u/DazzlingCount1292

I haven’t been on this thread in months and i don’t know if this is common knowledge BUT. whoever started HRT through the military is allowed to continue their HRT through the VA. i did not know this. took absolutely forever to get an appointment with the endocrinologist and was wondering why my PCM wanted the appointment anyways. come to find out, I just got a years worth of supplies.

if anyone is confused about the statement that was put out about the VA, do not let them fear you into not asking questions and doing what’s best for you! i also believe we are still allowed surgeries because they did as me about those as well. best of luck to all of you!

i’m a trans man for reference with a wife for around a year now. when we were in the earlier stages of our relationship, she told her sister that i was trans without asking me. i was pretty upset but i brushed it off because her sister didn’t treat me any type of way at the beginning. as time went on though, she would make remarks about how my wife can’t get pregnant for me. she would also make jokes about me being pregnant. my wife said she didn’t hear her say that but i’m not so sure i believe it because she was right there. my wife said she would talk to her. i said no, i don’t want to make it a big deal because we all live together. she persisted and i can’t remember if she brought it up to her or not.

fast forward to tonight, we live only the two of us together. she told her other sister that i was trans a few weeks ago and didn’t tell me. while she’s on facetime with this sister, i hear her sister making a joke about how my wife can’t get pregnant by me.

i’m genuinely so hurt and confused because not even 30 minutes before i heard that, i was talking to her about my insecurities and how my self esteem is still pretty low regardless of how stealth i am. i confronted her about it because i was hurt and i thought she would respect my request of her not talking about me being trans to anyone. but she got mad at me and just told me she would tell her sister to not say those things. but that’s not the point at all. i’m getting fed up and i don’t know what to do.

i’ve been pushing away people who care about me since i can remember. starting when i was a kid, my grandparents were amazing to me. i would be so mean to them and i don’t know why.

in my adolescent years, i had a gf for 4 years, all through out high school. she was great and i was mean.

now 7 years later, i am still the same. i have had therapy a lot and i don’t know what is wrong with me. i feel so bad for the way that i’ve treated those who loved me. i loved them too, i just couldn’t show it and i still can’t figure out why.

any advice helps, thanks

I have a 2003 Subaru outback. It’s the 3.0L H6 engine. The car doesn’t like to start randomly and sometimes has a check engine light for the crankshaft sensor. I have the part and looked all over but I cannot find where it’s located. Been looking online too but apparently this is another issue with a different engine of the same model. If anyone has any guidance I’d appreciate it. Again, I’m not mechanically inclined so if someone has a picture or a video that’d be really helpful. Thank you