u/EXQUIRESS

Hi reader!

I'm 20 years old and I live in the Philippines. I'm looking for someone who I can smother my love with for the rest of his life <3 Long distance is no problem at all.

I usually stay at home. I love games (mostly on mobile or switch, I love watching gameplay more). I'm into anime, reading, cooking/baking, and doomscrolling lol.

I mostly go out with my family and friends. Walking around malls, going to the beach or resorts, or simply eating out.

I don't smoke at all, and I only drink more or less 7 times a year :) I would not like you to smoke cigarettes, vaping or weed is fine as long as it isn't an addiction. But it’s a plus if you don't.

I want you to be someone who isn't afraid of showing affection, so avoidants please don't interact. I want you to be obsessed with me as I am with you. I'm quite clingy, needy, and anxious so I need someone who can be patient and caring.

For quality time, playing games together, calling, sharing each other's brainrot or simply chatting is more than enough for me. I hope we can lean on each other if we need to, and that you communicate instead of hiding it.

As for what I do, I currently stay at home taking care of my siblings as my parents leave a lot for work. I'm waiting for my school to start this year, and hopefully next year I'll finally be employed lol. I've been told to focus on my studies and not think about work until I finish, might be an Asian thing to be honest hehe.

I don't really care if you're working or just studying like me, as long as you're not someone who has no plans for the future and have given up.

For looks, I'm plus-size and pretty asian looking. Small eyes and all that. I'm pale with bangs and long black hair. I don't have any tattoos. I do have a life-long skin condition called Psoriasis that flares up every now and then. It's barely visible now, but it does get worse at times, in case that is a problem for you. I will of course send a pic to see if I'm your type.

I think having physical attraction for your partner is important, but of course personality remains on top. For height I would prefer 5'5 and up. For weight I don't really care much. But I do lean to someone who looks like they can handle me, if you know what I mean :) But it isn't a requirement.

For future plans, I would like to be a housewife, if my partner is fine with it of course. I find myself more into taking care of everyone at home and just doing the "boring" stuff people don't want to do. I loveee cooking, and will study it once school starts. I would want to have kids, but of course it will depend on the future, and if the world is still fine to live in.

To be honest I'm quite into politics and I am looking for someone who quite enjoys talking about it too. I think it is important as you can see the other person's values. If you don't care about it at all, it is a dealbreaker. But if you are willing to learn or listen it's totally fine. Just letting people know since this might be a dealbreaker for some as well.

Please DM me if you're interested! Don't be dry in your introduction and bonus points if you send a photo :)) Talk to you soon <3

Hi reader!

I'm 20 years old and I live in the Philippines. I'm looking for someone who I can smother my love with for the rest of his life <3 Long distance is no problem at all.

I usually stay at home. I love games (mostly on mobile or switch, I love watching gameplay more). I'm into anime, reading, cooking/baking, and doomscrolling lol.

I mostly go out with my family and friends. Walking around malls, going to the beach or resorts, or simply eating out.

I don't smoke at all, and I only drink more or less 7 times a year :) I would not like you to smoke cigarettes, vaping or weed is fine as long as it isn't an addiction. But it’s a plus if you don't.

I want you to be someone who isn't afraid of showing affection, so avoidants please don't interact. I want you to be obsessed with me as I am with you. I'm quite clingy, needy, and anxious so I need someone who can be patient and caring.

For quality time, playing games together, calling, sharing each other's brainrot or simply chatting is more than enough for me. I hope we can lean on each other if we need to, and that you communicate instead of hiding it.

As for what I do, I currently stay at home taking care of my siblings as my parents leave a lot for work. I'm waiting for my school to start this year, and hopefully next year I'll finally be employed lol. I've been told to focus on my studies and not think about work until I finish, might be an Asian thing to be honest hehe.

I don't really care if you're working or just studying like me, as long as you're not someone who has no plans for the future and have given up.

For looks, I'm plus-size and pretty asian looking. Small eyes and all that. I'm pale with bangs and long black hair. I don't have any tattoos. I do have a life-long skin condition called Psoriasis that flares up every now and then. It's barely visible now, but it does get worse at times, in case that is a problem for you. I will of course send a pic to see if I'm your type.

I think having physical attraction for your partner is important, but of course personality remains on top. For height I would prefer 5'5 and up. For weight I don't really care much. But I do lean to someone who looks like they can handle me, if you know what I mean :) But it isn't a requirement.

For future plans, I would like to be a housewife, if my partner is fine with it of course. I find myself more into taking care of everyone at home and just doing the "boring" stuff people don't want to do. I loveee cooking, and will study it once school starts. I would want to have kids, but of course it will depend on the future, and if the world is still fine to live in.

To be honest I'm quite into politics and I am looking for someone who quite enjoys talking about it too. I think it is important as you can see the other person's values. If you don't care about it at all, it is a dealbreaker. But if you are willing to learn or listen it's totally fine. Just letting people know since this might be a dealbreaker for some as well.

Please DM me if you're interested! Don't be dry in your introduction and bonus points if you send a photo :)) Talk to you soon <3

Today is the 2nd day my bf asked for space. I know it sounds ridiculous that I'm already going crazy for a mere 2 days of no contact, but I've had past experiences in where going no contact means the relationship will come to end.

My first relationship would suddenly ghost me for 3-4 days at a time, and would come back and say that his mental was rock bottom, and then it would repeat 4 more times in a our relationship of 3 months. He broke up with me saying that he was suprised that I wouldn't break up with him, and that he didn't see the relationship going anywhere, and saying that maybe he was with me because of a fetish.

Second relationship was great at the start. He had a stable job, great family, and was always communicating, would also share and update me all the time. But then in the end of the 2nd week, suddenly ghosted me again for a week, made this story up of his crazy ex seeing our texts, him trash talking his boss, saying that she'll blackmail him with that if he continued talking with me. I (stupidly) believed him, and we got back together. Not until he ghosted me again and blocked me on the 3rd day of silence. We lasted a month, or less if you count the days he was gone.

Now my present relationship. He is the man that I prayed for. We met on reddit ( I was one who reached out) and I was more secured because it wasn't on dating apps like the past two. We didn't miss a single day talking, I felt like I found my match. He was clingy and needy like me, super consistent and actually made me feel like he cares about the random things I talk about. He would always send me pictures of him at work and at random times, our location are shared, we follow each other on 6 different platforms, and he actually makes me communicate, instead of letting me overthink. Even talked to my friends! Which really suprised me, like introducing himself to them.

Until I notice his energy shift Wednesday night. He was a bit drier, but every now and he would be back with his old self, and then back to being dry. It wasn't until Friday where he completely pulled back his energy. He would respond with dry 1 word replies, replies super duper late than usual, but I could tell that he would still give effort whenever I asked instead of dismissing them.

He got home from his job, and I was getting super agitated because I felt like I was forcing him to talk to me, so I just reacted to his message instead of sending a text. After 2 hours, he followed up, asking me "What's wrong?" I said, i just noticed that he was being distant. He asked me "Why?" I said just by the tone of his text. He simply replied, "sorry". I said, there was no need to be sorry, and I was just blinsided by him being super dry, and then I asked him if he was okay. He said "No." So I asked him what happened. He said "Doesn't matter, I just need some space." I was taken aback but I said that it was okay, that I loved him, and that I was always here for him. I also told him that he doesn't need to reply to that, and that was the end of the convo.

For added context:

- He told me before that when he's feeling sad, he just listened to music. I told him that I was here if ever, and he replied to that saying, he didn't want me to be sad with him, so he's just gonna listen to songs.

- He hasn't blocked me on anything. When I was overthinking earlier in the relationship, he reassured me that he would never block me out of nowhere if ever we got out of touch.

- First day we started talking, we found out that being clingy and having an anxious was no problem for us, as we had the same personalities. I thought he was just saying that, but he was super consistent before anything happened.

-Our relationship so far is a month and 1 week. I know people are gonna say it's too early and he's dropping his act, but I really feel like he had a problem and that was eating him up.

I'm pretty sure he wasn't gonna ask for space and was trying to appear ok, I think he dropped his act when I confronted him directly. I just wished I asked what space meant for him, if it means a break in our relationship, or just simply no talking. I should've also asked how much time he'll need. Because I don't know if I can handle a week or two of not talking. I don't even know if he'll come back, or what if he does and he realized that I'm not worth the distance and break up? I just feel so lost without him. The sudden stop of us talking is making me think all sorts of thoughts.

I felt so guilty that I made him feel sorry, and that I didn't ask if he was okay the day that I noticed. I shouldn't have been petty and instead tried to understand why he was being that way. I hope he comes back, I don't want us to end like this. I miss him so much, but maybe I was being too much.

I thought the post I saw about guys distancing themselves from their partner when they have a problem was BS, but now it happened to me. I feel so helpless, I just wished I was closer.

He's pretty direct, so I hope he asked for space that means he simply needed space. Not a way for him to say that he wants to break up.

What are your experiences or advice in this situation? Like the one asking for space or the someone who also experienced this. Thank you.