u/Due-Vermicelli-2883

Hi guysss I really want to get into glamour magic properly 😭
I’m really like having a routines (audhd) , so I don’t really want a massive list of random spells and correspondences where I have to figure out what to pick from.

I already have a pretty established beauty/self-care routine with skincare, body care, makeup, hair, sometimes gua sha, Pilates, subliminals etc. but i want to incorporate spirituality or astrology into things I’m already doing.
I basically want to take what I’m already doing and add a proper glamour magic element to it. im aware of the concept and that it won’t literally change my physical features I’m more interested in looking/feeling more beautiful, magnetic, feminine, confident, sensual, put-together etc.I also eventually want to get into glamour around things like opportunities, money and being more noticeable/attractive in general.

I’ve seen people mention things like putting sigils in makeup, charging perfume, mirror work, glamour oils, using certain colours/jewellery, affirmations, candles etc., but there are SO many different approaches that I don’t know what’s actually useful for me long-term.
So I want to know what other people’s glamour magic routine look like?
Like what do you do daily/weekly, what have you stuck with, and what genuinely made a difference for you?
And if you were starting again, what would you say are the few things worth building into a routine first?
I’d love to hear what you guys actually do, rather than just a list of glamour spells because I’m trying to build something I’ll realistically stick to 😭

Hi I just wanted to cross check on the layered spells for my avoidant partner as he often pulls away when things get real and I want to avoid that happening again. And I don't want any comments saying "if you have to do this is he really" for you? Find it very Dismissive lol and it doesn't actually help. I just got from one person but looking at different creators it's all very different/ people say to do more than five spells will back fire and a lot of people say to a road opener first which kind of stresses me out because I don't know which right way to do it and of course it is individual, situations may differ & I quite like the way I've layered my spells but I want to be able to do it right. I also try to use planetary days of the week because I enjoy astrology. I don't know if that means anything.
I have Monday for a emotional heart healing spell for/ on him
Saturday self reflection
Wednesday communication spell
Friday sweetening spell
Idk a reconciliation spell ? This wasn't part of my plan but I'd hope for all of these spells to draw back to me (or would that just have to be added to my intention? )so I think it would make sense to do that afterwards or before the sweetening spell. I've also gotten to do glamour magic on myself but would that mess up the spell necessarily like I've heard that spell needs time in between to work that's why I've just relied on the planetary days because it kinda helps each spell but a glamour would be a spell on me so would it matter when I do that spell specifically or do I have to add that to the plan I think it's a very separate belt cause it's not on him is for me I don't know

I enjoy doing rituals based on moon and astrological transits at time like the full moon etc now that there’s this barbault basket on the Sunday I want to ensure I’m stepping into this transition blissfully but idk what to do lol. Pls help.

I’ve been meaning to do this for awhile now like I’ve seen people say that every time when someone tries to give you evil eye, you can get money or something bad what happened to them? I don’t really care too much about that. I would like to know all the possibilities I could try practising this because I feel like I’ve kind of gone through this journey spiritual journey and witchcraft on a bit on a whim as I go and as I feel like it but I know I am lacking a little bit of education but I just don’t know where to find it sometimes and who to trust not to be too sceptical, but that’s why I want to try and practice protection more lol. I’ve heard a vampirism but I also don’t know how that would work. I don’t know have too many equipments at home. I have a few coloured candles and a few herbs. Some help could be nice thanks!🙂

m a beginner so im not sure what would need to go into this my witchy friend tends to do protection spells before doing the main one would I have to do that too. This spell I’m meaning to do is directed at a romantic interest of ours so I decided to do this on a mercurial day on a Venusian time I don’t have much ingredients other than a few crystals incense and some candles but I don’t mind looking for others needed except witchy shops are closed now 😭. Also my friend I’m doing with it is abroad so we’d have to call eachother but she does not have her own ingredients and she’s on her period I only have like 45 minutes within this hour so idk how to go about it.

Im a beginner so im not sure what would need to go into this my witchy friend tends to do protection spells before doing the main one would I have to do that too. This spell I’m meaning to do is directed at a romantic interest of ours so I decided to do this on a mercurial day on a Venusian time I don’t have much ingredients other than a few crystals incense and some candles but I don’t mind looking for others needed except witchy shops are closed now 😭. Also my friend I’m doing with it is abroad so we’d have to call eachother but she does not have her own ingredients and she’s on her period I only have like 45 minutes within this hour so idk how to go about it.

I’ve been trying to persist in this for a while. We had a good connection but he had weird patterns I was trying to remove. I called today and he confesses to me he was seeing someone else seriously and I don’t know what to do or how to feel. I genuinely feel like this is end game and I was excited but now I just feel a bit disdain yes upset but also idk how to keep persisting or feeling good about saturation anymore.

I’ve been trying to persist in this for a while. We had a good connection but he had weird patterns I was trying to remove. I called today and he confesses to me he was seeing someone else seriously and I don’t know what to do or how to feel. I genuinely feel like this is end game and I was excited but now I just feel a bit disdain yes upset but also idk how to keep persisting or feeling good about saturation anymore.

I’ve been trying to persist in this for a while. We had a good connection but he had weird patterns I was trying to remove. I called today and he confesses to me he was seeing someone else seriously and I don’t know what to do or how to feel. I genuinely feel like this is end game and I was excited but now I just feel a bit disdain yes upset but also idk how to keep persisting or feeling good about saturation anymore.

I’ve been manifesting an SP for quite a while, although not obsessively. I’ve also been focusing on other areas of my life and generally trying to become a more secure, aligned version of myself.

Our history has involved a lot of miscommunication and push-pull dynamics. Despite that, I’ve persisted in the belief that we’ll eventually have a healthy, harmonious relationship. I don’t know when, but I genuinely believe it.

Recently, we finally set up a date. This felt significant because in the past I had a lot of anxious attachment tendencies, and this time I consciously tried to show up differently. I wanted to be more open, communicative, and emotionally safe instead of repeating old patterns.

Everything seemed fine leading up to the date. He was responding, I confirmed plans, and there weren’t really any signs that he was going to disappear. But on the actual day, I didn’t hear from him at all. Eventually I sent a message saying we’d have to reschedule because I couldn’t keep waiting around all day. He hasn’t seen or replied to that message.

I was really disappointed, partly because I’d built the date up in my head. I was arranging work, thinking about logistics, planning my outfit and hair, and I put a lot of emotional weight on it. I was also on my period, so I’m not sure whether that amplified my emotions.

What confuses me is that although I felt upset, I never fully lost the belief that things will work out. I’ve noticed growth in myself because my first thought wasn’t “he doesn’t like me” anymore. My first thought was actually “maybe he’s busy” or “something happened.”

A few days later I suggested another date idea (going to see a new horror movie), and he still hasn’t responded. Since then I’ve taken a break from actively manifesting and have been focusing on grounding myself again.

My question is: from a manifesting perspective, what do you think I’m missing here? Is this just a bridge of incidents unfolding, or is there something in my mindset that still needs work? I still believe we’ll be together eventually, but I’m getting tired of situations that feel like they’re almost happening and then don’t fully materialize. How many more times is the universe going to trick me?

I’ve been manifesting an SP for quite a while, although not obsessively. I’ve also been focusing on other areas of my life and generally trying to become a more secure, aligned version of myself.

Our history has involved a lot of miscommunication and push-pull dynamics. Despite that, I’ve persisted in the belief that we’ll eventually have a healthy, harmonious relationship. I don’t know when, but I genuinely believe it.

Recently, we finally set up a date. This felt significant because in the past I had a lot of anxious attachment tendencies, and this time I consciously tried to show up differently. I wanted to be more open, communicative, and emotionally safe instead of repeating old patterns.

Everything seemed fine leading up to the date. He was responding, I confirmed plans, and there weren’t really any signs that he was going to disappear. But on the actual day, I didn’t hear from him at all. Eventually I sent a message saying we’d have to reschedule because I couldn’t keep waiting around all day. He hasn’t seen or replied to that message.

I was really disappointed, partly because I’d built the date up in my head. I was arranging work, thinking about logistics, planning my outfit and hair, and I put a lot of emotional weight on it. I was also on my period, so I’m not sure whether that amplified my emotions.

What confuses me is that although I felt upset, I never fully lost the belief that things will work out. I’ve noticed growth in myself because my first thought wasn’t “he doesn’t like me” anymore. My first thought was actually “maybe he’s busy” or “something happened.”

A few days later I suggested another date idea (going to see a new horror movie), and he still hasn’t responded. Since then I’ve taken a break from actively manifesting and have been focusing on grounding myself again.

My question is: from a manifesting perspective, what do you think I’m missing here? Is this just a bridge of incidents unfolding, or is there something in my mindset that still needs work? I still believe we’ll be together eventually, but I’m getting tired of situations that feel like they’re almost happening and then don’t fully materialize. How many more times is the universe going to trick me?

I’ve been manifesting an SP for quite a while, although not obsessively. I’ve also been focusing on other areas of my life and generally trying to become a more secure, aligned version of myself.

Our history has involved a lot of miscommunication and push-pull dynamics. Despite that, I’ve persisted in the belief that we’ll eventually have a healthy, harmonious relationship. I don’t know when, but I genuinely believe it.

Recently, we finally set up a date. This felt significant because in the past I had a lot of anxious attachment tendencies, and this time I consciously tried to show up differently. I wanted to be more open, communicative, and emotionally safe instead of repeating old patterns.

Everything seemed fine leading up to the date. He was responding, I confirmed plans, and there weren’t really any signs that he was going to disappear. But on the actual day, I didn’t hear from him at all. Eventually I sent a message saying we’d have to reschedule because I couldn’t keep waiting around all day. He hasn’t seen or replied to that message.

I was really disappointed, partly because I’d built the date up in my head. I was arranging work, thinking about logistics, planning my outfit and hair, and I put a lot of emotional weight on it. I was also on my period, so I’m not sure whether that amplified my emotions.

What confuses me is that although I felt upset, I never fully lost the belief that things will work out. I’ve noticed growth in myself because my first thought wasn’t “he doesn’t like me” anymore. My first thought was actually “maybe he’s busy” or “something happened.”

A few days later I suggested another date idea (going to see a new horror movie), and he still hasn’t responded. Since then I’ve taken a break from actively manifesting and have been focusing on grounding myself again.

My question is: from a manifesting perspective, what do you think I’m missing here? Is this just a bridge of incidents unfolding, or is there something in my mindset that still needs work? I still believe we’ll be together eventually, but I’m getting tired of situations that feel like they’re almost happening and then don’t fully materialize. How many more times is the universe going to trick me?

I would like some advice regarding my SP lately with my manifestation has been going really good and really well. I’m now in a place that I just feel so aligned so then he did come back again at some point and we’ve been consistent. We did say that we would meet up today but he didn’t follow through of that and I thought this time was gonna be different because he was engaging a bit more than he would’ve the last few times but we didn’t meet up today. I would see it like a lot of signs like 111222 and 777 but I don’t understand why this statement manifestation didn’t go through I was I feel so great and I still continued to feel great and I still don’t believe he’s ghosting me. Is this like a chick from the 3-D? Granted I have the last two days I have checked and waved by also just felt like that didn’t mean anything out of my mind was just going all sorts because I was very busy but I didn’t really doubt. I don’t know even right now. I didn’t doubt it’s just like why didn’t it happen now? I also did check tarot cards is it because I was checking but despite the checking I did have believe it was also checking cause I was excited and I really wanted to see what was happening and I was Bored. I don’t know. I would like advice please.

I wonder if this is part of the process? Because I’ve distanced myself for a long time and saturated and affirmed to where I kind of realised and I don’t really care too much.I’ve been focusing a lot more on myself lately, mindfulness, staying present, grounding, redirecting my energy, and not obsessively checking the 3D. I still do affirmations/saturation, but I’m trying to make it feel more like part of life rather than my whole life.

What’s confusing me is my feelings towards my SP have shifted and idk. I still want him, but I feel weirdly… calm? Sometimes avoidant? Sometimes like I’m weirdly “over it” but not actually over it? when I visualise us, sometimes it feels almost like a memory or an after the fact feeling, rather than longing.
Also, I’m noticing I’m less emotionally obsessed. I still think about him because obviously I like him, but I’m enjoying my own life way more, and just feeling more peaceful in general. I feel like the reason why I haven’t seen in my 3d is that I do struggle with them SP and stuff. I still have those limited beliefs tight tied towards him so despite them knowing it’s just kind of like I’m still thinking like okay how is it gonna come and not obsessively but here and there. L I promise I’m actively rejecting all of that and it’s become easier now.its just that im focusing on other manifestations I haven’t really had a chance to saturate on my SP properly (now that I’ve got the hang of things) but im also feeling avoidant in doing so I don’t know it’s a weird feeling. Although it’s not something I’m dwelling but I’ve noticed and I’m curious. I swear i hate being aware of my like ascension bc it feels like watching paint dry😭😭.

I’d like some advise on this. Im not new to manifesting or loa but I was never consistent until this year. The previous year was extremely difficult and that taught me to always stay on top of things and have my guard up which makes it really difficult when manifesting I feel like I need to control the 3d to feel safe. Ik it does work all like no longer being in debt and being rewarded 6k passing my theory test etc. these are all things i forgotten about until it happened . That’s the thing it’s easy to let go when it’s forgotten. Currently I’m trying to work on my self concept, a trip to France (which I need permission to go TODAY), exams and an sp (which I’ve avoided persisting in lately). It’s hard not to think with adhd and a lot of free time. I feel like I must stay in alignment at all times but I slip into doubt. Im having a hard time navigating my journey, for now I stick to burning incense, meditating listening to subliminals and having inner conversations it helps but I feel like I’m doing too much. I need help guyis.😭