Is this normal??
So me (23 M) and her (25F) have been together for more than 4 months now and something’s in terms of gut feeling isn’t sitting with me
So for context of the day she had the day off (all cool no biggie) and I had work at 5 pm till 9pm and I was texting her before I headed out to work and usually don’t check my phone at work cuz for me it’s only a few hours and I don’t think with how fast paced my job is really necessary! Later when I got off work I texted her that I was off and asked if she’s working the next day. Messages didn’t go through (no delivered or nothing) I checked her location and last updated at Arby’s so I said okay well that’s fine. Keep in mind I also called her twice to see if it was just my end but they dropped when I called. At this point I went to the cape shop trying to catch it before they closed and got there right as they closed and then was heading back home when she said “sorry my phone died” (now I’m like that’s fine - but what’s weird is she never answered any of my questions)
I get back home and call her again to no surprise she didn’t answer so I just texted “Ok I called again but went to voicemail im awake if you wanna come over tn?”
My tldr to this is… is this normal? Am I just over reacting to something small? I need some serious answers and blunt if possible! Thank you!
Update: she replied and said “Probably not since my mom works and so does (sister) so they both need cars in the morning” I offered to pick her up awaiting a reply