Good Lumbar Pillow or similar?

Hello!

We just bought a 2026 SEL, and I find the passenger seat very uncomfortable. LOVE the rest of the car. We had a 2023 Palisade and the front seats were both the same seat, and very comfortable. The passenger seat int eh SEL has my low back hurting. Anyone have a fix for this that looks good and do they interfere with the heated seats? TIA!

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u/DaphneMoon-Crane — 1 month ago
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Who’s she gonna sue for this one?

u/DaphneMoon-Crane — 1 month ago
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AITA not putting up my DILs painting in our new home and telling her that I am not a fan of her art

it is 24x36 its big

We downgraded our house, there is no place to put it that I wont see it everyday.

We have one bathroom, two bedrooms (one that is my office), the living room, and kitchen. The basement is my husband's workshop and he doesn't like it either.

I seriously dislike how she does portions. I don't like that the waists are tiny and the buts and boobs are huge. Not my type of artwork

I don;t like it, I don't wish to decorate my home with art I don't like and have to see everyday

If i gave her artwork I wouldn't expect her to hang it up in her house if she didn;t like it. Even if I spent months on it, becuase it is not my home

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My DIL has been married to my son for  a few years and she has a side gig of making art. She has a habit of giving paintings to friends and family as gifts.

I think most people like them but for me I am not a huge fan of her art style. I am much more a nature person than someone that wants scenes with people. Also when she paints people they are stylized. 

My husband and I bought a house and we have fully moved in. My DIL gave me a painting of someone sitting at the beach because she knows we like the beach. I don’t like it, the women in the painting looks off, her legs are too long and she is too curvy. I know it is her style of painting but I just don’t like it. 

At the time I got the gift I thanked her for and I thought that would be the end of it. I put the painting in the garage and kinda forgot about it. 

I bought an ocean painting for the living room. My DIL visited the other day because she wanted to pick up some of our old Fourth of July decorations. Our house is smaller now so we are purging decorations.

We were in the garage and she saw her painting there. She was surprised and asked why it wasn’t in the house. I  told her I didn’t have a spot to put it. She kept pressing and mentioned I got a new painting for her living room. 

I told her again that I don’t have a spot for it. She then picked up the painting and said she could help find a spot. I told her no. She asked why not and I decided to be honest. I told her I am not a fan of the artwork. 

She got quiet after that and I gave her the decoration. I got a call form my son and he was mad. He told me I need to apologize and hang up her painting. That his wife has been crying and it took her hours to make.

I told him I’m not hanging it up and that resulted in an argument. 

I need some opinions. I feel like it’s my house I can decorate it how I want.

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u/DaphneMoon-Crane — 2 months ago

Hello all! I have been crying alot and more emotional since starting Dotti estrogen and Progesterone. I have PCOS, I am 44, and had a total hysterectomy in 2024 but kept ovaries. She did a blood panel which I know is just a snapshot of that moment, but I had little estrogen and zero progesterone. Will the crying level out? It's been 2 months. I go back to my NP next month. Thank you!

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u/DaphneMoon-Crane — 2 months ago