i have some interviews tomorrow for a retirement actuarial internship and i would love some information about what a retirement actuary actually DOES.
like what is special about retirement and what little parts of the job are different
thank you!
the only position i can finish in without any external stimulation is cowgirl where hes also sitting up but he gets consistently pricked by my iud strings when we do so.
he has to be all the way inside me for it to work so we can’t just go less deep and i’ve had the iud for a long time so the strings aren’t gonna soften up any more
i don’t want to sacrifice the position/i want to do it more often bc it’s the only way for me to get off from piv alone but obviously i don’t want to do it if it’s hurting him…any suggestions?
is this a situation where i should avoid even the 20 minute walk to work/10 minute walk to my house from where i woke up? i don’t have any masks and getting them would also be a 10 minute walk.
edit: up to 367 and increasing
my boyfriend doesn’t understand that the thought spirals i get into aren’t just me being dramatic and exhausting and overthinking. i can’t help it and i try so hard but it feels like he thinks im just crazy.
i don’t know how to explain that me being paranoid and crying because he’s acting a little off isn’t a judgement on him but just my brain going a little insane and that i need reassurance (not reassurance seeking dw) and a safe space not to be met with annoyance and minimizing.
my retroactive jealousy is because i just constantly get debilitating crushing sickening intrusive thoughts of every girl he’s talked to and every thought i convince myself he has/had. like i know it’s silly but also it’s a genuine mental illness and i do my best but i can only change so much.
he gets frustrated when i ask him if anything is wrong when it isn’t and that just stresses me out more but he also gets frustrated when i say that i can just stop asking/telling him im stressed etc.
KEY PART: how can i communicate to him that this is a mental illness not just me being over dramatic and annoying without coming off as preachy and annoying? and how can i split the difference of communicating my feelings and stresses to him without putting too much on him and stressing him out?
i’m thinking of a character from either a movie or tv show. i don’t remember if it’s animated or cgi. it’s kind of shaped like a meatloaf but it’s a furry thing and it has no head but butts with tails on both ends. it’s like mirrored in the middle. it frolicked around happily. what is it please help!!!
F20 looking for gifts for my boyfriend M20 for our anniversary. money is not an object, he deserves any amount i could spend on him.
the thing is he’s not very forthcoming with gift ideas. things that i thought of that are a no: shoes, headphones of any kind, probably gaming consoles. games could work, or other gaming equipment but i can’t think of any. probably not concert tix or anything like that he’s not big into that and other experiences he would absolutely insist upon paying for so none of those are options either.
please give me ideas 🙏
edit: already making him a scrapbook of our year together + a silly charm bracelet with charms representative of our time together
i want to do one of those sitting on a canvas paintings for my bf (silly ik). what’s the best paint to use for that so that it doesn’t hurt me but also lasts?
i just reread marella’s pov chapter at the end of stellarlune and it totally seems like shannon is soft launching her having a thing for linh. i always thought it was futile to have a queer ship bc there’s no even irrelevant gay characters but then after gayness was brought up in unraveled i think it’s more of a possibility. and marella calling linh pretty and perfect and incredibly powerful does seem like maybe…