What should I do?
So my wife is on another work trip, and I’m home with the kids, which is no big deal. For two nights in a row she has been going to bed at the hotel at 11pm saying she’s tired, which she doesn’t normally do at home even if she has to get up at 7am for work. This is not sitting well with me. I have reason to believe she is cheating, turning off her location and lying about where she is. Every time I bring it up, she blames me and disregards my feelings, saying I don’t show her love or attention. I’m struggling with what to do at this point, because even when I do show her love and attention, she still goes out lying and cheating. She seems to be completely detached from our marriage and the kids. I have recommended marriage counseling, but she is refusing to go. I love my wife and my family, and I am willing to give it my all before I walk away. I’m just struggling with what to do next, as I am losing myself in the process.