u/Diegobroccoli

I only started to get in touch with radical feminism (or any feminism at all) in the last week, and it seems like it's a new world of stuff that I needed to hear now, specially when there are so little people around me that agree on it. Tho, I could only find so much as one book that seemed interesting, and it is: Refusing to be a man: essays on sex and justice by John Stoltenberg.

I don't know how weird that can sound, but I generally will like feminine identity authors. There's no profound logical reason, i just rarely can see myself in any men - fiction or not -, John is a huge exception. It means that titles aren't out of the table just because they're written by other gender identities, it's just a preference.

I would like some suggestion mainly on anything that involves gender and sexuality, because it's something that has been changing a lot on me lately. If the labels even change anything in your answer: I'm asexual, biromantic and agender.

https://preview.redd.it/1pjrx9jgtwhh1.png?width=618&format=png&auto=webp&s=952a4cae0a2cf2e9acc1c204463a05e311f8a66c

I can't find this shirt anywhere, specially not in the big ass link in the screen or anywhere in merchnow. If you guys know that art or have the link to it i would be very grateful thanks. The shirt link would be awesome too, but the art is more important.

If the labels help: I'm asexual, biromantic-strongly-leaning-women and sex-favorable.

I'm not insecure about anything, just kinda hopeless.

(All from now on is speculative, i'm a virgin)
Everywhere i look in, it just returns me that i'm a 'service top' in bed, and just not 'stone top' because the only touch-me-not rule i have is to ignore i have a dick.

I get satisfaction in sex purely from my partner's enjoyment, so i wouldn't have sex if they were ace too. that comes down to me not being able to coom when trying to jerk off, and I've died from blue balls many times.

Me not wanting to have my genitalia in the way and being ace just make me more favorable towards some kinks (nothing weird, dont fear reading beyond this):

• I don't want to receive oral but like giving;
• Pegging sounds nice, not merely because of the act itself, but about me being vulnerable to a person that I'm letting take WHATEVER they want from me, ask me anything, and i'll do it. I never tried anal, just fingering, and it feels much nicer than any response my body can give, but still, nothing sexual, it's as good as a good scratch, but more intense;
• For me, these have to be done along with worshipping, and in the least dominant way possible: instead of "good girl/boy" a "your body looks beautiful in this lighting" while horizontally climbing them slowly;
• I think of sex more as art than a mindless relief.

So, do you feel like this? Are you in the same situation as me or did you find the love jar?