u/Eliber09

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I kind of an questioning a bit about myself, because I know for sure I'm not 100% ace, but I'm definitely on the spectrum

I know for sure the only general time I get aroused by anything is highly fictional, fantasy scenarios typically with anthro characters (like BD dragonborns as an example, or Skyrim dragons), vampires characters, werewolves, but I knew if it were real, I'd have generally zero attraction whatsoever. (So between that I'm either aego or fictosexual)

For me in reality, I have to really really trust you to even consider sex. And even then, sex seems like a chore that I don't want to do. I'd do it if I wanted a biological child, or just to pleasure my partner because for me, I dont have to be getting off to engage in something like gentle, passionate and loving intimacy between me and a spouse. But even the idea of it makes me kind of.. bored.

It's what I'm always going back to. Sex sounds so completely absolutely boring to me. Like, I'd do it. It just doesn't sound even any bit fun.

So my general prerequisites would be:

About 3-4 years of knowing said person and of trust. 1 year or more of relationship

Attracted more to someone's personality, and character traits rather than their appearance

Would genuinely just need a valid reason as to why I'm doing it, other than that, it's boring, and I don't see any genuinely productive reason to it as I've never wanted kids and I'm pretty much infertile as I have really bad PCOS.

I've always thought maybe I'd be a bit more tolerant if I was man, because every time I think about it, it seemed more interesting as a man than a woman. Which is kind of how I found out I was trans.