Finished season 2

I just finished season 2 of Kimi ni Todoke. To say that it was brutal is an understatement, but there is so much that is hinted to but never explicitly said.

Finally seeing Shouta Kazehaya as he really is, an insecure 16 year old boy hiding behind the popularity mask. In the first season we see the happy shiny person through the eyes of Sawako. Season 2 shows a boy that misunderstands everything and jumps to conclusions, or basically a totally normal clueless 16 year old. He doesn't "save" Sawako because he is a knight in shining armor, that is the popular story his peers tell. He simply likes Sawako and wants her to see him. Just like we see him "save" Kurumi, who he also likes.

We also see Shouta's personal redemption arc. I believe that in middle school he had a crush on Kurumi, but he never acted on it. Exhibit A is the fact that while Kurumi schemes to keep girls from confessing to Shouta, we never see Shouta confessing to any girl. Not one. As Kent Miura puts it, the popular boy with his pick of girls went three years without asking anyone out. That is strange, unless his heart was already taken by someone. Kurumi. As Shouta was too scared to confess to Sawako, he was also too scared to confess to Kurumi. And on her part, Kurumi spent 3 years sitting there waiting for Shouta to make a move. Exhibit B is the fact that when Kent makes that comment, Shouta's reaction is aggressive, which means that Kent hit a raw nerve and there is something that Shouta is embarrassed about. So my take was that either Shouta was gay or he regrets not having taken a risk in middle school with the girl he liked. Kurumi. But Sawako is not like Kurumi. Kurumi is flashy, but she is a coward. Sawako is quiet, but she has a strong spine. And at the end of season 2 she is the one that pushes things over the finish line. Shouta never even apologizes for his part in the whole mess and if Sawako had waited for him, he would have Forrest Gumped his way through, making a mess of it, and spent another 3 years believing that his love was unrequited. I think Kent's offhand comment basically tells Shouta that he's headed for 3 more years like middle school. The tragedy is that for all of Kurumi's scheming, she missed her opportunity. By high school the window closed when Shouta met Sawako.

Then there are Ayane, Chizu, and Ryu. Ryu is stuck in the shadow of his big brother and Chizu's childhood crush. As for Chizu and Ayane, we never see their homes and families. In fact Chizu pretty much lives in the Sanada ramen shop and Ryu's room. Even Ryu's father says something to the effect of wishing that Chizu was his own daughter. This seems to imply that Chizu's home environment is not that great. Ayane is shown dating an older guy who is insecure, controlling, and violent. We see him for a brief moment and he appears disheveled, possibly he drinks a lot. This seems to imply that Chizu's home environment is not that great either. And it explains why Ayane, a very feminine gyaru, and Chizu, a loud tomboy, complete opposites, find each other. They kind of become each other's family, they are sisters. It also explains how they respond to Sawako. They see her as one of them. This also explains Chizu's pain when she finds out that Toru is getting married. As the Sanada family is like her family, Chizu sees Toru getting married as losing this family too. While Toru is a childhood crush, the whole issue is about loss, losing the family she found. Which then explains Toru coming back to talk to her to reassure her that she is not a neighbor, she is family, and she isn't losing him.

What a roller coaster. On to season 3.

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u/Double-Yak9686 — 11 days ago

Apple Home notifications broken?

It seems that Apple Home notifications are broken in 26.6.x, although 25.x.x may have been also. I am not receiving non-critical notifications from sensors on any of my devices and critical notifications are only arriving on an iPad. The critical notifications will sometimes popup when I open the Home app, but that is not guaranteed.

Well, they are broken for me at least. I have spent the last hour verifying that every device is set up properly in Apple Home and Settings Notifications.

All devices (iPhones, iPad, Mac, HomePods) are on the latest OS versions (26.6.x)

I did a search on this channel to see if there were any posts about this, but didn't see any so wondering if it's something other people have seen this happening too.

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u/Double-Yak9686 — 12 days ago
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TCK in anime

I just finished watching the anime A Sign of Affection and started reading the manga. The male lead is a TCK, Japanese born, moved to Germany, then returned to Japan.

The female lead has a similar experience to him. She is born deaf and when she reaches school age she is sent to a school for deaf children. She grows up there and when she graduates high school she enrolls in a regular college, where she has to navigate a whole new world.

The author indicated that the anime is about representing a deaf character in anime. I don't know if it was intended this way, but the male lead's behaviors definitely read like a TCK. I wasn't able to find anything saying one way or the other, but it definitely feels like the author understands what that experience is like. Initially the male lead seems a little unusual by Japanese standards, but once he explained his backstory, I was like "Of course, he's a TCK! Now his behaviors makes total sense!" And a lot fell into place for me.

I wanted to post this in case anyone is into anime. I normally wouldn't get excited over something like this, but discovering the TCK concept was huge for me. So when I realized the male lead was a TCK and his behaviors are TCK behaviors, I got sucked in.

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u/Double-Yak9686 — 2 months ago

HomePod stopped playing music in automations in 26.5

I have three Home automations that play music from Apple Music. One is nature sounds to fall asleep to, the other is on wakeup. Since I updated to 26.5, the automations seem to run fine except that the HomePod does not play any music. If I ask Siri explicitly to play a song or an artist, it plays without a problem, so it's not an issue with the Apple Music subscription or network connectivity.

Has anyone else noticed this with their automations? If it's only me, I'll need to investigate what ad changed on my end.

Edit: This seems to be only an issue on my HomePod minis. My OG HomePod appears to not have been affected.

If anyone wants or needs to restore their HomePod minis, you can download the 26.4 firmware from this page. There are also steps for how to restore.

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u/Double-Yak9686 — 3 months ago

Just in cayth thomeone wath too immerthed in the Forth today and didn't notith the releath. Bad joke ... go stand in the corner.

u/Double-Yak9686 — 4 months ago
▲ 20 r/tradfri

In a previous post I described how I always provide a wired Thread device (bulb or plug) as a support repeater for my battery sensors. My main reason was that it would reduce the power necessary for a battery powered device to ensure it doesn't fall of the network.

That's probably still a valid reason for doing that but I when I watched this video, I learned some more interesting stuff about Thread devices. From analyzing his homemade sensor he sees that it is sending periodic messages to the Thread Border Router to keep its connection to the Thread network alive. Kind of like a heartbeat. If the TBR doesn't receive the message within a specified time (apparently 15s), it terminates the connection. So, it appears that by providing battery powered devices with a wired Thread device, I unintentionally also improved the reliability of this heartbeat.

The next interesting piece of information, is that to extend this heartbeat window, you need Matter 1.4 and Thread 1.4 support. Don't quote me on this, but AFAIK, Ikea is on 1.4, while Apple Home & Google & Amazon are currently on 1.3, with Home Assistant using a beta version of 1.4. So this discrepancy might be part of the connectivity issues, as battery devices would want to use as little power as possible. So by having a version 1.4 battery device routing through a version 1.4 mains powered device, the powered device may also be acting as a buffer.

This may also be the problem when a device tries to connect or reconnect to a Thread network. By default it might try to connect to the TBR that supports the newest version. So if you have multiple brands of TBRs in your home network, each with different Thread and Matter versions, your device might not be attempting to (re)connect to the one you want it to.

Given all the issues people are having, this information might be helpful.

>Edit: start watching at this offset

u/Double-Yak9686 — 4 months ago