u/EmbarrassedFile6175

24 [M4F], California/Anywhere - Looking for best friend/potentially more!

I apologize if this post is structured weird, I have NO idea how to put this in writing so I'm kinda winging it, haha.

It's nice to meet you! You can call me R, I'm currently living in California, but I have no problem with long distance!

As my post title states, right now I'm looking to find someone who I can form a friendship with, and see if it goes anywhere from there! I'm some brand of asexual (not too sure on which term fits me best, honestly? I've been told aegosexual or gray ace might be the best fit, but if you have any questions, feel free to ask!) and heteromantic.

Ideally you'd be someone who I could hang out with over calls, playing games with until the late hours and make dumb jokes over nothing together! Though it doesn't have to just be games, quality time is one of my favorite love languages, and ideally I'd love to find someone who I could spend time together with! (You also do \*not\* have to be good at games either- I suck at plenty of games and honestly they're funnier that way lmao)

As far as personality preferences go, I guess I'd prefer someone on the nerdier side, as we're most likely to have hobbies or interests that overlap that way!

For aesthetic preferences, I do prefer those on the larger end of the plus size side of things, but aesthetic preferences don't really matter to me much tbh!

To describe myself, I'm pretty awkward/quiet, but I tend to open up pretty quickly if we click- the classic 'extroverted only around the right person' kind of thing haha. I've been told I'm caring, so I think that's a plus?

For hobbies, as I mentioned before, I enjoy gaming, but I also really love to cook and bake! Reading too, and an honorable mention to creative writing.

I probably forgot to add some info here as I'm not used to writing posts on mobile, so feel free to ask me in messages! Thanks for reading my absolute mess of a post :)

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u/EmbarrassedFile6175 — 3 days ago

24m [PC, PST] Looking for non-dry texting gaming friends!

Hey there! I'm currently looking for long-term friends, or even a friend group, as unfortunately, my last group had a big falling out. I mostly play on PC! Though currently, my computer is in the repair shop after the fans/heat sink failed on me. :') So it might be a few days before I can actually start gaming again! It should only be about 3-4 days before I can start gaming again from the time I post this!

I play a variety of games, and can provide my steam library on request, but currently I've been really getting back into modded minecraft, and I'd love to set up a modded java minecraft server! Though honestly, I'm up for just about any game! (Except horror maybe, I do NOT handle horror well haha.)

There's more than these, but my main games (when my pc wasn't exploded) were Minecraft \[Java\], Town of Salem 2, Civ 5, Stardew Valley, Risk of Rain 2, Starbound, and Abiotic Factor, in no particular order!

I don't have many requirements, except that you're 21+, and aren't a dry texter. Not every message has to be detailed, but I'm really tired of getting 1-2 word responses every message. Feel free to shoot me a message with any questions too! I'm sure I forgot some things while typing this, lol

I'd also appreciate it if you were in my timezone, or close to it! I'm good with a 3-4 hour difference either way, and may make exceptions, but I'm generally not looking for gaming friends with wildly different timezones.

If you message me, let me know which post you're messaging me about! I have a couple different posts in other communities up right now.

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u/EmbarrassedFile6175 — 4 days ago

24 [M4F] Nerd looking for best friend/potentially more

I apologize if this post is structured weird, I have NO idea how to put this in writing so I'm kinda winging it, haha.

(Forgot to add US/Open to LDR, whoops!)

It's nice to meet you! You can call me R, I'm currently living in California, but I have no problem with long distance!

As my post title states, right now I'm looking to find someone who I can form a friendship with, and see if it goes anywhere from there! I'm some brand of asexual (not too sure on which term fits me best, honestly? I've been told aegosexual might be the best fit, but if you have any questions, feel free to ask!) and heteromantic.

Ideally you'd be someone who I could hang out with over calls, playing games with until the late hours and make dumb jokes over nothing together! Though it doesn't have to just be games, quality time is one of my favorite love languages, and ideally I'd love to find someone who I could spend time together with! (You also do *not* have to be good at games either- I suck at plenty of games and honestly they're funnier that way lmao)

As far as personality preferences go, I guess I'd prefer someone on the nerdier side, as we're most likely to have hobbies or interests that overlap that way!

For aesthetic preferences, I do prefer those on the larger end of the plus size side of things, but aesthetic preferences don't really matter to me much tbh!

To describe myself, I'm pretty awkward/quiet, but I tend to open up pretty quickly if we click- the classic 'extroverted only around the right person' kind of thing haha. I've been told I'm caring, so I think that's a plus?

For hobbies, as I mentioned before, I enjoy gaming, but I also really love to cook and bake! Reading too, and an honorable mention to creative writing.

I probably forgot to add some info here as I'm not used to writing posts on mobile, so feel free to ask me in messages! Thanks for reading my absolute mess of a post :)

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u/EmbarrassedFile6175 — 5 days ago

[24m] [PST] Looking for new non dry-texting friends!

Hey there! Thanks for reading my post. I'm here because I'm looking for new friends, especially since my last friend group fell apart, haha.

I'm an introvert as you can probably guess, my main hobbies being PC gaming, cooking, and reading. Unfortunately my computer is currently at the repair shop, so I'm extra bored right now, at least until it gets repaired

Mostly looking for new long-term friends! I'd really appreciate if you aren't a dry texter, as I can't stand carrying conversations 24/7. I play a huge variety of games, but I've been getting back into modded minecraft recently. If you have any questions, feel free to shoot me a message!

Please let me know what post you're messaging me for, because I have a few posts up in other communities right now! :)

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u/EmbarrassedFile6175 — 6 days ago

Asexual with 'non standard' preferences?

Didn't know what else to title my post, lol-

So I'm Asexual (or at least some variety of it, it's complicated and I'm not sure what specific term fits me best) and heteromantic, and have been for as long as I can remember. Well for me, I have a specific aesthetic attraction, that being to the larger end of plus size, yet when I've explained this to people before, even others on the asexual spectrum too, I've been labeled as just having a 'fat fetish', and it always left a sour taste in my mouth to be labeled as such when my attraction isn't sexual in nature at all.

I was wondering if anyone else has gone through something similar?

I've been thinking about this for a long time and only now just recently gathered the courage to post about it, so I may end up just deleting this post, who knows lol

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u/EmbarrassedFile6175 — 6 days ago

24m [PST] [PC] Looking for non-dry gaming friends!

Hey there! I'm currently looking for long-term friends, or even a friend group, as unfortunately, my last group had a big falling out. I mostly play on PC! Though currently, my computer is in the repair shop after the fans/heat sink failed on me. :') So it might be a few days before I can actually start gaming again! It should only be about 3-4 days before I can start gaming again from the time I post this!

I play a variety of games, and can provide my steam library on request, but currently I've been really getting back into modded minecraft, and I'd love to set up a modded java minecraft server! Though honestly, I'm up for just about any game! (Except horror maybe, I do NOT handle horror well haha.)

There's more than these, but my main games (when my pc wasn't exploded) were Minecraft [Java], Town of Salem 2, Civ 5, Stardew Valley, Risk of Rain 2, Starbound, and Abiotic Factor, in no particular order!

I don't have many requirements, except that you're 21+, and aren't a dry texter. Not every message has to be detailed, but I'm really tired of getting 1-2 word responses every message. Feel free to shoot me a message with any questions too! I'm sure I forgot some things while typing this, lol

I'd also appreciate it if you were in my timezone, or close to it! I'm good with a 3-4 hour difference either way, and may make exceptions, but I'm generally not looking for gaming friends with wildly different timezones.

If you message me, let me know which post you're messaging me about! I have a couple different posts in other communities up right now.

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u/EmbarrassedFile6175 — 6 days ago

[24M] PST, looking for non-dry gaming friends!

Hey there! I'm currently looking for long-term friends, or even a friend group, as unfortunately, my last group had a big falling out. I mostly play on PC! Though currently, my computer is in the repair shop after the fans/heat sink failed on me. :') So it might be a few days before I can actually start gaming again!

I play a variety of games, and can provide my steam library on request, but currently I've been really getting back into modded minecraft, and I'd love to set up a modded java minecraft server! Though honestly, I'm up for just about any game! (Except horror maybe, I do NOT handle horror well haha.)

I don't have many requirements, except that you're 21+, and aren't a dry texter. Not every message has to be detailed, but I'm really tired of getting 1-2 word responses every message. Feel free to shoot me a message with any questions too! I'm sure I forgot some things while typing this, lol

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u/EmbarrassedFile6175 — 7 days ago

24M [PST] Looking for new, non dry-texting friends

Hey there! Thanks for reading my post. I'm here because I'm looking for new friends, especially since my last friend group fell apart, haha.

I'm an introvert as you can probably guess, my main hobbies being PC gaming, cooking, and reading. Unfortunately my computer is currently at the repair shop, so I'm extra bored right now, at least until it gets repaired

Mostly looking for new long-term friends! I'd really appreciate if you aren't a dry texter, as I can't stand carrying conversations 24/7. I play a huge variety of games, but I've been getting back into modded minecraft recently. If you have any questions, feel free to shoot me a message!

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u/EmbarrassedFile6175 — 7 days ago