?

Once made prawns picked with coconut oil. Turned out good but it solidified in fridge. Does anyone know what oil is used for pickle?

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u/Dangerous-Total31 — 3 days ago

M33, wife F30. We’ve been married for 3 years and overall we have a good relationship, though like any couple, we’ve had our share of fights and stressful periods.

The issue is around our sex life. My wife still has a strong interest in sex and enjoys intimacy, and I used to feel the same. But sometime after marriage, my sex drive towards sex with her dropped a lot from my side. It’s not that I don’t love her or find her attractive—I do—but I just don’t seem to have the same desire for sex anymore.

What confuses me is that I can still masturbate regularly, even daily, so it doesn’t feel like I’ve completely lost my libido. It feels more like I’ve lost interest in partnered sex, and I’m trying to understand why.

I keep wondering if it’s because of emotional stress, unresolved fights between us, routine/comfort after marriage, porn/masturbation habits, or maybe something else going on mentally or physically.

I don’t want this to affect our relationship long-term, and I also don’t want her to feel unwanted because that’s not the case at all.

Has anyone else experienced something similar? Especially where desire for masturbation stays but desire for sex with your partner drops? What helped you figure it out and improve things?

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u/Dangerous-Total31 — 19 days ago