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Giving Space is Lazy
▲ 6 r/gurgaon+1 crossposts

Giving Space is Lazy

I am using myself as a reference here. Personally, whenever I go through something and my friends “give me space,” it feels like a lazy way of saying, “Not my problem, deal with it yourself.” In my mind, real friendship is about showing up no matter what even if I say I want space. Just being there matters.
Nowadays, I don’t think friendships are like that anymore. When my friends or family go through something, I’ll drop everything, rush to them, make sure they’re okay, and then give them space while still checking in on them. But I feel like people are different now more selfish, honestly. Their version of “giving space” is completely disappearing until I’m the one who reaches out first.

u/DumbFuckingFuck — 19 days ago
▲ 2 r/ThirtiesIndia

How to fix myself or is this it???

I’m 34, and from the outside, I have everything at least according to other people. I make decent money. My job is good, low-stress, and honestly pretty chill. I get to meet people from every walk of life. I have a good sex life. I have good friends few, but real ones.
But I still feel stuck.
There’s this constant lump in my throat. I don’t know how to grieve. I want to cry, but I don’t even know why I can’t. It feels like I’m trapped in a loop that never ends, and lately I’ve started feeling like this is all there is.
Recently, my brain has been romanticizing the idea of death a lot.

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u/DumbFuckingFuck — 20 days ago
▲ 11 r/AskFitnessIndia

Some people calling my legs ugly or some saying I take 💉

Idk I always had big legs. You can say whatever but I have been working out for almost 14 years for a mid ass physique compared to what people post online. Plus I am 5’9. Also I had been a fat kid all my life.

u/DumbFuckingFuck — 28 days ago