I want to discuss Atheism with someone who’s really a Athiest, who lives like an Athiest.
I am an Ex- muslim, at least that’s what I call myself, not sure about my family. Anyway, it’s better if someone comes from the same background as mine.
Just want to discuss some stuff, please send a text if you’re interested, if it goes good, we can even connect on G-meet and discuss the same stuff.
She doesn’t reply to my texts for days, but whenever we go out ( we have gone out 4 times, we vibe great, we share everything and really enjoy) she would
be the first person to text the next day, but then again starts the late replies and ghosting, not picking up calls,
I was done and sent the following texts, she called but I couldn’t answer it, we talked for some time and we went out once after that, also fyi I pay all the times we go out and last time, she said she doesn’t like me paying on all dates ( so yeah, we aren’t just hanging out, we are going on dates), and again , she texted me next day that, next time we will go to this bar, I said yes cool, we will do that, and then again starts the ghosting part, she didn’t text me for next 14 days, then I text her, and she doesn’t reply, I call her, she says, she shifting her place and it’s been very busy.
I fucking don’t understand it. What should I do ?
It’s been a year since I joined this company and I am a fresher fyi. This is my first company, honestly the past year was great, it never felt exhausting at any point of time, but since past few days because of less employees, the burden has increased a lot more.
I haven’t got a single off in 21 days and this weekend i.e my 22 nd day, he expected me to come again, I was like, I’m exhausted sir, I really can’t do it, he said, take the leave on some other day, no leaves on weekends, I just said I have severe headache and I won’t be able to come.
On top of that, I had to 24 hours shifts in between i.e I go in the morning and return next day morning, I do get a complete day off after that, but that shouldn’t be considered as a leave.
I can’t even leave the job, since I am fresher, no other company would pay as much as this does. I am thinking changing my site location to another one, which is possible and it won’t be this exhausting but that thingis, the real construction is about to begin here and I would learn a lot from here then the place I am willing to go to, it would take another 6 M to start the actual construction.
I don’t know man, my manager is always very good to me, but the thing is he also has a lot pressure from higher management, he barely sleeps at night, but whatever, I think it’s just too much to expect me to come for more 20 days straight with out a leave.
What do u think I should do when I face off him on Monday?
Omg, I just love it more every day.
I’m 23 and this is my first bike. On god, very grateful for this. Just can’t get enough of it.
I don’t understand why Indian men are so keen towards female bonding. Like actually, bhai, start looking at them from a very generic point of view. Seriously, take out the sexual part and look at them. Are they really that interesting to hang out with that you’re dying for their attention?
Oh come on, I understand we all need a female energy in our life, but you also need to understand that it’s not going to be forever like the bond between your male friends. See, if it’s your girlfriend, I completely understand that you need to prioritize her and give her that importance. But every other aira gaira female? Like seriously, stop SIMPING over them.
It’s due to this that their standards are just increasing day by day. Like come on, itna bhaav seriously??
Stop treating them differently. Your life’s trajectory is not going to change when she comes into your life. It just takes one moment and your hangouts, dates, long calls, rides won’t even matter anymore. Whereas your bro, no matter how many misunderstandings happen, how much you guys curse each other, or even fight, it can resolve over a simple chai.
The point I’m trying to make is: prioritize the bro gang, and treat female attention as a very secondary thing.
What is your opinion on this ?
FYI: It’s not rant post after any break up or nothing, it’s just that i’ve seen a crazy number of posts/ comments of Indian men dying for female companionship, so just couldn’t take it.