u/Dry_Tadpole9784

I’m moving into a new apartment on the 1st. The tenants said they have fios and the building is already set up for it. I made a new account (I’m a returning customer but haven’t used fios in 3 years)
And they told me they have to send a tech there to set everything up. The problem is that it’s going to be on the 9th on July and I move in on the 1st. I need wifi to work and waiting 8 days I don’t think will be possible. I told them that there was already fios set up for the building but they said they have to send a tech anyway and it’s backlogged because of the 4th of July so they can’t get anyone sooner. They said if there’s a cancellation they would let me know. If there’s already fios set up and the current tenants use it just fine, why do I need to wait so long for what I assume would just be a router installation? Is there any way to do it myself? Is it necessary to wait that long for someone to come? Also if anyone knows what I should do in the meantime for wifi or some sort of work around I’d love to know! Thanks!

I don’t know if this is the right flair but, I’m in tricky position right now. My lease is ending at the end of the month and my long term boyfriend and I are facing some relationship issues. We’re trying to figure out if we should take a break, split, or stay together. The issue is that if we aren’t together we won’t be getting a place together, and if that’s the case I can’t afford to stay where I am with my income alone, and even with roommates it would be really financially difficult for me. I’m 27 and work as a counselor/teacher at an afterschool program and preschool. My second job is for a broker doing showings after my first one. I work 6 days a week, and even with both my jobs I only average about $2000 a month because there just aren’t enough hours for either. My boss offered to be a guarantor for me and I told her I would let her know if I needed that and thanked her profusely. I was also promoted recently and am finally doing the work I actually enjoy doing (this is the school one) I’m finally using my degree and feel like I’m finally at a good place with what I enjoy doing- even if it pays shit for now. I don’t know if I’ll be able find a place by when I need to move out and if I can’t I’ll probably have to temporarily move back in with my parents who live across the country. I don’t know exactly how leave of absence works but would this be a valid reason if I needed to take a month or so off because I won’t be in the area if I can’t find somewhere to live this month? My boss is pretty lenient with taking time off. My coworkers have taken several weeks off for vacation before. I’m worried that since it’s so sudden they won’t give it to me. I’m pretty new to having a job that isn’t retail or customer service so I don’t really know how these things work. I’ve been at this place for a little over a year. Any advice would be appreciated.

We’ve been in this unit for almost 3 years. My parents are on the lease (my dad is the guarantor) and myself (they would stay with me for a few weeks at a time during the first year so they needed to be on the lease) my boyfriend has been living with me now for about 1.5 years and was added last year as an occupant. We notified the management and landlord that we would be renewing the lease but getting my parents to sign is like herding cats. My dad then decided that he didn’t want to renew and that we should find a different apartment. So I started preparing to find a new place, and then tonight we discussed further and he agreed to renewing instead. I hadn’t mentioned to my landlord that we were not going to renew, so he still thinks we are going to be renewing- which is the plan.

The issue is that since we were going back and forth deciding if we should renew or not, we are now only 3 days away from the renewal offer expiring. I did tell my landlord that we would be signing the renewal in the last week of this month and he said that was okay. We’re planning on everyone signing tomorrow, but my boyfriend said he would like to be on the lease as a tenant rather than an occupant. Does this mean we have to make an entirely new lease? We’ve also been getting many emails from management reminding us to sign the renewal. I’m worried that since we waited so long they will withdraw the offer- even though we technically have 3 days to get it signed and plan on doing it tomorrow. My boyfriend being on the lease isn’t a huge issue- but it is something we all would want. I guess what I’m most anxious about is just the timing. I’m worried for whatever reason the management company and landlord don’t receive the renewal in the next 3 days, they will not let us sign a new lease. I don’t think there will be any issues and we will be able to sign the renewal, but I’m just scared maybe irrationally that they’ll end up revoking it. We pay rent fully on time each month, and the landlord seems like a nice guy. Is it possible to add a new tenant to a renewal offer? Would it have to be just a new lease and not the same renewal? I would email my landlord but it’s late at night and I’m just kind of spiraling thinking that they’ll email me tomorrow being like “we actually are rescinding the renewal offer, you have to leave, bye!” I guess I’m looking for reassurance that we legally have until 4/30/26 (61 days before the lease ends) to sign and complete the renewal agreement without penalty. (If you can’t tell yes I’m a very anxious overthinker lol)

❤️EDIT PLEASE READ BEFORE COMMENTING!!!!❤️

I think I phrased the dates wrong but I was really upset and not thinking clearly or proofreading

My appointment with my psych was on April 9th-

I was due for a refill and told my dr that the IR was not lasting as long as it did before. He put me on 10 mg IR and 20 mg XR but it was a 14 DAY SUPPLY meaning I needed a follow up visit to see if the XR IR combo was working and it was :

- he sent the prescription to the pharmacy, I picked it up on the 10th of this month.

-I had a follow up visit on the 23rd of this month, everything was good to go, and he sent the script to the pharmacy (both IR and XR 28 day supply)

-I was able to pick up the XR on the 24th (14 days after, because it was a 14 day supply) I couldn’t pick up the IR and they wouldn’t tell me a reason, I literally had to catch a train out of town for a couple days so I couldn’t chat about why I couldn’t get it cause at least I had the XR.

-I emailed my DR right after and he said I should definitely be able to pick up my prescription and he wasn’t sure why I couldn’t and that he would contact the pharmacy

-I tried to pick up the IR from the pharmacy today (April 27th) after work, this is when I was given the paper and shamed

So I had a 14 day supply which I got on the 10th and should have been able to pick up my meds again for the full 28 day supply on the 24th.

⭐️TO SUMMARIZE⭐️

TIMELINE :

•Picked up my 14 day supply on APRIL 10th

•Got new prescription on APRIL 23rd for 28 day supply

•Picked up XR on APRIL 24th (14 days after initial prescription)

•can’t pick up IR even though I should have been able to on APRIL 24th

DATES ARE:

⭐️APRIL 10th - 14 day supply

⭐️APRIL 24th- 14 days later

⭐️APRIL 27th - can’t pick up IR and it’s been longer than 14 days and it’s not a stock issue

I’ve been on stimulant meds for about 7 months and have gone to the same pharmacy and had the same doctor the whole time. 2 weeks ago I was put on XR in addition to IR. My dr prescribed 2 weeks worth of meds and I filled them. I had a meeting with him earlier this week and he prescribed me a full months supply.

I went to pick them up on Friday and they said they won’t fill them till the 4th of May. (Script was for April 23rd 2 week supply) Weird. Never had any issues with this pharmacy before besides being out of stock sometimes. They are in stock though. I had to go out of town for a couple days and emailed my dr that they wouldn’t fill it. Then after work today I go to the pharmacy and see if it’s there. It’s not. The pharmacist (old polish guy) has a piece of paper with some information highlighted, it’s basically showing the type of med, date filled, etc. on the side is written “21 days” “may 4 2026” and some other scribbles.

He then starts getting agitated with me when I say “um okay my doctor said it was for April 23rd and it’s 2 weeks” he then implies I’m doing something wrong and then said “I don’t want to go to jail, I don’t like being in handcuffs” in a serious but jokey manner. Also this isn’t privately- there’s a few other customers waiting right behind me. At this point I’m just genuinely confused as to what’s happening. He tells me he doesn’t care what my dr says, it’s his business, has to follow protocol, etc etc.

At this point I’m unsure what to do and feel like I’m going to cry and am just still very confused. I don’t know where 21 days came from. It was for 14 days. I’m kind of just speechless and say “uh okay I’ll just show this paper to my doctor I guess?” He mumbles something else and i feel myself just autopilot and don’t really process anything he says after that. His tone was agitated and he made me feel like a criminal or that I was doing something wrong.

I email my doctor and I tell him they won’t fill the prescription until the 4th which is fine, but I’m concerned that by that time they will be out of stock. I just feel like I was berated and treated like a child who did something bad. When I was simply asking why I wasn’t able to refill it today and that my doctor said I was able to.

It’s a small polish pharmacy in my neighborhood and they’re usually really nice. I don’t know if I did something wrong or what. I’m still processing and just really confused. I hate being misunderstood and feeling like I’m in the wrong for simply trying to understand. I hate that now when I go back they’ll probably see me as some sort of drug seeker or an issue or something. I want to switch pharmacies after this interaction but I’m worried that I won’t find one with my meds in stock most of the time.

I hate that this is now consuming my thoughts and ruining the rest of my day because I feel like I’m a scolded child or a bad dog who’s being put in a crate for something out of my control/something I’m not doing. Sigh. Probably going to be ruminating on this for a few hours at least.