u/Early_Plantain8801

It's been 8 months in relationship. Some new guy joined her team last month. She keeps mentioning him a lot. Initially it used to be a lot. Then it reduced for a bit and it started again now. I ask her about her day and it's mostly about "he" said/did this and that. They started following each other everywhere and they share snaps and reels sometimes. Msgs are mostly work related. But yeah, she mentions him a lot.

She isn't cheating though. But this whole mentioning doesn't make me feel well either. Like, how can you keep bringing another guy into our conversations all the time? I kinda indirectly asked, and she was like that's just normal office convos and fun.

And yesterday it happened again when we met. I cooked food. Got flowers, dessert and I wanted to know how her day went. Just a minute into our conversations he pops up again and she is explaining about his future aspirations. I immediately said that I want to know about her and not the other guy. She just said 'oh my bad'. I don't know if I am being too insecure or this needs to be addressed.

Her affection did reduce a bit. But ain't too much. She still talks about our future, how much she cares etc. but things don't feel right!!

Earlier in the relationship we had a small argument and then she said that I kinda get offended easily. So if I bring this up again, I would just get the insecure label. How do I talk about this. Or should I just ignore?

We are celebrating our 8 months this weekend. Should I bring this up today itself or should I talk about it later? It's been more than a month now

It's been 8 months in relationship. Some new guy joined her team last month. She keeps mentioning him a lot. Initially it used to be a lot. Then it reduced for a bit and it started again now. I ask her about her day and it's mostly about "he" said/did this and that. They started following each other everywhere and they share snaps and reels sometimes. Msgs are mostly work related. But yeah, she mentions him a lot.

She isn't cheating though. But this whole mentioning doesn't make me feel well either. Like, how can you keep bringing another guy into our conversations all the time? I kinda indirectly asked, and she was like that's just normal office convos and fun.

And yesterday it happened again when we met. I cooked food. Got flowers, dessert and I wanted to know how her day went. Just a minute into our conversations he pops up again and she is explaining about his future aspirations. I immediately said that I want to know about her and not the other guy. She just said 'oh my bad'. I don't know if I am being too insecure or this needs to be addressed.

Her affection did reduce a bit. But ain't too much. She still talks about our future, how much she cares etc. but things don't feel right!!

Earlier in the relationship we had a small argument and then she said that I kinda get offended easily. So if I bring this up again, I would just get the insecure label. How do I talk about this. Or should I just ignore?

We are celebrating our 8 months this weekend. Should I bring this up today itself or should I talk about it later? It's been more than a month now

It's been 8 months in relationship. Some new guy joined her team last month. She keeps mentioning him a lot. Initially it used to be a lot. Then it reduced for a bit and it started again now. I ask her about her day and it's mostly about "he" said/did this and that. They started following each other everywhere and they share snaps and reels sometimes. Msgs are mostly work related. But yeah, she mentions him a lot.

She isn't cheating though. But this whole mentioning doesn't make me feel well either. Like, how can you keep bringing another guy into our conversations all the time? I kinda indirectly asked, and she was like that's just normal office convos and fun.

And yesterday it happened again when we met. I cooked food. Got flowers, dessert and I wanted to know how her day went. Just a minute into our conversations he pops up again and she is explaining about his future aspirations. I immediately said that I want to know about her and not the other guy. She just said 'oh my bad'. I don't know if I am being too insecure or this needs to be addressed.

Her affection did reduce a bit. But ain't too much. She still talks about our future, how much she cares etc. but things don't feel right!!

Earlier in the relationship we had a small argument and then she said that I kinda get offended easily. So if I bring this up again, I would just get the insecure label. How do I talk about this. Or should I just ignore?

We are celebrating our 8 months this weekend. Should I bring this up today itself or should I talk about it later? It's been more than a month now

It's been 8 months in relationship. Some new guy joined her team last month. She keeps mentioning him a lot. Initially it used to be a lot. Then it reduced for a bit and it started again now. I ask her about her day and it's mostly about "he" said/did this and that. They started following each other everywhere and they share snaps and reels sometimes. Msgs are mostly work related. But yeah, she mentions him a lot.

She isn't cheating though. But this whole mentioning doesn't make me feel well either. Like, how can you keep bringing another guy into our conversations all the time? I kinda indirectly asked, and she was like that's just normal office convos and fun.

Her affection did reduce a bit. But ain't too much. She still talks about our future, how much she cares etc. but things don't feel right!!

Earlier in the relationship we had a small argument and then she said that I kinda get offended easily. So if I bring this up again, I would just get the insecure label. How do I talk about this. Or should I just ignore?

It's been 7 months of happy relationship. But my GF who is in college mentioned about me only to a couple of friends. From one of those friends I got to know that in a recent college event, the topic of relationships came up and she refused to mention about me. So this friend of hers told me recently that in front of guys she acts as if she is single. Only one guy knows about me. I stalked him and he isn't her type.

She is pretty happy in the relationship. I do everything for her. I cook sometimes, take her out, taught her some driving, took her out to Rishikesh and other trips. And I earn 10x compared what her college guys would earn when they graduate(i stalked each and single one of them, i have bots that fetch info from LinkedIn, instagram and google). Also I look better than most of them. I don't get what's the issue. Is she hungry for attention or does she just want to keep it private or is she shy or what.

I am guy with anxious attachment so this is a big deal for me. I don't wanna be the boyfriend that my GF isn't proud of.

I don't know if I should talk about this to her or if I am just overthinking. How should I bring it up