Housemate issues 🙄
Me 25f share a house with 25yo man and 70yo f - who has a dog and cat .
I get along with 25m pretty good, he comes from a rough background of trauma and often confides in me about his troubles. Other than him always leaving stuff in the sink and sometimes confiding in me when I can’t emotionally cope (I think he would be better off confiding in a therapist) he is ok. Doesn’t work or drive also doesn’t pay rent or bills on time either and also doesn’t clean but we get along
70yo can be okay at times but thinks she “runs the house and is in charge”
She forgets where her keys/ phone are daily and this past month I’ve had to get 5 new house keys cut for her cause I refuse to lend her mine . When she gets home, I often have to stop what I’m doing to unlock the door to let her in 🙄 Also makes a mess and leaves cups / plates and bowls everywhere even tho she made a sign saying “clean up/ wash up after yourself” and stuff sits in the sink for two days multiple occasions .
Also uses the washing machine all day every day and us two don’t get a chance to use it much .
Leaves laundry all over the place and has a bad temper and will complain about everything .
Also have found brown stuff that looks like shit in the shower drain when I have gone to have a shower after she’s used it .. and found toilet paper and also a sanitary pad on one occasion on the toilet floor . .. Also knocks on my bedroom door at inconvenient times sometimes- of a morning before I have got up and also of an evening when I’ve gone into bed, to ask for help with something.
if I bring up an issue she gets defensive nit picking stuff I do and tries to flip it on me or change subject and get really nasty and argumentative. When I was just trying to have a civil conversation about it