u/DestinyKn1ght

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Baby/Pre transition pictures

How do you feel about pictures taken before you transition?

I began transitioning when I was about 11/12 and hate most of my early/pre transition pictures because it just doesn't look right and I know if anyone finds them I'll be outed entirely. It also just doesn't look like me, I feel really disconnected looking at pictures that clearly show me as a female.

But when I bring this up to my mother she said that I shouldn't because "its who I was" back then, which doesn't make sense because A - didnt know transgender/transsex was a thing back then and B - how the fumble were we meant to know as a toddler?

This is like half and advice thing and your own personal experiences

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u/DestinyKn1ght — 2 days ago

Would I suit blonde hair?

Pictures for reference**

Im really debating going blonde but im not sure if id just look weird or not, also not sure what shade

u/DestinyKn1ght — 2 days ago

How do I make a good demo reel?

(I dont know if thats the right tag but nothing else lined up from what else i could find)

So I'm a young training VA/actor in general and I don't really know how to make a proper demo reel without sounding bad and having poor quality. I use a maono made mic (its usually made for gaming) and i have one of those little Soundproof boxes and sound insulation. I also dont have a good laptop so id have to do editing on my phone.

I also just dont know what to say? I know its similar to my acting reel but do I need an intro? What kind of voices do I need to do? Do I need different ones for commercial and shows?

I hope this makes sense tbh, any advice appreciate

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u/DestinyKn1ght — 2 days ago

Baby/Pre transition pictures

How do you feel about pictures taken before you transition?

I began transitioning when I was about 11/12 and hate most of my early/pre transition pictures because it just doesn't look right and I know if anyone finds them I'll be outed entirely. It also just doesn't look like me, I feel really disconnected looking at pictures that clearly show me as a female.

But when I bring this up to my mother she said that I shouldn't because "its who I was" back then, which doesn't make sense because A - didnt know transexualism was a thing back then and B - how the fumble were we meant to know as a toddler?

This is like half and advice thing and your own personal experiences

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u/DestinyKn1ght — 2 days ago

This confuses me

*I put the last image there for the definition of genderfae

Lowkey shock horror, youre afab and align with feminine genders (whatever that means), like are we surprised?

u/DestinyKn1ght — 6 days ago

I need advice desperately

I feel so bad abt this but I really struggle with gender dysphoria and dont know how to combat it as a Catholic

I am not transex by choice. My body is literally tearing itself apart and nothing I do will fix it. Im praying, trying to ignore it and asking God for guidance and nothing is helping. It is getting in the way of me existing and serving God.

And I dont do it for the whole social trend or because its quirky and makes me different. I cannot physically function and have been like this as long as I can remember

Then ive got half of the people I know telling me Im a liar and I'll rot in hell and the others telling me I just need to "love myself" and it'll go away (not like its still a mental disorder and I hate the fact its been watered down)

I dont really know what to do and no one seems to have a straight answer.

Any help appreciated, God Bless

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u/DestinyKn1ght — 13 days ago

Im just gonna put this here

Does anyone even know half of those words? Or if theres any evidence to them?

u/DestinyKn1ght — 14 days ago

Update to "Im terrified to ask my crush out"

Added a pic of my original post since this page dont allow links/ cross posts

I dont normally do updates but this feels so annoying and I have nowhere else to post this

So literally days before I'm about to ask her out on a date, she starts getting super close to this other person (not really important detail but they're a massive tucute and like a he/they with dresses and makeup) like really close and I'm like "oh..they aren't usually this clingy together" but I think nothing of it and today I was sat waiting for my course to start at college and the two walk in, (keep in mind today is the day i want to ask) and you can guess where this is going.

They kissed infront of me. Not just a little peck either, full on.

And i have this horrible feeling the only person who knew abt the crush (someone who i just had an issue with) told the person whose now dating my crush because the moment she left the room, they gave me the NASTIEST side eye ever like they did it infront of me on purpose

So im just great right now, lowkey already having a bad time and this made it so much worse because thats so stupid.

However though I did appreciate the advice I got on my original post and will so use it in the future

u/DestinyKn1ght — 16 days ago

For anyone who doesn't know, transsex/transsexual is someone whose gender identity differs from their assigned sex at birth and who typically seeks medical interventions—such as hormones or surgery—to align their body with their gender identity

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u/DestinyKn1ght — 23 days ago

Weird title but you get the jist.

I was watching videos (mainly from tucutes) and i noticed a large majority of them have or at least claim to have ASD and I was wondering if this was like a common trend, if it was an actually studied medical thing or anything else?

Is there any actual evidence that people with ASD and whatnot are more likely to be trans and have dysphoria, or is it tucutes just claiming labels?

(By the way sorry if I worded any of that wrong, I am actually diagnosed with asd and that was long after I even came pit as trans)

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u/DestinyKn1ght — 23 days ago