u/Downtown_Dress_9929

So I am pregnant and feeling very insecure lately. Me and husband have had a time of small misunderstandings, fights given my hormones have been all over the place. He has tried being really supportive and understanding of me and my emotions in this whole journey. Last month, i found myself at a place where i was very insecure of my body, my confidence had taken a hit so it all started reflecting in our relationship.

I thought my husband doesn’t see me the same way as he did before this pregnancy, although he keeps making me feel wanted this whole time but my irrational mind doesn’t let me see it on the daily basis.

So coming to the part of what happened, my husband was sleeping. Him and I are pretty okay with our phones used by one another and we don’t even have passwords on our phones anymore. So while he was sleeping I thought of finding a picture which was in his phone. Ha had bunch of apps open in his phone, one of which was photos. I opened it and i saw it was opened to a picture of me on my baby shower. Then i saw a whole folder of his favorites of me, they were all in the folder where we click heart on the picture and it goes to the favorites folder. The folder was filled with just my pictures, some were new and some were so old from the time we met !! I was so taken aback that maybe he was just trying to find a picture of me or maybe he was just looking at his favorite pictures of me. I felt so loved in that moment. My hormones got the best of me and i couldn’t stop crying.

I silently went to hug him and he just wrapped in his arms in his sleep and started snoring again in a minute. Idk how i got so lucky with this man. I am not the one who can tell my husband how grateful I am for him making me feel so loved, seen and appreciated even when I cant love myself at times ❤️

Edit:

Sorry guys, i didn’t explain my dinner. This is from a restaurant nearby, Grilled Chicken with salad and toppings of your choice. I am on a spicy food kick lately hence all the extra jalapeños. Their chicken is soo good 😍

Also, for people commenting about getting locks on our phones, I am planning to do that now. It makes more sense to have a password incase something happens(as someone suggested, if we incase lose our phones someone could access our financial/pwrsonal information)

Lastly, thank you so much for all the lovely comments ❤️❤️🥹

Edit 2: for the people commenting about me breaking his trust while looking into his phone: As I explained, we are pretty open with our phones. I have netflix and prime in his phone because i am addicted to my phone and had to detox for a while. I downloaded reddit a while ago again too. The picture that I was looking for in his phone was because he has a slightly better camera than my phone’s so we click most of our pictures in his phone.

Sorry guys if you feel that I broke his trust but I did mention to him that i saw he was looking at my baby shower pictures and he got awkward and replied back sarcastically because thats who he is. I didn’t mention me looking at the whole folder because I didn’t want to make him more awkward and I am content in knowing that its his thing and if he wants to he’ll tell me. if that offends some of you, I guess you just have to make peace that not every relationship is the same and I can choose to do things differently. Lots of love 💕