u/Educational-Okra-566

So I have a date coming up in a week with a girl I've been dying to go out with. Planning on getting dinner around 7 and then figuring out something fun to do after.

I'm thinking of a nicer, but nothing over the top kind of restaurant. The weather is supposed to be in the low 60s and a clear night so it might get a tad chilly later on if I just wore a polo.

I have some nice jCrew chinos I like, but I'm more so looking for a good top to wear. Any suggestions? Also any belt suggestions would be appreciated.

Thank you

So I've known her for a year (friend of a friend) and we've hung out in a group about 10 times. I've always liked her, and as of the last month and a half (hung out 3 times) she's made it pretty obvious that she likes me now.

I want to ask her out, but I'm not sure how to do it. I'll be away this weekend, but I can't wait any longer. I was thinking of texting her and setting something up for next saturday. My friend says I should wait and do it in person when we all hang out again next thursday.

I just think thats letting too much time pass. We all hungout a week ago and the 2 of us had a really good time, and I kinda got a slap in the face of "This girl likes you".

So I was working on a semester long project the spring. Everything was done correctly and legitimately up until the last week. In that last week we just had to take a few days worth of data and show it to the professor.

Right at the start of the final week, I dropped my project and it completely broke. I explained to my professor the situation and he said that if I don't fix it and get the data that he will have to fail me. I wasn't able to order the parts and have it fixed until the night before everything was due. This obviously wasn't enough time for me to get any real data so I just made it up as best as I could that night.

He seemed to think everything was good at first, but has now emailed me and is questioning me a lot on my raw data.

I know it was wrong to have cheated, but it is my last class I need to graduate and I got scared I would fail. I just feel lost right now.

edit: I had a meeting with the professor today. He immediately explained that he knew the data was fake, and I told him that was why I wanted to talk to him.

I explained the situation again and told the full truth. I mentioned how I worked on it, it broke and I just got anxious and made a stupid mistake. We talked for an hour about it and he was understanding of everything that happened, and he was happy that I was honest with him. He gave me the chance to finish remaking it and test it by the end of next week. (currently grind my butt off to get this done and graduate)

So I'm technically 4 weeks in. I had one slip up my first week and have been clean since then until today. Honestly I was doing really well and it was fairly easy as I've been keeping myself occupied.

Suddenly the past few nights is when things got weird. I just started getting these very vivid dreams and I'd wake up thinking about it. Usually after a couple minutes I was fine, but it was always a really intense feeling.

I had a slip up this morning after a really intense dream, and I just don't want to fall back in. I was feeling so good without it, but I'm currently fighting urges again.

Anyone else ever get vivid dreams, and did they go away?

I was just looking for some good tops for a summer date night; either casual or a little dressier. Polos, button downs, and any specific brands you guys like?

For reference I'm 5'10, 170lbs with an athletic build.

Thanks