Should I get into a fwb with a 'straight' friend?

We're 20 rn I'm bi and out to close ppl and she - despite me hinting to her that she may not be straight - prefers to believe she's straight. We've had some moments of sexual tension I noticed but I've never ever crushed on her. In fact, I broke off our friendship for an year in the past cus frankly she's not a good friend, or has the emotional capacity to be, and even now I tend to avoid her.

She has a bf rn, but last night she was sexting with a girl she met on hinge, and told me and one thing led to another and we sort of said that we'd experiment around. I bought a new vibrator that she wanted to test/use (not hygienic, ik) and I just don't know. Last year she asked to kiss me too and I refused.

We'd that intense codependent homoerotic friendship at 15-16, and we know e/o's secrets and are really comfortable. We then went to different colleges, and she's kinda fucking up her life, wasting (parents') money on alcohol, parties, cheating on her bfs (exes too) while my life is more authentically happy from within. Like I'm building real relationships with ppl in my life and more focused on my career. Like her lifestyle seems fun but she's alwayss venting and complaining abt smth or the other ykwim? And isn't there for me as much. I don't like her company much now but still sometimes I fantasize about her while touching myself.

Also I've never even kissed anyone before or been in a relationship, I just wanna explore have fun see things etc, so idk is this advisable?

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u/Due-Breadfruit3657 — 10 days ago

I wanna create an SIH team

Please be willing to put in efforts and do the work.

Someone who knows how to build prototype, has problem solving, critical thinking skills.

Someone who can brainstorm and think without AI pleasee. We're gonna code and build prototype using ai mostly, but you gotta think and answer on your own.

Willingness to do research etc etc yk the drill. I wanted to network more and collaborate with ppl outside my own class hence I'm here. I've built projects on AI ML, websites, app before. I will learn whatever i don't yet know along the way and that's a quality I want in my teammates as well.

2nd years and above. Please dm with your branch and skillsets.

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u/Due-Breadfruit3657 — 2 months ago

My period was 4/5 days late (0 chances of being pregnant)

+ It's very light. There's no liquid or normal clot. It's just dry mass of blood when I wipe, which is very unusual as my period is typically heavy.

I switched to period cup in my last 2 cycle and it's been working great, and I've a pleasure toy but idk if that's what affecting anything? Anyone got any wisdom to share?

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u/Due-Breadfruit3657 — 2 months ago

Do y'all also have a straight friend group and queer friend group??

Just saw a tweet mentioning nick nelson's two friend grp and made me realise I also have that!! Wanted to know if other bi folks also have this? lmao

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u/Due-Breadfruit3657 — 2 months ago

What happened to back exams of 1st year???

3rd sem is about to start is there any info to clear back on 1st sem??

The mail they sent earlier by 16th july - subject wasn't showing up on the portal and was 2025 - 26 batch referring to 2029 grads? The students emailing about subject not showing up on the portal - there was no solution provided by staff??? What's happening?

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u/Due-Breadfruit3657 — 3 months ago

Leetcode - I derive the logic myself most of the times but the syntax of code is where I'm lacking. Help!

I understand the problem, i derive the logic and solution, test the boundary cases, different cases etc all of it in most ques and it's going good even. Ik what function to use but i don't know how to code it. like I'd know I need to read the two strings and then compare each value and use if/else syntax wtv it is, (basic example) but I get stumped when it's time to actually write the whole code in cpp myself. I've been using ai for the code after explaining my whole logic, but I don't wanna do that. How to practice this better?

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u/Due-Breadfruit3657 — 4 months ago
▲ 126 r/kdramas

A common recurring theme I notice

Maybe it's "too woke" (it's not) but always when the male lead is rich/powerful, there is a scene like the following in multiplee kdramas-

There is a rich mean woman bullying the FL, the FL is either helpless or fighting back and then the ML comes and puts the mean woman in her place.

My royal nemesis.

Idk bro, it's always the men teaching lessons to mean women (even if she's a successful rich older more experienced woman) and the kdramas reinforcing the 'a woman's worst enemy is another woman'. It irks me that they portray women characters like these - who need to be taught a lesson by a man. And even usually, the FL only has one close female friend and the other female chars are villainous in some way or the other.

Edit - The male villain exists yes. But the power dynamic is what I'm talking about. He's only being humiliated by other men (ML). I don't recall drama where the male villain is being put into place by the FL. Whereas the female villain is always a subordinate to ML somehow (and FL too).

TLDR: The female antagonist always is a subordinate to the male lead, but even the male antagonist has more power than the female lead.

Another point - The fights between male villain and male lead is usually portrayed as powerful strategic diplomatic legal company ceos lawsuit that would collapse korea's economy - all serious matters. Whereas womens' fights are just squabbles and dumb little materialistic things.

u/Due-Breadfruit3657 — 4 months ago