Navigating athletes & Sunday games
This is something that I worry about more and more now that my son is getting older. To summarize, my son loves baseball and seems to be really great at it. He is very passionate about it and wants to play as much as he can. He is only 8 but has goals of making it on a high school team and then playing in college (I know there’s slim chances and every 8 year old says this, but I do at least want him to play in high school if he loves it.)
In our area, high school sports are very competitive and in order to be on a baseball team it’s pretty much expected for you to play club/travel ball. My son wants to do it, especially when he’s a little older, but I have already told him it probably won’t happen because they play on Sundays and honoring the sabbath is really important to us. He is a spiritual giant and wants to keep the Sabbath day Holy as well, but I know that a part of him feels sad that he can‘t play club due to games on Sundays.
Because of this, I’ve been feeling really confused about why God would give his children certain talents if we can’t use them to our fullest extent. I know that by not palying club ball, my son is not going to get nearly as much playing time or experience as those kids will, ultimately putting him behind in something he really loves and seems to be very gifted at. Do I just tell my son that he likely won’t make the HS team later on because he can’t play club? I feel terrible for letting his little dream die, but I also want to teach him that God comes first. But does this mean that no faithful Latter Day Saint can ever play team sports that train or play on Sundays? Does God want us to not pursue those talents because they conflict with the Sabbath day?