u/Dry_Software_5230

(22F) I have scars on my wrist and leg from cutting as a teenager, I stopped for years until June of 2025, that’s the last time I cut. But now I find myself going back to an even older habit, which is picking/biting the skin off my nails/cuticles until they’re gushing blood.

I used to do this as a pre-teen, all of my fingers had wounds. I stopped for a long time but now I’m doing it again instead of cutting. I’ve currently got two fingers wrapped in bandages. I know this is pretty common with people who have anxiety, but is this commonly seen as a form of self harm?

I’d like to stop since wearing bandaids is annoying and the wounds aren’t pleasant to see every day.

Bit of a specific question, but what time are paystubs available to view? I know they’re available on the wednesday before payday, but are they updated in the morning? Or is it later in the day?

I just put some potato skins in the air fryer after my dad went grocery shopping. I made the whole box to share. My dad walks in and I ask him if he wants any, he says “goddammit, you always do this!” and slams the fridge door shut. He asked how much money I made doing Doordash tonight and why didn’t I buy my own food.

He said I always eat everything…. I eat once a day because grocery shopping in our house is not a frequent occurrence. I guess I’ll just not eat???? Am I the monster here?