u/Double-Ad7312

Me (18M) and my girlfriend (20F) just found out she’s pregnant. It wasn’t planned. She told me she was on birth control hence why I didn’t use a condom.

I personally don’t feel ready to become a parent, but she feels differently and wants to keep it. I don’t understand why she wants to keep it we are still young.

I care about her a lot and I don’t want this to turn into something that destroys our relationship, but we’re clearly not on the same page right now.

I’m looking for advice on how people have handled situations like this.

Edit:

I'm not asking for advice on how to "force her" to get an abortion. I was just asking for advice on how to navigate the situation. I get, I should've used one. This ain't an excuse but I just turned 18 last week so I'm still very young. She turns 21 in July. She was my tutor. I was just asking for advice from people who have been in similar situations.

My sister betrayed my trust over something personal and I just need to get this off my chest.

A few months ago I got a tattoo. My parents are very strict so only my other sisters knew about it, and they all agreed to keep it private. One of my sisters (we’re not close at all) found out by accident and promised she wouldn’t tell anyone.

Today (the sister I’m talking about is 20 years old )she was arguing with my younger sister (11) over something small. And she decided to bring up the fact that my younger sister gets bullied at school . I decided to step in because she was being unfair and honestly out of line arguing with a child like that. During the argument she got angry and started repeatedly shouting at me to “show mum what’s on your wrist.”

She ended up exposing my tattoo to my mum, who then got really angry at me. It felt like she only did it to hurt me in the moment, especially since she had promised she wouldn’t say anything.

Now everything’s blown up at home and I feel like my trust has been completely broken. I’ve cut her off because I genuinely feel betrayed, but I’m also just really angry and hurt about the whole situation.

I have had so much problems with her in the past and she honestly dies my head in .

I’m not even sure how to process it right now.

I'm currently undergoing the onboarding process for a new job offer I received. 2 weeks ago today I was stupidly enough to take a whole packet of edibles which had 600mg of thc in it. IM not a regular user i rarely smoke. I smoked twice in February this year and once in October last year., that was my first time doing edibles. I just wanted to know how long it would take to clear my urine to pass a drug test because I have one coming up soon. I'm not aware of the date yet. But I assume it will be in the coming weeks. It's for the onboarding process for a new job offer I received.

I'm 58-59kg and 168cm

Or 127-128 bs

I'm currently undergoing the onboarding process for a new job offer I received. 2 weeks ago today I was stupidly enough to take a whole packet of edies which had 600mg of thc in it. IM not a regular user 1 rarely smoke 🍃I smoked twice in February this year and once in October last year., that was my first time doing edies. I just wanted to know how long it would take to clear my urine to pass a drug test because I have one coming up soon. I'm not aware of the date yet. But I assume it will be in the coming weeks. It's for the onboarding process for a new job offer I received.

I'm 58-59kg and 168cm

Or 127-128 bs