I got my peak opk on cd12, and I would have thought my temp would have stayed up today, but it’s dipped again and I’m not so sure.. what do you think? Could the rise from cd11 have been, or have I not ovulated yet? Thank you for your help 😌
*TW - mention of chemical pregnancy*
So long story short me and my husband have been married 2 years and together 3, we first met in person 4 years ago. Before we met in person we were in the talking stage and he was talking to this girl from another country as friends, but they shared intimate pictures and stuff, this is before we officially got together. Well when we got together I said I didn’t want him to talk to her anymore because they’d shared intimate stuff and it felt weird. He said okay, and when he told her that he couldn’t talk to her anymore she kinda flipped, and they cut contact. Anyway, that was all 4 years ago and he hasn’t spoke to her since.
Last night we had a little disagreement about something, wasn’t even a massive argument or anything, and I went to bed. This morning he waited till he was at work to tell me that he needed to talk to me about something. He told me that he’d reached out to the girl to apologise for how things ended the last time they spoke (4 years ago). He knew it would upset me, and said he realised he’d crossed a boundary but he was sorry and wanted to tell me instead of hiding it. My issue now is that it was 4 years ago, and I don’t understand why he needed to reach out now? We have just been through a 2nd chemical in a row and obviously I’m upset about that, and the timing is awful with the disagreement last night and the start of the second chemical loss. I don’t know if I’m being overly sensitive about being upset about it? I just don’t understand why he needs to reach out. He said he didn’t even think about me until after he’d done it, so that just makes it more hurtful.
He said he had a dream that I cheated on him too, and I might be reaching but it feels like he’s projecting there, because I’ve never done anything to warrant that, and he has full access to my phone if he wanted.
I’m just really hurt, but Am I Wrong for being as hurt as I am? Am I just being silly?
EDIT: just found out he downloaded an app he deleted ages ago and made a new one just to talk to her- and didn’t even think about me once while doing any of this 🙄
EDIT 2: thank you to everyone who commented, it makes feel better to know I’m not being overly sensitive.
We spoke about it, and I asked if he wanted to keep in contact with her and he does as friends, so I don’t think it was ever really just about apologising for how things ended. Looks like we have a lot to work on, and things were worse than it originally appeared.
Had a chemical last month, can you see the progress?
Had a chemical last month so definitely on edge. Please tell me you can see progress in those lines?
I normally spot 1-2 days before my period, so when I started spotting on 9dpo I thought I was just starting my period about 4 days early. Anyway the spotting never turned into a full flow like it usually does so i tested yesterday at 11dpo. The lines are faint but they’re there. I took more tests today and know it’s every 48 hrs they compare but they don’t seem any darker at all, and I’m scared. I’m still spotting. It’s on and off, pink/ brown with some red streaks sometimes. I’m due my period around tomorrow, with it being due at the latest on Monday, but I feel like it’s going to come. I’ve got the cramps (light but still period type) and the spotting. I had a chemical last cycle too, I feel like this is just my fate and I’m going to have another one now😩
So basically I spot before my period every cycle, at least 1 day, sometimes most of day 2. I had a bbt dip yesterday (9dpo) and started spotting in the afternoon (CD24/28) anyway, it’s continued into today but it’s not getting red/ full flow, so I decided to test. It was a random test in the afternoon, not even after a hold and idk if I’m just creating false lines. My bbt went back above cover, but only just, so I’m not really sure what’s happening. Can anyone see anything? Thanks
Literally posted yesterday about how hopeful I was with the rise in temp 8dpo. Now this morning on 9dpo I wake up and my temp is below cover, and I’ve got period cramps. I’m cd24/28 and normally have an average lutheal phase of 12 days, so it’s a bit early hahah.
I’m only 8dpo, I know, but this is my first cycle after a chemical. The fact that all my temps are above cover (I’ve noticed on period cycles I dip below cover in tww) and that my temp has risen on 8dpo, I’m so hopeful and hoping for a good outcome this time… what do you think?
I had a chemical in May, It seems I’ve ovulated very early at CD8, would you say this is right? Or is it wrong? Coz if it’s right I’ve missed my chance this month 😩 thank you!
As title says, I feel like there’s a small progression, but I’ve been getting vvvvfl on different tests since about 11dpo. I’ve had spotting Saturday after that stopped, then 24 hrs later I had more but then it stopped again. This morning I’ve had some more, it’s light bleeding but not like a period at all and the cramps are not as bad as a period either. Tests look like they could be progressing a little bit, I’m not sure but I would have thorght if the spotting the last few days was bad the tests would be noticeably lighter. I’m obviously preparing for the worst, but gonna ring gp if I can on Wednesday if my period hasn’t started.
The clear blue ones are 24hr apart, the first response are 48 hours maybe? They new ones were taken yesterday. I had some spotting yesterday afternoon that’s since stopped, but I don’t feel like the lines are as dark as they should be. I’m gonna re-test tomorrow to compare the 48 hr samples as long as I don’t start to bleed red between now and then.
So I’m only like 3w6d/4 weeks. Yesterday I had one drop of red blood and started to panic. I spiralled, as you do. It turned pale pinky/watery or mixed with ew discharge and then yesterday evening it stopped and I haven’t had any since. I’m so scared because I’ve had chemicals before and as soon as I saw that blood I knew in my heart it is over.. but the spotting stopped, I haven’t had anymore overnight. My boobs are still sore, I’m due my period today so the spotting is normal before I start a full flow..
Im trying to be positive, but I’ve got a cold and I feel lousy as it is, feel a bit nauseous and my boobs hurt in waves and I’ve cramps, which is the bit that’s scaring me. I’m going to wait till tomorrow and take another test if the spotting doesn’t turn into red, full flow, but I’m so scared.
Just to add; my lines have been really faint but there has been some progress over the days, and I got a positive digital yesterday.
I had a chemical in December and tried since, but got nothing, until this month. I got a faint positive on 11dpo then on 13dpo my tests are still faint but they have progressed slightly and I got a positive digital. Anyway, I’ve felt awful the last few days, nausea and tired, think I’m getting a cold too. This afternoon I went to wipe and saw a spot of red blood. I knew instantly that this isn’t great news. It stopped for a bit, but then I went toilet again and there was more pink/red blood. In my heart I know that this is not going anywhere to stick and I’m so so sad. I had so much hope.. I literally got the positive digital test this morning, I was so happy, so excited to see the words. This would be my third chemical pregnancy, and I’m just so sad.
Came up in time, but I’m worried it’s an indent. Think it’s faintly pink irl but I’m not totally sure tbh.
I know I’m only 6po and it’s still early days, and the dip is still above the cover, but the decline in temps the last few days makes me so sad. I was soooo hopeful and now I’m just trying to guard my heart. I was woken up a few times last night so I’m really hoping it’s just that, but be honest, does this look bad?
I’ve been using BBT for 6 months and only started opks last month. I never got solid cross hairs, only dotted ones. I’m so happy that I finally got solid ones! It’s so stupid to be happy over something like this, but I have a really good feeling this month, I ovulated earlier than usual and everything seems to be going okay!