u/Eastern-Apricot-531

my 12 day old baby will NOT sleep anywhere but right by me. we don’t have to be touching but by the time i wake up she has wormed her way over to be touching me. i hate it. having her in the bed stresses me out but idk what else to do. as soon as i lay her in the bassinet she starts crying. & if i manage to get her laid down without her crying it takes no more than 30 mins before she’s crying. how do i get her to sleep in her bassinet?

so i’m 6 days pp and yesterday she stopped latching completely. i think she wasn’t getting enough on the boob so i decided pumping is my best option.
i’m getting 2 oz every pump so far but is that going to increase since im emptying every pump?
when she starts needing more what do i do? power pump?
and the pitcher method — my understanding was you put the cold in one and then dump it into the other when it gets cold but how do you know what to freeze? do i need another jar so im not mixing the days?
do you put vitamin D in one bottle?

any recommendations suggestions or advice for my new journey would be lovely! i really wanted to ebf but not everything goes as planned and im still blessed to be able to pump and don’t want to mess it up!

by baby is 3 days and when she wakes up she bobs her head with her mouth open and that’s how i know she wants to eat but everyone says her sucking on her hands is also a cue and she’ll do that after she ate… i feel like she should be eating longer but she’ll fall asleep on the boob sometimes she won’t and she’s fussy but once she unlatches she doesn’t latch again.. should i be worried or trust that she’s getting enough? she has no problems latching when she wants to

at my 36 week appointment i had my growth scan & during the growth scan my baby failed breathing movements so i had to do a NST & they said everything seemed to be okay the doctor told me me to pay attention to movements which has been kind of inconsistent for me so she said if i notice a long period of time of no movement to sit down with my feet up and do a kick count if i don’t get 10 kicks in an hour to go to the hospital and that happened and i told my bf i think i need to go to the hospital & i just had a bad gut feeling which i’ve never had this whole pregnancy & he told me as long as im not bleeding everything is okay but if i wanted to go i should go … so i go and when they’re hooking me up to monitor her heartbeat it took them almost 5 minutes to find it (which has never happened) & of course i’m internally freaking out & going thru this without him … everything was fine & they said i was starting to have contractions but they were pretty far apart & not getting closer so i was able to go home but now i can’t move past the fact i felt like something was wrong and he didn’t care enough to go with me to the hospital maybe im overreacting but i just feel like he doesn’t care about the baby now?? he has a son from a previous relationship and we had him this weekend and i just kept crying bc it hurt so bad to see how much he cares and loves his son but when i thought something was wrong with our daughter he didn’t care. i can’t even speak to him because i am SO hurt

edit: it was 6pm and i didn’t feel her move all day.