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Congratulating her on getting accepted

Me and my girlfriend, broke up about 1 month ago, we were together for around 3 years, we haven’t talked since, we still love each other and broke up amicably because we both knew it had no future anymore, but I suggested we end it and she said it was time , we said goodbyes and haven’t spoken since

She just got accepted into a highly rated training program, she wanted it for so long, should I congratulate her ?

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u/Dr-Bojack — 23 days ago
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I just feel helpless , and want to talk to her

We broke up amicably 3 weeks ago after almost a 3 year relationship and we were good colleagues before that, we broke up on good terms we both knew there was no future because of our families opposed it a year and half ago, we both been feeling the break up coming so i initiated it and she agreed and said our goodbyes, we haven’t talked since, i still can’t go a day without thinking about her and wanting to talk to her, im going to the gym and got work and board exams coming but i can’t seem to to go an hour without her in my mind , i tried talking to other girls but i easily either get irritated or not interested to continue with the conversation

I just wanna check on her

Will it ever go away?

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u/Dr-Bojack — 1 month ago

Wishing her a happy birthday

Me and my girlfriend, broke up about 10 days ago, we were together for around 3 years, we haven’t talked since, we still love each other and broke up amicably because we both knew it had no future anymore, but I suggested we end it and she said it was time , we said goodbyes and haven’t spoken since

Her birthday is coming up, should I send her a simple happy birthday message?

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u/Dr-Bojack — 1 month ago
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Problem with verifying my account

I had an account before , but this week i set up a new account, and won’t verify my pics for some reason, i tried all of their instructions exactly but it just won’t work, they later kinda of blocked me out of the account i can only access the photo verification, and when i tried setting up a different account with a different number it wouldn’t send me otp codes

I tried to contact them but they only have AI assisted chats

Anyone else had the same issue?

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u/Dr-Bojack — 2 months ago

I [31M] In a stagnant relationship with my [30F] , anyone been in the same situation?

I’m '31M’ I’ve been with this girl ’30F' for about 3 years and I have known her for 5 years I would say she’s the only girl I loved though I been with other girls before, in our country/culture premarital sex and relationships are not acceptable specially sex although it is more and widely accepted among younger generations , after the 1st year we tried to get married but our families couldn’t agree, which made getting married extremely difficult if not impossible we stayed together after that but we saw each other way less and had sex much less than the first year but we stayed together trying to figure it out and if there is anything to make it possible to get married knowing that it was highly unlikely, we both now admit that it is not going to happen, but can’t seem to let go, I can’t lead a sexless life any longer and I can’t break her heart and let her go , any advice how deal with this as i can’t to think clearly or rationally?

TLDR , in a relationship with no future with my girlfriend and it’s affecting both of us

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u/Dr-Bojack — 2 months ago
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Can’t seem to break up

I’m 31m I’ve been with this girl for about 3 years and I have known her for 5 years I would say she’s the only girl I loved though I been with other girls before, in our country/culture premarital sex and relationships are not acceptable specially sex although it is more and widely accepted among younger generations , after the 1st year we tried to get married but our families couldn’t agree, which made getting married extremely difficult if not impossible we stayed together after that but we saw each other way less and had sex much less than the first year but we stayed together trying to figure it out and if there is anything to make it possible to get married knowing that it was highly unlikely, we both now admit that it is not going to happen, but can’t seem to let go, I can’t lead a sexless life any longer and I can’t break her heart and let her go

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u/Dr-Bojack — 2 months ago