I wanna come out to my mother
My father is really homophobic and he lives away in england and we do in Poland. Mom and step dad have no opinion on gay, feminine boys, trans people. And dad is very homophobic and conservative but I feel like he would bend his rules for me. I really don't want to start a conversation saying "Mom I'm gay I wanna wear women's clothes" would it be a bad idea to blatantly hide my clothes so when she looks around my room one day she can find it and ask me "what is this"? Or is that a bar idea?