What should I do?

So my wife is on another work trip, and I’m home with the kids, which is no big deal. For two nights in a row she has been going to bed at the hotel at 11pm saying she’s tired, which she doesn’t normally do at home even if she has to get up at 7am for work. This is not sitting well with me. I have reason to believe she is cheating, turning off her location and lying about where she is. Every time I bring it up, she blames me and disregards my feelings, saying I don’t show her love or attention. I’m struggling with what to do at this point, because even when I do show her love and attention, she still goes out lying and cheating. She seems to be completely detached from our marriage and the kids. I have recommended marriage counseling, but she is refusing to go. I love my wife and my family, and I am willing to give it my all before I walk away. I’m just struggling with what to do next, as I am losing myself in the process.

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u/Dougb756 — 1 day ago
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Water got on the circuit board 😡

So, I finally found some clown to come install a 220V plug for my hot tub. Unfortunately, things did not go as planned.

It started raining during the installation, and his main concern seemed to be packing up his tools and leaving. In the process, he left the hot tub’s circuit board compartment open, allowing rainwater to get directly onto the circuit board.

Needless to say, I am extremely unhappy right now. He says he will return tomorrow to finish the job, but I am concerned that the water exposure may have damaged my hot tub.

If the hot tub does not power on after the installation is completed, I will be holding him responsible for the damage. A replacement circuit board costs approximately $500, and I would expect that amount to be deducted from the $2,300 installation cost. Leaving an electrical control panel exposed to rain is negligence, especially for a licensed electrician, and I believe he should be accountable for any resulting damage.

u/Dougb756 — 4 days ago
▲ 1 r/turo

Tesla rental issue

I rented a Tesla from ATL Airport last weekend, and ever since the trip ended, I’ve continued receiving notifications through the Tesla app about charging and other vehicle activity. It’s been very annoying.

I’ve contacted the host three separate times asking them to remove the vehicle from my Tesla account, since they are the only one who can do that. I haven’t received any response.

I also contacted Turo customer service, and their only suggestion was to turn off notifications in the app, which doesn’t actually solve the issue. Cause I also own a Tesla and have to keep the app running 24/7 for my vehicle.

At this point, since I haven’t been able to get any help, I’ve resorted to opening the trunk, rolling the windows down, and stopping charging through the app just to get the host’s attention and hopefully get the vehicle removed from my account. This should have been handled as soon as the rental ended.

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u/Dougb756 — 15 days ago

Did the co payment for Tricare visits increase? I used to pay $34 per visit as a retiree, now I am paying $50 per visit. When I asked my Dr was told to contact Tricare West for an explanation.

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u/Dougb756 — 1 month ago

Soon to be

So my wife complained that she was not feeling connected, so I took it upon myself to invite her on my work trip so we could reconnect. The very next week, she suddenly had a work trip of her own and did not offer me the same consideration. When I asked about it, she said she needed time away from the kids and me, and am not seen her or consistent with my affection. What should I do, as every time I bring up an issue she turns it into a me too moment and makes it about her?

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u/Dougb756 — 1 month ago

Having issues cutting around trees and the fence as depicted in pictures. What setting should I change ?

u/Dougb756 — 1 month ago